Mindset Power

Self-Relationship, Coaching, Motivational speaking

Founder

Tax-Fin-Lex

My responsibilities as head of marketing:
1. Digital marketing channels:
     - Google Adwords (preparation of advertising campaigns and optimization for reaching KPIs)
     - Facebook (preparation of posts and advertising campaigns and optimization for achieving 
        KPIs)
     - LinkedIn (preparing posts and participating in various LinkedIn Groups)
     - Google Analytics (preparation of regular analyzes for further decision-making on 
      advertising campaigns and optimization of the website for achieving KPIs)
      - Email marketing (preparing email campaigns for getting potential customers, drive sales 
      and brand awareness)
      - Advertising in internal e-media (preparation of banners in daily and weekly e-newsletter)
- Other social media content management (Twitter, Instagram)

2. Preparation of marketing plans and strategies at company level
3. Preparation of marketing materials (brochures, roll-ups, etc.)
4. Collaboration with Sales managers
5. Updating copy for web page and preparing copy for landing pages

About Tax-Fin-Lex d.o.o.:
Tax-Fin-Lex d.o.o. is a private company with its service being in creating online legislation portals in a user friendly way by providing comprehensive collections of legislation related to the subject-matter. 
Our main expertise is in monitoring, collecting, processing information related to Taxes (TAX), accounting and finances (FIN) and Fields of law (LEX) and updating the TFL data base on daily basis. 

Tax-Fin-Lex is specialized in the field of legal information science, text processing, recognition of hierarchical structure of documents, their related texts, their smallest structural elements (articles, paragraphs, indents, units…) and their content.

Head of Marketing

GO DIREKT, Goran Klobučar, s.p.

Digital marketing specialist & Owner/CEO

Lisac&Lisac

Projects manager

Mladinska knjiga

Project manager

Why continue to struggle with challenges in your relationships? 
Unlock lasting and fulfilling relationships — 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳.

Over the past four years, I’ve devoted myself to deep self-reflection and growth. During this journey, I’ve come to understand that building a strong and authentic relationship with oneself is the foundation for all other relationships. 

And even more ... 

𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗮𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲.

It influences how you think, the choices you make, and how you relate to others. 

Remember - 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗾𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗱𝗲𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗾𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲.

When you cultivate self-awareness, self-compassion, and self-trust, you unlock the power to live authentically and create meaningful change. Instead of being trapped by limiting beliefs or unfulfilled desires, you start moving toward the life you genuinely want.

🌟 Now is the time to awaken, embrace your true self, and start building a strong and loving self-relationship. 🌟

Are you ready to take the first step in reconnecting with your authentic self?
Do you want to live a life aligned with your true values and aspirations?

Start by reflecting on these questions:
💙 How do I nurture and care for myself on a daily basis?
💜 Am I kind and forgiving toward myself when I make mistakes?
💙 How do I feel about spending time alone with my thoughts?
💜 What is the current biggest challenge that I am facing?
💙 What do I need the most right now?
💜 If I were the bravest version of myself today what would I have been doing?
💙 Do I trust myself to make decisions that are best for me?
💜 What is one way I can be kinder to myself today?
💙 What are the strengths and qualities I love most about myself?
💜 What emotions am I avoiding, and why?


Writing down your answers can provide valuable insights. It’s essential to be completely honest with yourself. That’s the key to creating real, lasting change.

If you’re curious about what your next step should be, I invite you to a FREE SESSION where we can explore your answers and begin the process of reconnecting with your true self and 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗯𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗳𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 - 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽.

DM me, and let's set up a time.

Some mornings after my divorce,

I didn’t even want to lift my head off the pillow.

Not because I was lazy.
Because I felt broken.
As a man, a father, a partner.

It felt like everything I built collapsed overnight,
and I was left standing in the ruins.

And the worst part…
I had no idea what the hell to do next.

People say, “It gets better.”
But they never tell you what happens in between.
- You wake up lost.
-  You doubt every choice you ever made.
-  You grieve things that were hurting you, 
but you still miss them anyway.

