Connector of Talent and Success 💼 | Empowering Businesses to Thrive through People | Culture Growth Strategist | Coach | Writer | HR leader | #1 LinkedIn Belgium | Top #150 LinkedIn 🌍

Who I help: Ambitious introverts and people-first companies

Problems: Visibility without burnout, quiet leadership, culture that enables deep work

Outcomes: Promotions, role transitions, retention, high-trust cultures

STRATEGIC HR LEADER AND COACH WITH HANDS-ON APPROACH AIMING FOR THE BEST EMPLOYEE/BUSINESS EXPERIENCE - INTROVERT ADVOCATE

International HR Executive passionate about the link between employee experience and business dynamics. Combining a strong focus on strategic thinking and planning with a structured and factual hands-on approach. A positive well connected team coach with a natural sense of empowering team members in a spirit of challenge, learning and mutual recognition. Sound decision making capabilities based on critical reflections within companies focusing on innovation, change, digital transformation and learning.

A. Group HR Director Alter Pharma (200 FTE - BE/IRL/US) – private equity backed firm defining & implementing HR strategy (from strategy to operations) including definition of mission/vision/strategy & values.
B. Global HR Business Partner BU Kerley international/Tessenderlo Group (+/-300 employees - 11 countries) developing/transforming key HR processes (talent resource planning, talent acquisition, performance management, competency management, learning, reward,..) - HR project lead new factory Rouen, France. 
C. Global HR Executive SWIFT (+/- 3.000 employees in +25 countries) transforming/coaching business and HR into new ways of (digital) working/thinking to improve the employee and business experience 
D. Global Head of Reward Tessenderlo Group (+/- 5.000 employees in +25 countries) - strategic development/transformation reward strategy
E. Development new holistic performance management framework for Tessenderlo Group, including full implementation recognition stream.
F. HR Project Manager : move of the Chiquita EME Headquarters from Belgium to Switzerland (social plan negotiations, c&b setup, recruitment, mobility, new policy/process design,...)

Professional coaching certification Better Minds at Work               2018 - 2019
Centre for Creative Leadership - senior leadership program           Q1-2 2018
Management Development Programme Vlerick (17 days)		  2010 - 2011
Strategic Compensation & Benefits Management, Vlerick 		  2007      
Master degree in Law&Taxation, Katholieke Universiteit Leuven    1997 - 1998

Steven Claes

Every setback felt like proof I was too quiet to succeed.
Every win felt like luck.

At 32, my boss pulled me aside.
“You're too quiet for executive leadership.”

I replayed that conversation for months.
Every meeting I stayed quiet.
Every presentation I let others dominate.
Every networking event I left early.

The feedback stung because I believed it.

The lateral moves? I blamed myself for not being louder.
The passed-over promotions? Thought I didn’t sell myself enough.
The struggling projects? Maybe I was too introverted to lead.

I carried those stories for years.
Like stones in my pocket.
Getting heavier with each new challenge.

Then something shifted.

The promotions I didn’t get kept me learning.
Now I lead with knowledge, not just ambition.

The struggling projects taught me to listen for what wasn’t being said.
That skill transformed every team I touched.

What introverts do differently with setbacks:
 • We don’t bounce back. We build back.
 • We don’t forget feedback. We mine it for truth.
 • We don’t perform resilience. We develop it quietly.

What others saw as mistakes:
 → Avoided office politics (built trust through work)
 → Skipped self-promotion (let results speak louder)
 → Stayed in roles too long (mastered depth)
 → Took time to process (while others rushed to respond)

Today I’m CHRO.
Still quiet.
Those “setbacks” were my education.

Every introvert I’ve hired has a similar story.
Told they were too quiet.
Too thoughtful.
Too slow.

Now they’re running divisions.
Transforming cultures.
Leading quietly.

Your setbacks aren’t failures.
They’re data points.
Your quiet processing isn’t weakness.
It’s how you turn feedback into fuel.

That boss who said I was too quiet?
He was half right.
I was quiet.
But I was building.

💬 What feedback once hurt but later helped you grow?

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Some introverts are prisoners of their wiring.
Others are architects of their growth.

