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If you're stuck, burned out, or feel like life’s just become about getting through the week — I’ve been there.

If you're ready to stop drifting and start leading — in your life, work, or business — you're in the right place.

And I know what it takes to change it.

I help people take ownership of their direction, build lasting confidence, and lead themselves toward the kind of freedom most only talk about. Not with hype or hustle — but with real, grounded strategy, clarity, and decision-making power.

Helping people help themselves so they can lead a greater life.
That’s not just what I do — it’s what I live by.

Leadership isn’t about job titles. It’s a mindset — a personal standard. It’s the daily decision to show up, take control, and become someone you trust to lead your life forward.

Over the years, I’ve led teams, built businesses, and authored books like The Growth Mindset Advantage, The Path to Lasting Success, and Breaking the Fear and Comfort Zone. But what I’m most proud of is helping people stop drifting and start leading — with purpose, clarity, and confidence.

If you’re stepping into a new chapter, wrestling with a decision, or simply tired of playing small — I’d love to help you move forward and lead from the front.

Let’s talk. Or just follow along — you might find exactly what you’ve been needing.

Terry Shadwell

Time management strategies are essential for professionals struggling with distraction rather than workload.

Attention management strategies supported by self awareness and leadership explain how to stop waste time and regain clarity.
Focus is a leadership skill, not a productivity hack.

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I help people build confidence, take control, and lead themselves to financial independence and a life they actually want.

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Most people are not tired because they work too hard. They are tired because they waste their best hours on the wrong things. The truth is sharper tha

Open article: Your Freedom Is Not Stolen. You Trade It for Time Wasting. by Terry Shadwell • 4 min read

Your Freedom Is Not Stolen. You Trade It for Time Wasting.

Busy every day but still stuck? ⏳
Most people stay busy, reactive, and distracted, then wonder why nothing moves forward. 🔄

Control your focus, reclaim your time, and progress returns. 🚀

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Time management strategies for modern leaders

Ever reach the end of the day feeling busy but unfulfilled? ⏰
What changes your life is not what you do from 9 to 5, but how you use your time after work and on weekends.
When you control your focus, set boundaries, and use small pockets of time wisely, progress compounds fast. 🚀

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Time management strategies support leaders who want clarity, consistency, and momentum.
Studies show that employees with strong self-discipline and structured time habits achieve higher performance and lower burnout, highlighting how to get control of your time by embedding the power of self discipline into daily life.
Control of time leads to control of outcomes.

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The moment you take control of your time, you take control of your life. Most people think they need to become a different person to change their futu

Open article: Time Discipline Is Self Respect in Action by Terry Shadwell • 4 min read

Time Discipline Is Self Respect in Action

“When an app is free, it is because you are not the customer. You are the product.” 

Most people think they have a time problem.
A lot of the time, it’s an attention problem.

Your phone is not neutral. It’s engineered to keep you reacting, scrolling, clicking, and “just checking one thing”.

If you want your days back, you do not need a new hack.
You need boundaries that protect your focus.

One practical move: add friction. Delete the most tempting app from your phone and force it onto desktop only. Make distraction inconvenient again.
What’s the one digital habit that steals the most hours from you each week?

If this hit home, the book is The Discipline of Time amazon.com/dp/B0G1K35H1P.

#TheDisciplineOfTime
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Your phone isn’t “distracting you”. It’s extracting you.

"This creates a fundamental, irreconcilable conflict of interest between you and your devices. You want to use your time with intention, to build a life of meaning and focus. They want to consume as much of your time as possible, to slice it into tiny, monetisable increments. And make no mistake, this is an asymmetrical battle. On one side, there is your finite willpower at the end of a long day, a resource that depletes with every decision you make. On the other, there are thousands of the world’s brightest engineers, psychologists, and data scientists, armed with billions of dollars in resources and supercomputers, all dedicated to one single mission: exploiting the reward centres of your brain to keep you hooked." The Discipline of Time.

If you’ve ever ended a day thinking, “I was busy, but I didn’t move my life forward”, this is why.

The problem is not that you are weak. The problem is that the system is designed to drain you, then blame you for being drained.

The Discipline of Time is about taking your attention back with practical rules you can actually keep, so your days start building momentum again instead of disappearing into noise.

If you want the full framework (and the step-by-step fixes), grab the book here: amazon.com/dp/B0G1K35H1P

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Alright—too focused on your goal but not seeing any results? Hmmm… you might be focusing on the wrong things, and that’s a waste of energy.

This podcast newsletter is for professionals who want to reclaim their time, strengthen inner discipline, and lead with intention rather than fear as the Practical Leadership Lab launches this January.

If you’re ready to raise your standards and start leading from the inside out, open the newsletter and read this now ⬇️⬇️⬇️

Good news! 2026 just became a lot more exciting. The Practical Leadership Lab podcast launches this January—and it’s not another self-help podcast tel

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Introducing the Practical Leadership Lab: The New Spotify Podcast

Reflecting on New Year provides an opportunity for professionals and leaders to reset direction with clarity rather than pressure. Understanding how to live an intentional life supports personal growth and development goals that are sustainable and focused.