And, yes, it’s messy.
It’s confusing.
It’s unsettling as hell.

Some days you overthink.
Some days you feel numb.
Some days you’re angry at everything and nothing.

And that’s when you face a simple truth:
You have a choice now.
𝗥𝗲𝗯𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱, 𝗼𝗿 𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗲𝗮𝘁.

If you rebuild, it won’t be clean or pretty.
But it will be real.
𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗯𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀.

You’re not doing it to “stay strong.”
You’re doing it because you finally understand
that pretending is what broke you in the first place.

And once you start rebuilding, everything begins to shift.
Slowly, without even noticing at first, you start changing.

You get clearer.
You stop lying to yourself.
You meet parts of you that you ignored for years.
You catch yourself saying something honest
for the first time in a long time.
You act differently in situations where you used to collapse.
Your thoughts stop attacking you.
Your self-talk gets a little kinder.

Tiny shifts, but they add up.
And you feel them.

This is what I want for you.
And that’s why I’m here.

You can send me a private message if you want to talk,
or watch this video I made just for men in this situation:
👉 https://lnkd.in/dCmP9h6a

Goran Klobučar

Helping Men Rebuild After Divorce, or Strengthen the Connection With Their Partner Before It’s Too Late — by Rebuilding the Relationship They Have With Themselves | Self-Relationship Architect | ⬇Learn How on the Video⬇

Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage.
 
It crushes the way you see yourself as a man.

You look in the mirror and you don’t see strength.
You see the man who “failed.”

I remember those mornings.
Standing in front of the mirror, but not recognizing
the guy staring back at me.

He looked tired.
Hollow.
Like life had punched the fight out of him.

And the only thought running through my head was,
“You failed as a husband.
You failed your kids.
You failed as a man.”

That thought became my soundtrack for months.
It poisoned everything.
Even when I pretended to smile, I could feel the shame underneath it.

But here’s what I learned the hard way,
and what most men never hear:

The cracks in that mirror don’t mean you’re broken.
They mean you’ve been through hell… and you’re still standing.

Those cracks are not your shame,
they’re your entry point.

That’s where healing starts.
That’s where you begin to rebuild the man you lost.

My change came when I stopped trying to fix the image,
and started fixing the man behind it.
When I began rebuilding my self-relationship,
the shame lost its power.

I stopped seeing a failure.
I started seeing someone who survived.
Someone who was learning to respect himself again.

You don’t heal by hiding your cracks.
You heal by facing them, one honest moment at a time.

That’s how you find the man you thought you lost.
Be honest with yourself for a second.
What do you see in the mirror these days?

If you’re done feeling like a failure every time you look at your reflection,
it’s time to rebuild from the inside out.

Comment “MIRROR” or message me.
I’ll help you see the man you actually are,
not the one your shame keeps showing you.


P.S. If you’re a man reading this and don’t want to engage publicly, I get it. Reach out privately. We can talk, no pressure, no judgement. 
Just two men having a real conversation.

“She’s my better half.”
 Sounds sweet… but
 it quietly shows something different.

You know, I’ve been thinking…
Why do we call our partners
our “better half”?

I know it’s meant in a good way.
But still.

Well, it’s not wrong,
it just quietly puts us men a step lower.

Like we’re the lesser part.
And that’s not the truth.

Don’t get me wrong.
The intention is beautiful.
But it’s still conditioning.
 
We’ve heard this phrase for years,
and we’ve repeated it without thinking.

But let’s be honest…

What if we called her:
My Angel.
My Queen.
My blessing.
My second heartbeat.

All of these still show respect, love, and admiration…
without making you small in the process.

And let me be straight:
You’re not half of anything.
 
Neither is she.
 
You’re two whole people choosing each other.

Let me know what's your take on this.

Many professionals spend their days solving problems,
 
except the one quietly shaping everything: 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺𝘀𝗲𝗹𝘃𝗲𝘀.

It’s easy to optimize systems. Hit deadlines. Track metrics.
But when was the last time you tracked 𝘆𝗼𝘂?