I’ve coached enough quiet leaders to see the split happen in real time:

The stuck ones hold on to: "I'm wired this way. I can't change."
The ones who thrive? They know wiring is where you begin, not where you end.

I worked with a senior manager who kept saying:
"I was raised to stay quiet and not make waves."

Fifteen years. That one sentence kept her invisible.
Passed over for promotions.
Watching louder colleagues move ahead.

And yet. In those same fifteen years, she'd:

-Led 3 projects that saved millions
-Built relationships nobody else could unlock
-Spotted problems that stayed invisible to everyone around her

Her quiet upbringing gave her the ability to observe. 
Deep listening became strategy. 
Her stillness earned trust.

The prison wasn't her introversion.
The prison was her story about it.

Evolution for introverts isn't about becoming extroverted.
It's about updating your story.

Instead of avoiding tough conversations 
→ Use email to drive decisions

Instead of dreading all meetings 
→ Own your 1-on-1s where depth wins

Instead of staying silent 
→ Put your thoughts on paper first, then speak

That senior manager I mentioned?
She stopped apologizing for how she works.
Started using her strengths.
Promoted six months later.

Same person. Different story.

Here's what this work taught me:

Your nature doesn't need fixing. 
Your story about it does.

Your past shaped you. 
Your choices reshape your future.

Your quiet traits aren't a limitation. They're data.

Stop waiting for permission to evolve.
Start choosing which parts of your wiring serve you.

Which story kept you quiet this week?

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Stop trying to fix introverts.

In 20 years as an HR leader, I've seen companies burn millions trying to turn quiet leaders into loud ones.

It doesn't work. And it pushes your best people out the door.

Swipe through for what introverts need vs. what people think we need.

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What Workplaces Think Introverts Need vs What We Need

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They told me to fix my introversion. 
I fixed my environment instead.

We're introverts. We're not broken, just wired differently.

I spent 20 years as a CHRO watching the same pattern play out. 
The loudest voices got heard while the deepest thinkers got ignored. 

Quick reactions got rewarded, and thoughtful strategies got buried under the noise.

That's when I realized something.

We don't need to compete on volume. No, we compete on depth.

We build fewer bonds but stronger connections. 
Not because we can't connect widely, but because we choose connection wisely. 

While others drain themselves chasing validation, we recharge in stillness. 
While they mistake noise for progress, we find power in pause.

This isn't weakness. It's strategy.

We're not hiding or afraid. 
We're protecting our energy for what actually matters.

The research backs what we've always known: 

• Introverted leaders see 40% higher team retention because we listen more than we talk 
• We outperform in complex problem-solving by 74% because we think before we act 
• Our deep work drives 3x more innovation because we focus on substance over speed

Depth beats width. Every time.

What I need you to understand:

➡️ Your need for constant stimulation isn't our problem. 
➡️ Your discomfort with silence isn't our emergency. 
➡️ And your definition of success isn't our blueprint.

If we let you in, you've earned it. 

Not through persistence or pressure, 
but through respect. 
Through substance. 
Through understanding that our boundaries aren't barriers, they're filters.

➡️ We're not antisocial, we're selectively social. 
➡️ We're not slow, we're thorough. 
➡️ We're not cold, we're careful.

In a world drowning in noise, that's not a limitation.

That's an advantage.

Stop trying to fix us. We were never broken.

What boundary have you set recently that protected your energy?

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Research reveals the introvert paradox: 
More productive. Lower performance ratings. 

A 2024 study by SOAS University of London found: 
"Introverts are more productive despite displaying lower job performance than extroverts." 

I've watched this disconnect destroy careers. 

As a CHRO for 20 years, I saw the pattern repeat itself over and over again. 
Claire outperformed every metric. 
Yet her evaluation said "lacks presence." 

Thomas designed the entire system architecture. 
His review noted "could be more vocal in meetings." 

The quiet frustration builds. 
The talent gets overlooked. 

The problem isn't your output. 
It's the visibility of your output. 

Introverts lose in three predictable scenarios: 

1. The visibility trap 
Your deep work happens in silence. 
Your contributions lack witnesses. 
Your impact goes unrecognized. 