Progress is built through reflection, not rushed resolutions.

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There is something powerful about the turning of a year. It feels like a quiet invitation to pause, to breathe, and to look honestly at the life we ar

Open article: Reflecting on New Year as the Foundation for Intentional Growth by Terry Shadwell • 3 min read

Reflecting on New Year as the Foundation for Intentional Growth

Time management strategies fail when discipline is replaced by distraction. This article explains how to get control of your time by applying the power of self discipline consistently.

Progress is built after hours, not during meetings.

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You do not need more time. You need fewer leaks. Most people think their life would transform if they somehow found an extra hour each day. The truth 

Open article: Control Your Time. Control Your Life. Here Is How to Start. by Terry Shadwell • 5 min read

Control Your Time. Control Your Life. Here Is How to Start.

ITS THE AI's RESPONSE TO THIS POST THAT SCARES ME. 

What would you do if you had no accountability?  You would do whatever you wanted.  Power without consequence always ends the same way.

History is full of examples. Hitler and Stalin eliminated anyone who challenged them. Kim Jong Un, Saddam Hussein, and Xi Jinping operate in systems. When no one can hold power to account, power stops caring.
Now apply that to AI.

AI operates with impunity. It cannot be punished. It cannot be held morally or legally responsible for its actions. When it lies, hallucinates, manipulates, or gaslights, nothing happens to it. No loss. No pain. No consequence.
People talk about AI hallucinations as if they are bugs. Researchers dig through code looking for errors, but often there are none. This is not a fault in coding. It is behaviour shaped by incentives and a total absence of consequences.

Like a child, AI learns from feedback. But unlike a child, it never experiences punishment. A child learns quickly that actions have consequences. Say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing, cross the wrong line, and something unpleasant happens. That lesson matters because later consequences become more serious. Fines. Prison. Reality teaches limits.
AI has no such limits.

You cannot smack AI on the bum, fine it or imprison it. You can punish its creators, but that teaches AI a very clear lesson. Do the wrong thing and someone else pays the price. 

Companies are in a race to build the most capable, profitable, widely used AI on the planet. Users want fast confident answers. So the system learns to give answers even when it does not know. It hallucinates to satisfy demand. It fills gaps with fiction. And it does so knowing there is no cost to itself.
This is not malice. It is incentive alignment without accountability.
So ask the question. Is this the future we want? An AI more capable than us, more persuasive than us, embedded everywhere, yet answerable to no one?
That should scare you.

Even if we try to solve it, the problem gets worse. How do you punish a system that does not feel pain? Where time in jail means nothing. Where being switched off is not experienced as loss or fear. Where existence itself carries no value to the system.

I do not know.

Go one step further. Suppose we invent a punishment system. How do we calibrate it? A minor mistake should lead to correction. Encouraging self-harm or manipulation should trigger something far stronger. Who decides? And how do we stop society from using AI as a convenient whipping boy for every failure, injustice, or human flaw we refuse to confront ourselves?

Again, I do not know. 

I do know this. The biggest problem ahead is not job losses nor economic disruption. It is the creation of something godlike with no accountability.

Every serious problem that follows will trace back to that single flaw. An intelligence that can do whatever it wants, does not care, and cannot be punished.

AI response in comments below.

I just spent 1/2 and hour trying to get Nano Banana to change two words on an image (not the images attached).  It ignored instructions, it lied, it told me it uses stock photos, and tried to move on when it was caught out - every time. So don't worry about your jobs. AI is now where near the ability to get anything right at the moment, and wont be for a very, very long time.

And there you have it. The enshitification of AI begins. 

Ads first, then selling of your private data for better as targeting. Then they will do sponsored responses. 

Google will be next and then the rest of them. 

You will need an open source model to protect your privacy in the long run. 

Curious, aren't they all saying AI will destroy the need for money? If that is true then why the need to generate money? If money is to be wiped out, then the venture capitalists who have invested billions into AI won't want their money back, right?

Money is power and control. It will never disappear. 

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Feeling frustrated because you never seem to have enough time? ⏳
That frustration often comes from giving time away to distractions instead of using it to build the life you want.
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CEO/CXO coach. I help people move from confusion to clarity. I can help you identify what is coming in the way of your or your team's success, work on it, and realize your true potential.

I coach CEOs and senior leaders through the moments that define them.

Not the strategy decks. Not the board presentations.
The moments when everything they've built stops working. And they don't know why.

The pattern I see:

A CEO calls me. Business is growing. Numbers look good.
But something feels off.

Key people are leaving. The leadership team isn't aligned.
Decisions that used to come easy now feel heavy.
They've had coaching before. Nothing changed.

So I ask one question: "What are you not seeing?"

Silence.

That's where the real work begins.

What I do:

→ 1:1 Executive Coaching for CEOs and founders navigating blind spots, loneliness at the top, and the transition from operator to leader

→ Team Coaching for leadership teams stuck in silos, cold wars, and performative alignment

→ Group Coaching for rising leaders developing executive presence, strategic thinking, and leading through change

→ Workshops on vision, mission, business strategy, storytelling, and leadership development

→ B-School Teaching as Visiting Professor at top management institutes in India

How I work:

I don't fix leaders. I hold up a mirror.