The way you shut down when your partner brings up emotions.
The irritation that builds when things feel out of your control.
The moments you distract yourself with work instead of facing what’s real.

That’s not weakness.
That’s disconnection.

And you can’t grow what you refuse to look at.

𝗔𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝘂𝗻𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗶𝘁 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵.
𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝘀𝗼 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗯𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗻𝘀.

When you start seeing yourself clearly 
(the emotions, the reactions, the beliefs)
you stop living on autopilot and start leading with presence.

Because the truth is, you don’t need to fix everything.
You just need to start seeing yourself.

If you want to understand how your self-relationship
shapes every part of your life, including relationships, 
I recorded a short video: “How to Stop Losing and Save Yourself in Relationships and Start Living a Better Life.”
 
You can watch it right now: https://bit.ly/49TjIrG

I’ve got a phoenix tattooed on my back.
Not because it looks cool,
but because it tells my story.

When my marriage ended, I felt like I was burning alive.
Everything I’d built went up in flames.
 
The man I thought I was:
- a devoted husband, 
- a loyal man,
- a family guy,
disappeared.

I remember thinking, How the hell do I start again?
I had no idea who I was without her.
Without “us.”

But fire doesn’t just destroy.
It reveals what’s real.
It strips away everything that isn’t meant to stay.

In those ashes, I found something I’d lost years ago: 𝗺𝗲.

I started rebuilding from the ground up.
Not the house, not the marriage,
but the foundation, my self-relationship.

That’s where the rebirth happened.

Where I stopped being a man chasing approval
and became a man standing in his own power again.

Pain isn’t the end.
It’s the fire that burns off everything fake.
And what’s left, that’s your truth.

If you’re standing in your own ashes right now,
don’t wait for someone to save you.
 
You are the Phoenix.
You rise when you decide to rebuild.

P.S. I recorded a video just for men, to show you how I rebuilt myself after my divorce, and how you can too. 
You can watch it here: https://bit.ly/438HV9A

Men don’t avoid arguments.
 
They avoid feeling stuck with no clue how to handle it.

When a man walks into a tense conversation, his whole system locks up.

Not because he wants to fight, but
because deep down he’s thinking:
“What do I even do with this?”

And when there’s no clear path, two things happen:
He shuts down, or he snaps. (I know, I was like that.)

And both feel terrible, for him and for the person he loves.

The real problem isn’t anger.
It’s not even communication.

It’s this:
We were never taught how to handle emotions when they rise.

We grew up learning to:
stay quiet,
ignore it,
or pretend we’re fine.

Nobody taught us how to:
stay grounded,
listen without feeling attacked,
speak honestly without blowing up.

So, of course, conflicts and arguments feel like 
walking into a fire with no equipment.

But …
When you stop treating every hard conversation like a threat to your worth…
When you stay present instead of trying to fix or defend…
When you stop taking everything as an attack…

You stop reacting and 
you start responding.

Arguments turn into real conversations,
your partner stops feeling like the enemy,
and you stop feeling like it’s “too much work.”

This doesn’t come from memorizing communication tips.
It comes from one thing:
𝗙𝗶𝘅𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳.

Not in a soft, vague way, but by learning the tools that keep you steady, 
even when emotions run high.

Because when you're steady inside yourself,
you lead through argument instead of collapsing in it.
 
𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗮𝗻 𝗮𝗿𝗴𝘂𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗵𝗶𝘁𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗱𝗲𝘀𝘁❓
 
(If you don’t want to answer publicly, send me a private message. I’m here.)

Yes, I cried while watching a movie. 
 
And I’m not ashamed to say it.

It was not long after my divorce.
I was alone at home one evening and decided to watch The Notebook.
(Have you seen it?)

At first, I thought it would just be a movie.
But something in it cracked me open.

I saw love, loss, regret.
And all the emotions I had been holding for months…
they finally caught up with me.

I cried like a baby.
Not the quiet kind of crying.
The deep, heavy sobbing that shakes your whole body.