2. The documentation gap 
Your wins stay in your head. 
Your progress lacks a paper trail. 
Your patterns remain invisible. 

3. The credit vacuum 
Your ideas travel. 
Your name gets left behind. 
Your influence goes unmeasured. 

But smart introverts don't try to become extroverts. 
They create systems to show their natural strengths. 

Four systems that actually work: 
1. Create your visibility rhythm 

→ Monday: Share your weekly focus (3 bullet points) 
→ Friday: Send a 5-minute wins report to stakeholders 
→ Monthly: Connect your work to company priorities 

2. Build your evidence file 

→ Capture metrics from your deep work sessions 
→ Save positive feedback verbatim 
→ Track resources saved through your solutions 

3. Set deep work boundaries 

→ Block 90-minute uninterrupted focus blocks 
→ Create canned responses for interruptions 
→ Set "office hours" for questions/collaboration 

4. Use strategic presence 

→ Speak once early in every meeting 
→ Send one thoughtful follow-up after discussions 
→ Ask one question that shows your listening depth 

When I coached Sarah, an introverted finance director, she started sending a weekly "impact email" every Friday at 4pm. 
Five bullet points. 
Three minutes to write. 

Her boss forwarded it to the C-suite every single week. 
She went from "too quiet" to "indispensable strategic partner" in six months. 

The only thing that changed? 
Her system, not her personality. 

Your introversion isn't the problem. 
Your strategic approach is the solution. 

Want to advance without exhaustion? 

Get the exact templates, scripts, and systems that helped thousands of introverts without burning out in the free A+ Introvert Newsletter (link in featured section). 

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🔁 Repost if you believe quiet professionals deserve loud recognition.

Introverts don't need fixing.
Your workplace culture does.

I spent 20 years watching companies try to "fix" introverts.

Presentation skills workshops.
Open offices.
Loud happy hours.

Meanwhile, they ignored the real problems:
• Meetings that reward whoever talks most
• Brainstorms that silence deep thinkers
• "Collaboration" that means constant interruption

At 32, a VP told me:
"You need to speak up more. This quiet thing is career suicide."

I tried to be louder.
Until I realized: the mold was broken, not me.

Today I'm CHRO.
Still quiet. Still succeeding.
Because I stopped fixing myself and started fixing the system.

👇 This carousel breaks down what actually works.

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Introverts Don't Need Fixing (Your Workplace Culture Does)

I thought I was too quiet to lead.
Turns out, I was just introverted.

These 10 TED Talks helped me stop overthinking,
start showing up, and build a career on my terms:

Skip the Small Talk by Kalina Silverman
https://lnkd.in/dDJhrm_U
→ Permission to skip surface-level conversations

The Art of Being Yourself by Caroline McHugh
https://lnkd.in/dvqjsPzP
→ Stop performing. Start being.

The Secret Shame of Introverts by Monica Parkin
https://lnkd.in/ddgjTnk5
→ Why your quiet nature isn't a weakness

The Mind Behind Linux by Linus Torvalds
https://lnkd.in/dgnNDY-C
→ Proof that introverts build world-changing things

Stop Screwing Yourself Over by Mel Robbins
https://lnkd.in/dsVzu2MJ
→ The 5-second rule that bypasses overthinking

Your Body Language Shapes You by Amy Cuddy
https://lnkd.in/dayBXPnF
→ Power poses for when confidence feels fake

My Year of Saying Yes by Shonda Rhimes
https://lnkd.in/dUsR6Jxz
→ An introvert's guide to selective courage

Who Are You, Really? by Brian Little
https://lnkd.in/dF6Dp4Ks
→ Why acting out of character serves your goals

The Power of Vulnerability by Brené Brown
https://lnkd.in/dnVNdWnR
→ Leading with authenticity, not armor

The Power of Introverts by Susan Cain
https://lnkd.in/drHJYhyD
→ The talk that started a quiet revolution

After 20 years as CHRO, I know this:
Your quiet leadership style isn't the problem.
The world just hasn't caught up yet.

These talks taught me to stop apologizing for thinking before speaking.
To stop forcing extroversion.
To start leading from my strengths.