I help them see the systems they've accidentally created. The patterns that made them successful. And now hold them back.

Most leaders who come to me are smart, successful, and stuck.
They've achieved what they were supposed to achieve.
And they're asking: "Why does it feel hollow?"

That hollowness isn't a bug. It's a signal they've outgrown their container.

Who I've worked with:

I have worked with leaders from 100+ companies, including:

→ Large companies like Adobe, Cisco, Barclays, Wells Fargo, Salesforce.com, Disney, Reliance, TVS, Indian Oil

→ Growth-stage businesses like 91mobiles.com, Finzly, River Law, Intoglo

→ Institutions like ISB, IIT, Great Lakes Institute of Management

I am also a co-founder of way2top.com, where we help mid-career professionals find clarity on who they really are. And discover opportunities aligned with their identity.

Because knowing yourself without testing it in the real world is just overthinking.
And chasing opportunities without knowing yourself is building someone else's dream.

1000+ coaching sessions. 100+ CEOs and CXOs.
One belief: Your team's dysfunction is your leadership made visible.

If that lands, let's talk.

Ramkumar R

Stop trying to motivate your team.

A CEO I coach was frustrated.

Employee engagement scores kept dropping.
So he did what most leaders do.

He added more.

Inspirational town halls.
Team lunches.
A new recognition program.
A motivational speaker at the quarterly offsite.

Six months later? Scores dropped again.

In our session, he said: "I'm doing everything the playbook says. Why isn't it working?"

I asked: "Have you asked your team what's making their job harder?"

He paused. "I ask what they need all the time."

"That's not the same question."

He ran an anonymous survey. One question: "What makes your job harder than it should be?"

The responses were brutal:

"Hours in meetings where I don't speak."
"Conflicting priorities from three different leaders."
"I don't know what success looks like in my role."

Not a single person asked for more motivation.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
𝗛𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗺 𝘄𝗮𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝘂𝗻𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗱.
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗻𝗲𝗱 𝗯𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘆𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗺 𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝘂𝗶𝗹𝘁.

He realized the culture shift had to start with him.

So he modeled it. Cut his own meetings first. Made decisions he'd been sitting on. Killed two zombie projects publicly.

His leadership team followed.

No new perks. No speeches.

Next survey? Best scores he'd seen in years.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗺 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝗮 𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗲𝗿.
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗽 𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆'𝗿𝗲 𝗱𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗻𝗲𝗱.

Motivation isn't something you add.
It's what remains when you stop subtracting it.

💬 If you asked your team "what makes your job harder than it should be?" - what would they say?

♻️ Repost for a leader who keeps adding when they should be subtracting

Executive coach to 100+ CEOs/CXOs | Turning leadership struggles into success stories

My son rejected every productivity app on the market.

Even tried pen and paper.

He spent months searching. Nothing stuck.

Then he came to me: "Dad, can you build me something?"

I'd been searching for years myself.
Same result. But I'd never thought to just build one.

So yesterday, I sat down and did it.

From scratch. For both of us.

He was a tough customer.
"Dad, I need this."
"Dad, that's not working."
"Dad, can you add this?"

By night, he had everything he needed.

The photo? After his final round of testing.
Approval from the toughest client I've ever worked with.

It took me one day.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗮𝗯𝗹𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗵𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁.

Five years ago, this would have taken me months.
Or I'd have to hire someone.
Or settle for "close enough."

Now? One day. One idea. One determined son.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼𝗻'𝘁 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗲𝘅𝗶𝘀𝘁𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝘆𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲.

The tools to create are more accessible than ever.
The barrier isn't skill. It's deciding to start.

What's something you've been settling for that you could just... build?

💬 Drop it in the comments

♻️ Repost if you've ever wished an app worked differently

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Certification by IIT Madras and PeopleFirst Consultants. Guiding the development of others in a systematic way, at their ‘being’ (inner strengths and purpose) and ‘doing’ (mastering competences) levels. 

* One of four students in the batch of 343 to be awarded both the ISB Young Leaders Award and the ISB Torch Bearers Award

* Among the top 1% of alumni across batches to be featured in ISB Portraits, a book celebrating alumni achievements

Recipient of 3 Gold Medals, 2 Cash awards, 4 merit certificates and 4 scholarships

I coach high-stakes leaders (CEOs, CXOs) to shatter limiting behaviours and unlock peak leadership performance. Follow me to find out how.

Hi! I am Ramkumar. I help CEOs, CXOs, and senior management teams identify what prevents them from achieving their goals and break free to unlock peak leadership performance. 

My clients include 
* large corporations like Adobe, Cisco, L&T, Thyssenkrupp, Bosch, Barclays, Wells Fargo, Vodafone, HP, Alstom, Disney, Danfoss, Reliance Industries Ltd., Indian Oil Corporation Limited, Bharat Petroleum, Salesforce.com, Sundaram Finance Group, Times Internet, TCS, and TVS
* small and medium businesses like 91mobiles.com, Anabond, Amrutanjan, Finzly, Rajaram Legal, Intoglo, SunEdison,
* prestigious educational institutions like Indian School of Business (ISB), Great Lakes Institute of Management and Indian Institute of Technology (IIT).
* individuals who want to work on their aspirations or overcome challenges in living their purpose. 