But when it was over, something strange happened.
I felt lighter.
Like I had finally let out everything I’d been carrying.

That’s when I realized,
tears aren’t weakness.
They’re release.
 
They’re how your body says, “I’m ready to stop pretending I’m fine.”

So if you’ve been holding it in for too long… don’t.
Let it come out.
You’ll be surprised how healing it feels.

Crying is like laughing, a part of life, and beneficial for your health.

When was the last time you allowed yourself to shed a tear?

Here are the signs I ignored for years, 

the same ones you might be feeling right now:

⚠️ Still walking around the tension in the house, pretending it’s nothing.
⚠️ Still overthinking every simple conversation, afraid it will turn into something heavy.
⚠️ Still avoiding the hard talks because you freeze the moment emotions show up.
⚠️ Still pleasing her to keep the peace, even though you’re losing respect for yourself.
⚠️ Still feeling like a stranger in your own home, even when everything looks “fine” from the outside.

These are not small things.
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀.

I didn’t understand them.
I thought things would “just get better” if I stayed calm, 
stayed nice, stayed quiet.

They didn’t.
Avoidance kills connection one day at a time.

And listen…
I know you want things to work.
I know you’re trying.
I know you’re doing your best with what you know.

But you also feel the truth:
This can only lead to a breaking point you didn’t mean to create, 
but did by doing nothing.

But here’s what I didn’t see back then...
Those signs were warnings, invitations.
They were doors, life kept opening, so I would finally face myself.

I ignored every single one, and it cost me my relationship.

That tension in the house, the distance, the silence, 
the heaviness in your chest… it’s not there to punish you.

It’s there to wake you up.

If you keep pushing this aside, you’ll end up where I did, 
realizing too late that the real damage wasn’t the relationship falling apart,
it was you abandoning yourself slowly for years.

And that’s the part that hurts the most.

This is not the moment to wait.
𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗮𝗰𝘁.

To stop hoping things magically change and start changing
the one thing you actually control, 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳.

If you feel yourself in this, send me a private message.
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
 
P.S. I also recorded a short video for men who feel exactly this. 
You can watch it here: https://bit.ly/438HV9A

Many love to write “Things I’d tell my 20-year-old self.”

Not me. I wouldn’t tell him a damn thing.

Because every mistake he made, 
every heartbreak he walked into, 
every wrong turn he took, 
every fear he avoided, 
every night he questioned his worth…
 
that’s exactly what shaped me into the man I am today.

If I told him what to do, who to avoid, how to think, how to feel…
I’d erase myself.

I wouldn’t be here.
 
Not with this clarity.
Not with this strength.
Not with this mission.
Not with this heart and loving self-relationship.

And honestly, I honor that younger version of me way too much
to rob him of the experiences that shaped me and made me grow.

He needed to fall apart so I could stop abandoning myself.
He needed to struggle so I could learn how to stand.
He needed to hit the wall so I could rebuild the foundation inside me.

So, no advice.
No shortcuts.
No warnings.

Maybe just this:
Keep going.
You need every single part of this journey.
Even the parts that feel impossible.
 
Everything you’re going through is teaching you how to finally choose yourself.

And I’m grateful for every step that got me here.
 
𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗮𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝟮𝟬-𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿-𝗼𝗹𝗱 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳❓

Maybe you are thinking:
»Why should I trust you with something this big?«
If I were you, I wouldn’t trust me right away either.

When a man is about to invest real money and open the most vulnerable
parts of his life, he’s not buying a program.
 
He’s buying safety.
He’s buying clarity.
He’s buying the feeling of finally not carrying everything alone.

And you don’t hand that over to someone you don’t feel grounded with.

So let me answer you honestly.
You shouldn’t trust me immediately.

I asked myself the same thing when I was the one looking for help.

No one earns trust from a single post or a single message.

Trust isn’t something you give.
It’s something that gets built, step by step.

That’s why I never push.
I don’t do pressure.
I don’t do hype.
And I don’t want you to decide out of fear or insecurity.