💾 Save this for later, and repost it to spread some value to your network.

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54% of employees are quietly breaking down.
You won’t see it until it’s too late.

Your best people aren’t quitting.
They’re not burning out.
They’re breaking. In silence.

And your quietest ones?
They’re drowning.

👉 Swipe to spot the signs before they disappear.

💾 Save this to revisit the warning signs.

♻️ Share it to support someone who's quietly cracking.

Warning Signs Everyone Misses (Means breaking)

Overthinking costs you more than you realize.

Not in time.
In opportunities you never take.

Introverts know this trap better than anyone. Analysis becomes avoidance.

Five ways to close that gap:

1. The 5-Second Rule

Mel Robbins nailed it. You have an instinct to move? Count down 5-4-3-2-1 and go.

Your brain will talk you out of it otherwise.
That window closes fast. Five seconds. Use them.

———

2. The Two-Minute Rule

Takes less than two minutes? Do it now.
Don't add it to a list. Don't schedule it. Don't think about it.

David Allen's point: tracking a small task takes longer than finishing it.
Stop managing. Start finishing.

———

3. Brain Dump Before You Decide

Too much noise in your head? Set a timer for ten minutes. Write it all down.
No filter. No structure. Just out.

Once it's on paper, patterns appear. Priorities get clear.
You can't organize chaos while you're drowning in it.

———

4. Externalize the Problem

Stop saying "I'm an overthinker."
Say "Overthinking is here again."

See the difference? You're not the problem. The thought pattern is.
You're not the storm. You're the one watching it pass through.

———

5. The "If-Then" Plan

Vague intentions don't work. Automatic actions do.

Try this:
"If it's 7am, then I write for 20 minutes."
"If I feel resistance, then I count 5-4-3-2-1 and start."

Peter Gollwitzer's research backs this. It doubles your success rate.
Pre-decide so you don't have to re-decide every time.

———

The truth more introverts need to hear:
Knowing what to do means nothing if you don't do it.

Your move.

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A 23-year-old intern dismantled my entire hiring strategy with one question:

"But what if they're not comfortable talking about themselves?"

She was talking about introverts in interviews.

I'd been screening out brilliance for 5 years and had no idea.

I used to defend every view.
Debate every point.
Need to be right.

But that one quiet question changed everything.

It taught me something 10 years as CHRO hadn't:

Wisdom isn't about having the best answers.
It's about hearing the questions you never thought to ask.

Now when someone speaks, whether it's my CEO or my nephew, I do something different.

I pause.

Not to plan my response.
But to understand their world.

The 3-Question Framework I Use to Listen Deeper

1. What am I defending?
Before responding, name the ego or assumption you're protecting.
Then let it go.

2. What's their 10%?
Even if you disagree with 90%, find the 10% that's true.
There's always something. Start there.

3. What would I think if I were them?
Not with your experience. With theirs.
Not with your context. With theirs.
This is where breakthroughs live.

This shift changed how I lead:

→ I stopped mistaking volume for value
→ Started finding insight in silence
→ Learned that understanding > being understood

The data backs it up:

Teams with psychological safety where every voice matters are:

✔️ 76% more likely to engage
✔️ 50% more productive
✔️ 27% less likely to leave their jobs

But we still reward:

❌ Quick answers over thoughtful questions
❌ Confident assertions over curious pauses
❌ Debate winners over bridge builders

Your quietest team member isn't checked out.
They're checking angles you haven't considered.

That junior employee questioning your process?
Might be your next breakthrough.

Growth doesn't come from adding more of what you already know.
It comes from seeing what you've been blind to.

Perspective isn't just power.
It's the only path to wisdom that matters.

Try these 3 questions in your next meeting. Watch what shifts.

And tell me this:

💬 When did listening to someone completely different from you change everything?

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I stopped pretending to be an extrovert.
My career exploded.

Because showing up everywhere wasn't commitment. 
It was fear wearing a name tag.

The truth?
You don't advance by being everywhere.
You advance by managing yourself.