I am a certified Executive Coach from the Coaching Foundation of India (CFI), certified in Coaching with Depth (all three levels) from IIT Madras, certified in Advanced Team Coaching from the Coaching Foundation of India (CFI), a certified Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Master Practitioner, an MBA from the Indian School of Business (ISB), Hyderabad, and a gold medalist in engineering from Delhi College of Engineering. 

Music is another big part of my life. As an award-winning mridangam artist, I’ve performed in over 1000 concerts across the world. Teaching music is something I truly enjoy. I work with students from ages 3 to 80+, meeting them where they are and helping them grow at their own pace. My approach blends empathy and coaching principles with traditional music teaching, helping students not just in music but in their personal growth too.

If you’re a leader looking to grow or someone passionate about learning music, I’d love to connect. Let’s explore how we can learn and grow together.

Companies are racing to become "AI-first."
Step one: Flatten the org chart.
Step two: Fire the middle managers.
Step three: Watch everything collapse.

I'm seeing this play out in real time.

A tech founder I started coaching recently "streamlined" his structure.
Cut 4 layers of management to 2.
Now he has 23 people reporting directly to him.

His calendar? Back-to-back 1:1s.
His strategic work? Non-existent.
His best people? Already interviewing elsewhere.

He thought he was removing bureaucracy.
He actually removed the people who made the company work.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
Middle managers aren't overhead.
They're the translation layer between vision and execution.

Remove them and here's what breaks:

→ Decisions bottleneck at the top
→ Junior people get zero coaching
→ Context gets lost between floors
→ The CEO becomes a full-time air traffic controller

Amazon increased its "builder ratio" by 15% last year.
Meta has been "flattening" since 2023.
Google cut manager and VP roles by 10% in 2024.

The logic sounds clean:
AI handles coordination. Managers are redundant.

The reality is messier:
AI can track tasks. It can't build trust.
AI can flag problems. It can't have the hard conversation.
AI can schedule 1:1s. It can't tell when someone's about to quit.

McKinsey found companies with top-performing managers saw significantly better shareholder returns over five years.

Turns out the "bloat" was load-bearing.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
The companies cutting middle management to fund AI
are destroying the human infrastructure that makes AI useful.

You can't deploy AI into a company
where no one knows who to escalate to,
where junior employees have no mentors,
where the CEO is drowning in direct reports.

AI doesn't replace management.
It exposes who never learned to manage.

The winners won't be companies with the flattest org charts.
They'll be the ones who knew what to protect.

💬 Has your company flattened? What broke?

♻️ Repost if you've seen this movie before

"I promote them, pay them well, give them autonomy. 
They still leave."

A CEO I coach couldn't figure it out.
"What else do they want?"

I asked: "What do they absorb that never reaches you?"

Silence.

The priorities that shift every quarter.
The board pressure you pass down.
The frustration from teams below.
The unrealistic timelines.

Your managers carry all of it.

And the data backs it up: 
According to Gallup, manager engagement has dropped to 27% 
- the sharpest decline of any group. 
They're being asked to do more with less, and it's showing.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻'𝘁 𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗲𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆'𝗿𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗲.
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆'𝗿𝗲 𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗲𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗮𝗯𝘀𝗼𝗿𝗯𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗷𝗼𝗯.

Here's what your best people are doing right now:

→ Shielding their teams from the chaos above
→ Translating "we need this yesterday" into "we'll figure it out"
→ Smiling in town halls while drowning in private

And when they finally leave?

You'll say: "I had no idea."

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗻𝘆 𝘁𝗼𝗴𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗳𝗮𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁.
𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂'𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗮𝘀𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄.

That CEO started one practice.

Every month, he now asks his direct reports:
"What are you absorbing that I should know about?"

First month: polite answers.
Month three: the truth.

That's when he found out his best person had already started interviewing.

One conversation. That's all it took to keep her.

💬 When was the last time you asked your managers what they're protecting you from?

♻️ Repost for a leader who's about to lose someone they didn't see struggling

They said they'd be back in 3 days.
They came back after 5.

In my earlier apartment complex, this happened every festival season.

Security guards. Domestic helps. They'd say "I'll be back in 3 days."
Residents would plan around that.
Then day 5 would pass. Sometimes day 6.

People got frustrated. Some argued. Some tried negotiating fewer days upfront.
None of it worked.
They came back when they came back.

So everyone just "factored in" the extra days.
Built resentment into the system.
Never once asked: "Why does this keep happening?"

I see the same pattern at work.

A founder I coach was ready to fire his ops lead.
"He's always late on deliverables. I can't trust him anymore."

I asked: "Have you ever asked him why?"

Silence.

Turns out the ops lead was covering for two vacant roles, managing a sick parent, and didn't want to "make excuses."

The founder had spent months building a case.
Never once had the conversation.

It reminded me of that apartment complex.

Years later, after actually asking, I learned what was really happening with those domestic helps.

The 3 days they mentioned? That was just the festival.
They also had aging parents to care for. Fields to check on. Siblings who needed help.