Here’s how trust actually forms between me and the men I work with:
✅ You start by talking with me, not performing
✅ You see I’m actually listening, not waiting to talk
✅ You see I don’t judge you, even when you tell the hardest parts
✅ You feel the space I hold, and you realise you can breathe again
✅ You get clarity, not confusion
✅ You feel safer with yourself after one conversation, not more lost
✅ You see I’ve lived what you’re living, not reading about it in books

That’s how trust starts.
Not from promises.
Not from tactics.
But from presence.

And the truth is this...
You’re not trusting me with your life.
You’re trusting yourself enough to take the next step.

My role is simply to guide you through a process that will help you to rebuild your identity, your confidence, and your relationships with yourself and others.

If you want to find out whether we actually fit, the best way is to hop
on to the clarity call. 
 
And if it doesn’t feel right, you’ll still walk away with more clarity on where you’re losing yourself and what your next step is.

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗮 𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘀𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲, 𝘀𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝗺𝗲 𝗮 𝗽𝗿𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗺𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗲.
𝗪𝗲’𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗸.
 
You’ll know very quickly if I’m the right person for you or not.
And it goes both ways, if I feel we’re not the right fit, I’ll tell you straight. 
No hard feelings.

I thought we were fine.
We fought rarely.
The kids were okay. Life looked stable.
 
But the truth?
We were not truly connected.

I mistook peace for connection.
I was polite, but distant.
Helpful, but unavailable.
Present in the room, missing in the relationship.

I didn’t know how to lead emotionally, so I avoided it.
 
I thought that staying calm, keeping the peace, 
and agreeing with everyting made me a good man.

It didn’t.
It made me disconnected.
Until it was already too late.

I had to go through a divorce to learn all that.

Please, don`t wait so long. 
 
Most men don’t see this…
 
They think everything is “fine” because nothing is falling apart.
But silence kills relationships long before arguments do.
 
They feel under pressure to open up emotionally, 
but they don’t know how.

So they shut down.

They wait for things to fix themselves.
But this only pushes their partner further away.

You go to bed hoping tomorrow will feel different, but it never does.
 
Bit by bit, the distance grows, until one day it feels like you live 
next to a stranger.

This is why I help men see the truth earlier.

Because emotional disconnection doesn’t start with her losing interest.
It starts with you losing yourself.

When you reconnect with yourself,
you stop killing the relationship without even knowing it.

And you stop waking up one day shocked that your whole world fell apart.

Let’s talk before the silence turns into goodbye.

P.S. If you’re a man reading this and don’t want to engage publicly, I get it. Reach out privately. We can talk, no pressure, no judgement. Just two men having a real conversation.

How do you know you’re silently divorced?

You know you’re silently divorced when:
- you talk less, and when you do, it’s surface-level
- you’re irritated by small things she does, but you can’t explain why 
- you avoid hard conversations because you freeze when emotions show up
- you feel invisible in the relationship, even when she’s right there
- you touch less, sit further apart, and pretend it’s “normal”
- you overthink everything you say because you don’t want another conflict
- you’re pleasing her to keep peace, but losing respect for yourself in the process

Let me be brutally honest with you.
This was me.

I told myself she was the problem.
She annoyed me.
She triggered me.
She got on my nerves.

But after the divorce…
I realised the part no man wants to admit.
It wasn’t her.
It was me.

I was angry because I wasn’t proud of myself.
I was irritated because I was disconnected from myself.
I was triggered because I didn’t know who I was anymore.
I blamed her because it was easier than facing my own inner mess.
 
That’s what the silent divorce does.
It convinces you she is the enemy,
when the real battle is happening inside you.

And yes, sometimes it’s not only you. 
Sometimes the dynamic is broken on both sides.
But you’re still responsible for your life and for who you choose to become inside that situation.
 
And here’s the part you need to take seriously.
If you don’t deal with this,
you will end up where I ended up.

Divorced.
Telling yourself “I should have done something sooner.”

I learned the hard way.
And there’s nothing empowering about that path.

Listen...
Don’t focus on how she makes you feel.
𝗙𝗼𝗰𝘂𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝘆 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝘆.