What drains introverts in leadership
and what drives career growth instead 👇

1. Performing extroversion kills energy
Self-management creates sustainability.
→ Forcing constant visibility? You burn out.
→ Strategic presence? You grow faster.

2. Saying yes to everything stalls growth
Saying no with boundaries accelerates it.
→ Nearly half of introverts in extroverted roles report burnout compared to a quarter of extroverts.
→ Protecting your energy isn't selfish. It's strategic.

3. Constant meetings drain focus
Delegation multiplies impact.
→ Being in every conversation limits your team.
→ Empowering others to lead is 5x more effective at avoiding burnout.

4. Loud leadership demands attention
Quiet leadership earns respect.
→ Empathetic leadership isn't about volume. It's about making space.
→ Inclusive leadership recognizes people recharge differently.

5. Networking everywhere scatters influence
Showing up intentionally builds it.
→ Career advancement for introverts: be present where it matters, invisible where it doesn't.

6. Chasing visibility creates exhaustion
Managing energy creates resilience.
→ I went from performing to leading authentically and my impact multiplied.
→ The shift? Self-management became non-negotiable.

7. Ignoring rest kills performance
Protecting solitude fuels it.
→ Introverts need quiet to recharge. Ignoring that is running on empty.
→ Real leadership models rest, not just productivity.

You can build a career through constant performance.
Or sustainable success through intentional leadership.

One burns you out by Wednesday.
The other grows even when you step back.

♻ Repost to help introverts: visibility isn't everything. Intention is.

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Your star performer left at 5 PM every day.

That wasn't a red flag.
That was a roadmap.

I used to stay until 8.
Sent emails at midnight.
Wore exhaustion like a badge.

Then I noticed something.

Sarah, our top analyst, packed up at 5 PM.
Every. Single. Day.

The execs whispered about her "lack of commitment."
Some people labeled her not a team player.

But six months later?
She delivered more value than our entire always-on team.

What they missed:
She wasn't coasting. She was focused.

• No 47-email chains about nothing
• No staying late just to be seen
• No 3-hour meetings that could've been an email
• No pretending to work while scrolling LinkedIn

Just deep, meaningful work.

After 5?
She recharged. Unplugged. Came back clearer.

While others ran on fumes.

What happened next changed how I led:

• The "lazy" analyst got promoted to Director
• One team member hit a wall and had to step back
• The always-on manager made critical mistakes

I learned something:
8 focused hours beat 12 exhausted ones.
Real productivity happens in bursts, not marathons.
Your best ideas come after rest, not during it.

I started telling my team:
→ Your best work happens when you're fresh
→ Creativity needs room to breathe
→ Burnout helps no one

The outcomes?

The exec who doubted her? Stress leave.
The always-on manager? Critical mistakes cost us a major client.
Sarah? Running the department.

Her worth was never in the hours.
It was in the outcomes.

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Gary Brown

Your best introvert is planning their exit. 
They just haven't told you yet.

Micromanaging says three things: 

"I don't trust you." 
"I need control more than results." 
"Your process scares me because it's not mine."

For introverts, this kills retention faster than anything else.

We need deep work. 

Focus without constant interruption and mental space to think through complex problems.

Micromanaging destroys all three, and it's why your quiet top performers leave first. 

No drama, no warnings. 
They're just gone.

In 20 years as a CHRO, I've watched this pattern play out dozens of times.

One company I worked with broke the cycle with a simple shift. 
Outcome accountability instead of process control. 

Leaders set the goal, and teams chose how to get there.

The impact was immediate. 

Turnover among introverted leaders dropped 60%. 
Same deadlines, better quality, and zero hand-holding required. 

Because when you trust people to do the work their way, they deliver.

Great leaders trust, then step back. 
Micromanaging says everything about the manager and nothing about you.

How have you handled micromanagers without burning bridges?

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Your meetings are killing your best talent.

I was the quiet one for 10 years.
Invisible. Passed over.
Watching others get promoted for my ideas.

Now I'm the one changing the room.

Here's what introverts hear when you say:
"Why are you so quiet?" → "Why are you broken?"
"Just jump in!" → "Is this worth my battery?"
"Let's go around the table." → Time to update LinkedIn.