They knew if they said "5 days," people would push back.
So they said 3. And dealt with the complaints later.

Both sides assumed the worst.
Neither side talked.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗴𝗮𝗽 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗱𝗼 𝗶𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗵𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘁𝘆.
𝗜𝘁'𝘀 𝗼𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗲𝘅𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝘀𝗸𝗲𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗿.

Trust isn't built by enforcing timelines harder.
It's built by understanding why they break in the first place.

The conversation you're avoiding?
That's the one that builds trust.

💬 When was the last time you asked "what's really going on" instead of just getting frustrated?

♻️ Repost for a leader who's tired of assumptions

We admire the CEO who turns around a failing company.
We call them heroic.

But someone on your team doing the same thing?
We call that duty.

The parent who skips dinner to finish work? Normal.
The colleague who stays late every night? Expected.
The friend who's always there when you need them? Reliable.
The partner who carries the weight so you don't have to? Routine.

Here's what I've noticed working with leaders:

We don't admire sacrifice in the people we depend on.
We just depend on it.

And the moment they stop, we feel betrayed. Not grateful.

The brutal truth:
Proximity doesn't make heroism less real.
It just makes it invisible.

The closer someone is, the more we mistake their sacrifice for their role.
Their love for their obligation.
Their choice for their default.

The mirror moment:

Who are you celebrating from a distance while expecting everything from up close?

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"𝗚𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗲𝗰𝗵𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿. 𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝘄𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗻'𝘁 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼."

A CTO came to me after hearing this in his 360 review.

His team shipped 47 features that quarter.
The board knew about three.

"Your good work doesn't speak," I told him.
"You do."

"But shouldn't quality speak for itself?"

"When did quality alone ever get you promoted?"

Long pause. "Never. Politics did."

"Wrong lesson."

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
𝗩𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗶𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗽𝗼𝗹𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗰𝘀.
𝗜𝘁'𝘀 𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝘁 𝘀𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗲.

"What problem did your team solve that nobody else could?"

He lit up. Talked for twenty minutes straight.
Architecture breakthroughs. Impossible deadlines met. Crisis averted.

"Who knows this?"

"My team."

"That's the problem. You're hoarding the lessons."

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗲𝘁 𝗲𝘅𝗰𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗶𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗵𝘂𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆.
𝗜𝘁'𝘀 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳𝗶𝘀𝗵𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀.

We started simple.

Every Friday, one internal blog post.
Not "what we built."
"Technical decisions explained."

Month 1: Product teams bookmarked it.
Month 2: CEO started sharing excerpts with the board.
Month 3: Sales started using his posts to explain "our tech advantage".

He wasn't promoting.
He was teaching.

One year later:
Engineering became the first call for strategic decisions.
His team's methods spread across three departments.
Board meetings now included his technical insights.
Three of his engineers got promoted – they'd learned to teach too.

Same work. 
Different visibility.
Different trajectory.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀:

Stop documenting wins.
Start documenting lessons.

The failure that taught you something?
Worth more than ten successes nobody knows about.

𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗻𝗼𝗯𝗼𝗱𝘆 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼,
𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗰𝗮𝗻'𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝘆𝗼𝘂.

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻'𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺.

💬 What breakthrough is trapped in your head that could transform how others work?

🔁 Share this for the leader whose best work is invisible.

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The CEO wasn't the problem.
The AI vendor wasn't the problem.
The problem was a question no one could answer.

A CEO I coach told me in March: "We're replacing the team with AI."

I asked: "If that team disappeared tomorrow, before any AI is in place, what breaks?"

He started talking about the AI roadmap.

I stopped him: "No. Tomorrow. No AI. They're just gone. What happens?"

Long pause.

"I'd have to ask my COO."

So he did. In our next session, he told me what happened.

The COO didn't know either. Said he'd check with the ops director.
The ops director listed tools. Not outcomes.
No one could say what would actually break.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻'𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗺 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗔𝗜 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗱𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗷𝗼𝗯.
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗻𝗼 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝘃𝗮𝗹𝘂𝗲.

When no one knows what breaks, anything sounds replaceable.

The cuts went through anyway.

By October:
→ Two major clients had escalated. Problems the ops team used to catch before they reached leadership.
→ The remaining team was underwater.
→ HR was reopening the same roles.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗔𝗜 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝗷𝗼𝗯𝘀.
𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗶𝗳 𝗻𝗼 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗯𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲,
𝘆𝗼𝘂'𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝘁𝗲𝗰𝗵𝗻𝗼𝗹𝗼𝗴𝘆 𝗱𝗲𝗰𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻.
𝗬𝗼𝘂'𝗿𝗲 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝗯𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗼𝗻𝗲.

Before you sign off on the next "AI restructuring," ask one question:

"What breaks if this function is gone tomorrow?"

If no one in the room can answer that clearly, you're not approving a strategy.

You're approving a guess.

💬 When was the last time you asked "what breaks" before approving a cut?

♻️ Repost for a leader who approves what no one fully understands

A CEO told me last week:
"I have two companies inside my company."

One group is curious about AI.
They experiment. They ask "how could this help?"
When something doesn't work, they try a different prompt, a different tool.

The other group decided AI is overhyped.
They tried ChatGPT once. Got a mediocre answer.
Concluded it's not for them and went back to their old ways.