She’s not the cause.
𝗦𝗵𝗲’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗴𝗲𝗿.

Your inner world, your unresolved stuff,
your self-relationship, that’s the real source.

If you don’t rebuild that,
no amount of communication hacks, or “trying to be nicer” will save anything.

The silent divorce doesn’t get fixed by fixing the relationship.
𝗜𝘁 𝗴𝗲𝘁𝘀 𝗳𝗶𝘅𝗲𝗱 𝗯𝘆 𝗿𝗲𝗯𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂.

If you want to get out of this before it’s too late,
start with yourself.
 
Start with your self-respect, your self-talk, your emotional awareness.
Start with the part of you that’s been neglected the longest.

If you’re ready to stop pretending things will magically change,
watch this video 👉 https://lnkd.in/dCmP9h6a 

You’ll see how I rebuilt myself and how you can start doing the same.

Every relationship looks calm when the sea is still.
But you don’t build trust in calm waters.
You build it when the waves hit.

I used to hate the waves.
Arguments, tension, her emotions.
I’d shut down, stay quiet, or walk away.

I told myself I was keeping the peace.
But truth is, I was avoiding the depth.

I didn’t know how to handle the storm,
so I stayed on the surface, 
talking about work, plans, kids, everything except what mattered.
 
And slowly, the connection drowned in that silence.

Here’s what I learned the hard way:
those waves you keep avoiding,
they’re not the problem.
They’re the invitation.

Every argument, every uncomfortable emotion,
is a chance to understand her better,
to let her see the man behind your armor,
to build a connection that doesn’t sink at the first sign of wind.

But you can’t do that if you’re drifting without an anchor.
And that anchor isn’t her.
It’s you.
Your self-relationship.

When you know how to stay calm in your own storm,
you can hold the space when her storm shows up.
That’s where real intimacy starts.

You don’t need calm waters.
You need the courage to stay in the waves.
Because when you stop avoiding the storm,
you find the depth that keeps love alive.

If you feel the distance growing,
don’t wait for it to get worse.

Learn to stay anchored when the waves hit,
that’s how you save the relationship before it’s too late.

Comment "STORM,” or message me.
I’ll show you how to stay grounded, even when emotions rise.
 

P.S. If you’re a man reading this and you prefer not to engage publicly, I understand. Message me privately. No pressure. No judgement. 
Just a real conversation between two men who’ve been through life.

A relationship is like a tree.
It only stands strong when both keep nourishing the roots.
When one stops, the leaves start to fall.

Most men focus on keeping the branches alive…
…the job, the bills, the family routines.
But they forget the roots.

I did the same.
For years, I didn’t take care of my roots.
I kept people-pleasing, avoiding emotions, 
saying yes when I wanted to say no.
 
I had no boundaries, no space to breathe, no connection to myself.
And slowly, without even noticing, my roots dried out.

The relationship didn’t collapse overnight.
It faded.
One small disconnection after another.
Until the tree that once felt solid started losing its leaves.

Here’s what I know now:
𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻’𝘁 𝗸𝗲𝗲𝗽 𝗮 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗶𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝘃𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗱 𝗻𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗶𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳.

When you neglect your own roots,
you become emotionally unavailable, reactive, and distant.
You stop bringing life to the connection.

But when you take care of your self-relationship by
watering your own roots with self-respect, rest, honesty, and emotional awareness, you give the relationship strength to grow.
 
Healthy love doesn’t grow from sacrifice.
It grows from two people who both keep their roots alive.

Because when one weakens, the whole tree feels it.
 
If you feel your relationship losing color,
don’t wait for the leaves to fall.
 
Start by nourishing your roots, your self-relationship.
Comment “ROOTS,” or message me.
I’ll show you how to stay grounded so your relationship can grow stronger, 
not weaker.

Becoming co-parents instead of lovers is how most relationships slowly die.

I know, because that’s exactly where I ended up.

Three kids.
Busy days. 
Constant routines.
 
We weren’t a couple anymore. 
We were a logistics team.
Two adults running a household, not two people choosing each other.