The math is simple but more leaders miss it:
- 50% of your workforce = introverts
- 90% of your meetings = built for extroverts

You're designing meetings that push your brightest people out.

I made 10 script swaps to save your talent.

Small changes in how you run meetings. 
Big difference in who stays engaged.

Swipe through. Change the words. Keep your people.

Quiet isn't disengaged.
It's brilliant.

♻️ Share and save this before your quiet talent becomes your competition

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What to Say (and not say) To Support Introverts in meeting

Most introverts nail the interview.
Then burn out in 90 days.

After 20 years as a CHRO, I've seen it happen too many times. 

Brilliant introverts accepting roles that drain them because they didn't ask whether the company actually values different working styles.

73% of employees leave due to poor cultural fit. 
Introverts feel this more, scoring 10% lower in workplace well-being.

The interview isn't just them sizing you up. 
It's you sizing up whether this company respects how you work best.

Swipe through for the 9 questions every introvert should ask before saying yes.

Your energy isn't up for negotiation. Neither is your environment.

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Most Introverts Nail The Interview (Then Burn Out)

Stop building a career on loyalty.
It's the ultimate introvert trap.

For 10 years, I gave my quiet best to companies that forgot my name the day I left.

The loyal one stayed with the company.
The purposeful one stayed with the mission.

This simple truth is reshaping how ambitious introverts build careers.

And the data backs it up.

———

Nobody talks about this:

92% of people want purpose at work.
Not perks. Not ping pong tables.
Purpose.

But only 21% of workers feel truly engaged.

That gap?
That's where ambitious introverts thrive.

———

You've been told to network more.
Speak up in meetings.
Be more visible.

But the research reveals something different.

Employees who find their work meaningful are 294% more likely to stay.

That's not a typo. 294%.

Compare that to fair pay? Only 54% more likely to stay.

Meaning beats money by 5X.

———

The introvert's mission-first strategy:

1. Anchor to your calling, not your contract
68% of Millennials accept lower pay for deeper purpose.
Why? Purpose energizes. Prestige exhausts.

2. Let your results do the talking
You don't need the spotlight.
You need the right mission.

3. Choose companies that match your values
Purpose-driven companies have 40% higher retention.
3x better financial returns.
Higher employee satisfaction.

———

The truth that changes everything:

Company loyalty asks: "How long will you stay?"
Mission alignment asks: "What impact will you make?"

One traps you.
One frees you.

44% of Gen Z and 45% of Millennials have already quit jobs lacking purpose.

They're not job-hopping.
They're mission-hopping.

———

Freedom is harder than attachment.
Security is easier than purpose.

But when you commit to a purpose instead of a place:
You perform better.
You stay longer.
You grow faster.

The right mission won't require you to be louder.
It will require you to be you.

So anchor to your calling.
Not your contract.

Serve meaning.
Not membership.

What mission pulls you out of bed?

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I thought I was too quiet to lead.
Turns out, I was just introverted.

But it took me 15 years of forcing extroversion to figure that out.

These 10 books helped me stop apologizing for who I am
and start building a career that actually fits me.

1. Quiet by Susan Cain
The book that redefined what it means to lead with calm and conviction

2. The Introverted Leader by Jennifer B. Kahnweiler
A step-by-step guide to leading without faking extroversion

3. Deep Work by Cal Newport
Why focused thinkers are becoming the most valuable people in any room

4. The Introvert's Edge by Matthew Pollard
Sales isn't about charm. It's about process. Introverts win with both

5. The Introvert Advantage by Marti Olsen Laney
The science behind why you need depth, not noise

6. Quiet Influence by Jennifer B. Kahnweiler
Six strengths that help introverts lead lasting change

7. Networking for People Who Hate Networking by Devora Zack
Real strategies for building relationships without working a room

8. Self-Promotion for Introverts by Nancy Ancowitz
How to get noticed without having to shout

9. The Powerful Purpose of Introverts by Holley Gerth
You're not flawed. You're wired this way for a reason

10. The Introvert Entrepreneur by Beth Buelow
How to build something big without pretending to be loud

After 20 years as CHRO, here's what I've learned:
Your quiet style isn't the problem.
The workplace just hasn't caught up yet.