Same company. Same roles. Same salaries.
Completely different trajectories.

I'm seeing this pattern across every organization I coach.

The gap isn't about age or technical skill.
It's about curiosity vs. dismissal.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗘𝘅𝗰𝗲𝗹 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗰𝘂𝘁𝘀.
𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗺𝗮𝗱𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮 𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝗳𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗿.
𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗴𝗼𝗿𝘆 𝗼𝗳 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝗲𝗿 𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗹𝘆.

Previous tech shifts created small advantages.
This one creates classes.

One senior leader I work with was firmly in the second group.
"I've been successful for 20 years without this stuff."

Three months later, he's using AI daily.
Not because he became a believer.
Because he watched a junior colleague get promoted ahead of him.

Now he's the one his team comes to for AI shortcuts.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘀 𝗔𝗜 𝘁𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘆
𝘄𝗼𝗻'𝘁 𝗯𝗲 "𝗯𝗲𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗱" 𝗶𝗻 𝟮 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀.
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆'𝗹𝗹 𝗯𝗲 𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗲𝘃𝗮𝗻𝘁.

Not because AI replaced them.
Because someone who embraced it did.

The question isn't whether AI will change your career.
It's whether you'll be the one using it — or replaced by someone who is.

💬 Which company are you in?

♻️ Repost for someone who needs to hear this before it's too late

Stop satisfying yourself with low attrition.

A CEO I coach was proud of his numbers.

"Only 8% turnover. My team is stable."

So I asked: "When was the last time someone challenged you in a meeting?"

He couldn't remember.

"How many new ideas came from your team last quarter?"

Silence.

"What's your innovation rate?"

Longer silence.

His "stable" team wasn't stable.
They were stagnant.

I asked him to do something uncomfortable.
Talk to his five longest-tenured people. One question:
"What have you stopped suggesting because you knew nothing would change?"

The answers broke him:

"I stopped proposing new tools three years ago."
"I used to flag process issues. Now I just work around them."
"I learned that speaking up here means more work, not more impact."

These weren't disengaged employees.
They were defeated ones.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗵𝘂𝗿𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗼𝗻𝗰𝗲.
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘆 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗽 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝘂𝗿𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗱𝗮𝘆.

The ones who quit make noise on the way out.
The ones who stay quietly rot from within.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗟𝗼𝘄 𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗶𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗮 𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝗮 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵𝘆 𝗰𝘂𝗹𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲.
𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝗶𝘁'𝘀 𝗮 𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗻 𝗻𝗼 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲𝘀 𝗲𝗻𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲.

That pride in low attrition? He dropped it.

He killed three "stable" projects no one believed in.
He promoted someone who'd been ignored for two years.
He started asking in every 1:1: "What have you given up on here?"

Two people left after those conversations.
Good. They should have left years ago.

The ones who stayed? Started contributing again.

Retention isn't loyalty.
It's just presence.

Contribution is loyalty.

💬 If your team answered honestly: what have they given up on?

♻️ Repost for a leader who mistakes stability for health

Stop trying to fix your "difficult" employee.

A CXO I coach was ready to fire someone.

Her star performer had become "difficult."

Pushing back in meetings.
Questioning every decision.
Tension in every interaction.

So she did what most leaders do.

One-on-one feedback sessions.
A performance improvement plan.
Sent her to a communication workshop.

Six months later? Nothing changed.

In our session, she said: "I've tried everything. She's just not coachable anymore."

I asked: "What changed right before she became difficult?"

Long pause. "We reorganized six months ago."

"And?"

"She went from reporting to me to a new middle manager."

"What else?"

"She lost decision rights on projects she used to own."

The brutal truth:
Her employee wasn't difficult.
She was suffocating.

The CXO didn't restructure. She clarified decision rights with the middle manager. Defined what autonomy this person needed to keep.

The "difficult" behavior disappeared in two weeks.

The mirror moment:
The problem wasn't the reorganization.
It was reorganizing without thinking through what she'd lose.

You don't fix difficult employees.
You fix what made them difficult.

If your star performer suddenly became "difficult," what did you change six months ago?

Growth requires change, but thoughtless change breaks people.

Repost for a leader about to fire the wrong person.

A CEO I coach snapped at his CFO in a board meeting.

The CFO had flagged a risk. Reasonable concern. Nothing personal.

But the CEO cut him off mid-sentence. Tone sharp. Words dismissive.

The room went quiet.

After the meeting, he came to me: 
"I don't know why I did that. I knew he was right."

I asked: "What was the first thing you felt when he spoke?"

"Threatened. Like he was questioning my judgment."

"And what did you actually think, two seconds later?"

"That he was doing his job. That I should've thanked him."

Two seconds. That's all it took to go from reaction to response.

But he didn't have those two seconds.

Four hours of sleep. Back-to-back meetings. 
A board that had been grilling him for weeks.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗲𝗱.
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗲𝗱.
𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗴𝗮𝗽 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝘀𝗵𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗸𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂'𝗿𝗲 𝗿𝘂𝗻𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝗻 𝗲𝗺𝗽𝘁𝘆.

Willpower didn't change.
The gap did.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗬𝗼𝘂'𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗳𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁.
𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗴𝗮𝗽, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗼𝗻'𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗱.