And in that season, 
avoiding connection, emotions, and intimate talks was easier.
 
Honestly, it suited me at the time.
Because opening up felt harder than staying silent.

But here’s the truth I didn’t want to see back then:
Exactly that avoidance eroded our relationship.
 
Not one big fight.
But the slow, quiet distance that grows when two people
stop nurturing the bond.

The more I disconnected from myself, the more I disconnected from her.
The more I hid my inner battles, the more the gap widened.
 
I didn’t share what was going on inside me.
I didn’t open up and let myself be seen.

And when you stop feeding the connection, you lose it.
Not suddenly.
But day by day.

If you’re a man in a relationship and you feel this happening, hear me clearly:
𝗗𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝗶𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗼𝗽𝗲 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗳𝗶𝘅 𝗶𝘁.
𝗧𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗳𝗶𝘅 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲, 𝗶𝘁 𝗱𝗲𝗲𝗽𝗲𝗻𝘀 𝗶𝘁.

What your relationship needs most in these moments isn’t space.
It’s depth, presence, and vulnerable talks you keep postponing.
It’s you showing up as a whole man, not just a co-parent.

It’s taking her out, letting the kids stay with someone else, 
and choosing each other again.

I learned this the hard way.
And I don’t want you to repeat my story.

If you feel the distance growing, don’t ignore it.
Reconnect now, while there’s still something to reconnect to.

This is exactly what I help men navigate.
If you want to talk privately, send me a message.
This stuff is heavy, you don’t have to figure it out alone.

You might wonder what actually happens when
a man sits with me one-on-one.
 
It’s simple.
I see him.

Not the version he shows the world.
Not the role he hides behind.
Not the story he repeats to himself because he’s scared the truth might hurt.

𝗜 𝘀𝗲𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝗻𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁.

Because I lived that same split life for years… 
pretending I was fine, while my inner world was falling apart.

And every man I meet carries some version of that.

Here’s what happens in my coaching, even if he comes in thinking he needs “communication tools” or “confidence hacks.”

He sits down.
He starts talking about what’s wrong out there… 
work, partner, divorce, stress, pressure.
And slowly, he realizes something important.

His external world is just mirroring the chaos inside him.

The irritation when his partner says something small.
The knot in his chest before opening the front door.
The moments he goes quiet because he’s scared he’ll say the wrong thing.
The shame he carries after the divorce that he never speaks about.

None of that is random.
None of that makes him weak.
𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗻𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝘁𝘆.

Those things are signals.
Unread messages from the inside that he’s been ignoring for too long.

In our work, he finally gets a safe space to look at what’s really going on… without judgment, without being told to “man up,” without pretending.

He starts seeing which stories are actually his… 
and which were planted in him by family, culture, or 
years of pleasing and self-abandonment.

And then something shifts.
 
He stops fighting himself.
He starts understanding his triggers instead of drowning in them.
He learns to listen to himself the same way he listens to everyone else.
He starts feeling grounded for the first time in years.

This is not about becoming a “better” man.
𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗯𝗮𝗰𝗸 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗵𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝗶𝘀 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝗻𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝗶𝘀𝗲.

I learned this the hard way. 
I learned it by breaking.
By collapsing after my divorce.
By rebuilding myself from zero.
By facing the stories in me that were never mine to carry.

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝗜 𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗺𝗲𝗻.
Gently, honestly, and with respect for their time, fears, and their truth.

If you read this and felt something in your chest… that’s not random.

That’s the part of you that’s tired of carrying everything alone.

If you have a question, ask.
If something here hits home, say it.

You’re not alone in this.

Send me a private message and we can talk. 
Man to man, no pressure, no obligations.

Most relationships don’t fall apart because of one big fight.
 
They slowly die because the hard conversations never happen.

If you’re scared of depth, you’re not alone.
 
I used to run from every intense moment.
Until divorce forced me to face myself.
 
You don’t have to wait for that.
 
Stop the distance from growing before it’s too late.

If this hit you, reach out.
I can help you make that shift before it’s too late.

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