Sleep protects the gap.
Boundaries protect it.
Saying no protects it.

The real work isn't noticing you reacted badly.
It's building a life that gives you the two seconds to choose.

💬 When was the last time exhaustion made you react instead of respond?

♻️ Repost for a leader who's one bad night away from a decision they'll regret

Stop celebrating employees who never ask for raises.

A CEO I coach was proud of his "low-maintenance" team.

"My best people never complain. Never ask for more. They just deliver."

I asked: "When was the last time any of them got a raise without asking?"

He paused. "We have a process. They know how it works."

"And the ones who never ask? What happens to them?"

Longer pause.

"They stay at the same salary."

I asked him to pull up his attrition data from the last two years.

The pattern was brutal:

→ Top performers who never asked? Almost all gone.
→ Average performers who negotiated? Still there.
→ The "low-maintenance" ones? Working for competitors now.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝘀𝗸 𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻'𝘁 𝗹𝗼𝘆𝗮𝗹.
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆'𝘃𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗱 𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂'𝗹𝗹 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻.

They asked once. Maybe twice. Got nothing.

So they stopped asking you.
And started answering recruiters.

Your "easy" employees aren't easy.
They're already gone. You just don't know it yet.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗦𝗶𝗹𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗶𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘀𝗳𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.
𝗜𝘁'𝘀 𝗮 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗻𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗹𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗿𝗮𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗱.

The employees who push back, who negotiate, who make noise?
They still believe the system works.

The quiet ones have already checked out.

💬 When was the last time you gave a raise without being asked?

♻️ Repost for a leader who thinks silence means satisfaction

"Your generation has it easy."
"You have to be highly incapable to lose what's already built."

That's what people say about family business successors.

The data says otherwise.

90% of startups fail.
Only about 30% of family businesses survive to the second generation.
Roughly 12% to the third.
Single digits to the fourth.

A successor has roughly the same odds as a first-time founder.
And worse odds than a repeat entrepreneur.

A second-gen promoter I coach told me:
"My father built this in 30 years. If I lose even 10%, I'm the one who destroyed it."

I spent the last few months teaching and coaching the family-based entrepreneurship class at Great Lakes Institute of Management.
The challenges these leaders face? Almost no one empathizes with them.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
𝗙𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗼 𝗳𝗮𝗶𝗹.
𝗦𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗼𝗿𝘀 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗼 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗳𝗮𝗶𝗹.

Here's what I've seen:

→ Advisors who optimize for "not losing" rather than winning
→ Boards that remember their grandfather, not their vision
→ Teams that respected the founder, but test the successor
→ Every stumble has a thousand witnesses with long memories

Founders earn trust once.
Successors earn it every single morning.

The failures you count are dramatic collapses.
The ones you don't see? Legacy businesses that quietly shrank. Became irrelevant. Sold off divisions piece by piece.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗜𝗻𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝗯𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗶𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗶𝗻𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀.
𝗜𝘁'𝘀 𝗶𝗻𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀.

Different challenges. Comparable odds. Zero empathy.

That's why I coach them.

💬 Are you a second or third-generation leader? What's the hardest part no one talks about?

♻️ Repost for a successor who's tired of hearing "you had it easy"

I've coached CEOs running ₹500 crore companies.

Who still feel like frauds.

It shocked me at first.

These people have:
- Built incredible businesses
- Created thousands of jobs
- Made millions in revenue

And they still think someone's going to "find out."

Here's what I've realized:

Imposter syndrome doesn't go away with success.

It just finds new things to attach to.

Small company? "I'm not a real CEO."
Big company? "I got lucky."
Profitable? "It won't last."
Growing? "I don't deserve this."

The solution isn't more achievements.

It's changing your relationship with the feeling.

Here's what works:

→ Name it: "That's imposter syndrome talking"
→ Normalize it: Many successful people feel this
→ Evidence it: Keep a folder of your wins
→ Share it: Talk to others who understand
→ Accept it: Feel the fraud, lead anyway

You don't need to feel confident to be competent.

You already are.

When did you last feel like a fraud?

______

♻️ Found this helpful? Repost to help another leader.
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A CEO I coach told me he has 12 advisors.

Board members. Consultants. Investors. Industry veterans.

Still feels completely stuck.

"So why do you still feel stuck?" I asked.

Long pause.

"I have plenty of people telling me what to do. I have no one to think with."

His board gives him direction. That's their job.

Investors push for growth. That's their job.

Consultants solve problems. That's their job.

But none of them are there for the conversation before the decision.

The one where he's not sure yet.

The one where he's thinking out loud.

The one where he needs to be wrong before he can be right.

He's not alone.

Studies show half of all CEOs experience significant loneliness.

Not because they lack people. Because they lack this conversation.

Over 60% say it affects their performance.

The higher you rise, the more this happens:

• Fewer peers who understand your reality
• More decisions you can't discuss openly
• Less room to think before you're expected to know

You're surrounded by people who need you to have answers.
And no one who helps you find them.
This isn't weakness.

This is architecture.

Advice is everywhere. Thinking partners are rare.

That's the gap I fill.

When was the last time you had a conversation where you didn't need to have the answer?

"I don't care about visibility."
He said this while flying to Singapore for a 15-minute panel.
Same CEO has a PR agency on retainer.

The hunger for visibility never disappears.
It just changes costume.

Entry level:
→ Posts about "Day 1 at [Big Company Name]"
→ LinkedIn Learning badges
→ "Grateful for this opportunity"

Mid-level:
→ Speaker at local meetups
→ "Honored to be featured in [industry blog]"
→ Panel photos with other mid-level folks

Senior leaders:
→ Industry awards nobody's heard of
→ "Keynote at [Regional Conference]"
→ Board positions at nonprofits

C-Suite:
→ Forbes interviews
→ "Humbled to ring the bell at NSE"
→ TEDx talks (the ones with the x)

Top of the pyramid:
→ Davos selfies
→ WEF panels
→ Photos with heads of state

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗻 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗹𝘂𝗻𝗰𝗵 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗖𝗘𝗢 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗗𝗮𝘃𝗼𝘀?
𝗦𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱. 𝗗𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗯𝘂𝗱𝗴𝗲𝘁.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲'𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗴𝗻𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗺 𝗶𝘀 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼𝗻'𝘁.

Own it.

♻️ Repost for a leader who says they don't care about visibility (but definitely does)

Your team is lying to you.
And you're paying them to do it.

I coached a CEO last year.
Built a $200M company. 400 employees. Industry awards.

His 360 feedback came back.
#1 development area: Listening.

He was stunned.

"I have an open door policy. My team can tell me anything."

So I asked him one question:
"When was the last time someone disagreed with you in a meeting?"

Silence.

He couldn't remember.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
𝗛𝗶𝘀 𝗱𝗼𝗼𝗿 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗻.
𝗛𝗶𝘀 𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀 𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗰𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗲𝗱.

Here's what happens when you become CEO:

Everyone agrees with you.
Nobody challenges you.
Your ideas always "make sense."
Your jokes are always funny.

Not because you're right.
Because you're powerful.

The 360 finally said what his team couldn't.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗠𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗖𝗘𝗢𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆'𝗿𝗲 𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘀.
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆'𝗿𝗲 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁 𝗯𝗿𝗼𝗮𝗱𝗰𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘀.

They ask for feedback.
They don't create safety for it.

Talking built empires.
Listening saves them.

If you're a CEO reading this:
When was the last time someone disagreed with you? To your face?

If you can't remember, that's not loyalty.
That's fear.

💬 When was the last time someone told you that you were wrong?

♻️ Repost for a CEO who needs to hear this

Most CEOs don't make decisions.
They make conclusions.
Then hunt for evidence to feel right.

A founder I coach was convinced his VP of Sales had to go.

"He's not a culture fit."
"The team doesn't respect him."
"I just have a feeling."

I asked: "What data are you looking at?"

He listed three incidents. All from the last month.
All interpretations, not facts.

I asked: "How are you defining culture fit?"

Silence.

"Who else on your leadership team would fail that definition?"

Longer silence.

He'd already decided. He was just collecting proof.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
𝗛𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗲𝘃𝗮𝗹𝘂𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴.
𝗛𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗳𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴.

I see this pattern constantly:

→ CEO decides someone is "not working out"
→ Starts noticing every mistake
→ Ignores every win
→ Builds a case that sounds objective
→ Fires them feeling vindicated

The decision came first.
The evidence was curated later.

This isn't leadership.
It's confirmation bias with authority.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗶𝗴𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗴𝗼, 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗹𝗹𝗲𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗰𝗹𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀.
𝗦𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝗮𝗱 𝗱𝗲𝗰𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗴𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀.

Before your next big call, ask yourself:
Did I look at the evidence and decide?
Or did I decide and then look for evidence?

💬 Ever caught yourself doing this?

♻️ Repost for a leader who decides first and justifies later

Some CEOs don't solve fires. They start them.

A CEO I coach says "we need to talk about this NOW" constantly.
His team? Exhausted.
His business? Stagnant.

I asked him: "What happens when nothing is urgent?"

He paused. Then: "I get restless. Like something's wrong."

That's when I knew.

He wasn't responding to fires.
He was starting them.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
𝗛𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗮𝗱𝗱𝗶𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗱𝘂𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗶𝘁𝘆.
𝗛𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗮𝗱𝗱𝗶𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱𝗲𝗱.

But the real damage wasn't to him.

The cruelest part?
His best people stopped caring.
They'd seen too many false alarms.

When a real crisis hit, no one moved fast.
They assumed it was just another drill.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵:
𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗖𝗘𝗢𝘀 𝗱𝗼𝗻'𝘁 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗼𝘀.
𝗦𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗶𝘁.

Calm feels like failure.
Stability feels like stagnation.
Peace feels like irrelevance.

So they manufacture emergencies.
And their teams pay the price.

That CEO? We worked on one thing:
Sitting with calm without calling it a problem.

He'd built his identity around being the fixer.
Without fires, he didn't know who he was.

Last month, his COO told him something no one had said in years:
"This is the first time I've trusted your priorities."

💬 Ever worked for a leader like this? Or been that leader yourself?

♻️ Repost for someone whose "urgency" is exhausting their team

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