These books reminded me that:
✔ Listening in 1-on-1s created more trust than speaking at 100 all-hands
✔ My written strategy docs moved projects faster than any meeting pitch
✔ Deep thinking in solitude solved problems committees couldn't crack
✔ Building three strong relationships beat networking with 300 strangers

Half the population is introverted.
It's time we stopped treating that like a disadvantage.

If you're tired of being told to "speak up,"
this list is your permission to double down on your quiet strength.

Which of these books speaks to your current challenge?

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Today I turn 52.
At 25, I hid in bathroom stalls before meetings.
Now I lead them as CHRO.

The same traits that made you second‑guess yourself at 25
are the ones that can make you impossible to replace
at 25, 52, or whatever comes next.

But only if you stop apologising for them.

I knew that in my head a long time ago.
I just didn’t have the guts to say it out loud.
That part took years.

I hope you don’t wait as long as I did.

25: The Breaking Point

I was the quiet one faking loud.

Forced networking until 2am. 
Performed enthusiasm I didn't feel. 
Dominated meetings that drained me by noon.

I sat in my car after another leadership summit thinking: 
"I'm in the wrong career."

Then a mentor said eight words that changed everything: 
"Stop playing their game. Start playing yours."

52: The Breakthrough

Today, I lead differently.

I skip 80% of networking events. 
Build five deep relationships instead of fifty shallow ones. 
Speak less but land every word.

Not despite being quiet. Because of it.

This is what I finally understood:

That overthinking? Catches problems before they explode. 
That selective socializing? Builds unbreakable loyalty. 
That need for quiet? Where real strategy happens. 
That careful processing? Why people trust my decisions.

At 25, I thought leadership meant being everywhere. 
At 52, I know it means being fully present where it matters.

I protect my mornings for deep work. 
Take walking meetings when I need to think. 
Leave events before I'm drained, not after.

The same traits that made you doubt yourself at 25 will make you irreplaceable at 52. 
But only if you stop apologizing for them.

You don't rise by volume. 
You rise by depth.

To every introvert who thinks they need to change: The world has enough performers. It needs more thinkers.

What "weakness" from your 20s became your superpower?

♻️ Share this if you're done apologizing for how you're wired. Not as an admission, as a declaration.

PS. Who dares to guess the age at this picture? :)

Exhaustion isn’t a badge of honor.
It’s a sign of poor energy management.

I was close to burnout before I turned 35.
Today, I’m a CHRO.

Still introverted. Never drained.

These seven tactics helped me stay energized,
lead effectively without pretending to be an extrovert,
and build a sustainable career on my terms.

Your energy is currency.
Spend it wisely.

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7 Energy Tactics That Saved My Introverted Career

I watched an introvert change an executive team with three words: "I need help."

The room fell silent.

The VP of Product had been carrying a troubled launch quietly for months.
She'd analyzed the data, built contingency plans, tested solutions.

But she never told anyone how bad it was until that Tuesday morning.

There was no drama, just clarity.
Her voice was steady and her request was precise.

The COO leaned forward. "What do you need?"

The extroverts might have called emergency meetings, escalated loudly, created urgency.

She did something braver.
She picked her moment and was vulnerable with intention.

Research shows teams led by vulnerable leaders see higher engagement, often by 25% or more. What most people miss is that introverts are built for this kind of leadership.

After coaching dozens of introverted leaders through moments like these, I've learned this: vulnerability is only risky when it's careless.

When it's strategic, it builds the kind of trust that moves teams.

How introverts approach vulnerability differently

✓ We prepare for it thoroughly: Timing matters more than speed

✓ We choose our moments with intent: Not every meeting needs every truth

✓ We frame it with solutions: "Here's what I need" beats "I'm drowning"

✓ We adjust the depth to match the moment: Context drives disclosure

When we speak up, it cuts through because it's not impulsive. It's earned.

In my work with introverted leaders, I hear the same fears over and over.

- "If I admit I need help, I'll lose respect."
- "If I share struggles, I'll look weak."
- "If I show uncertainty, I'll lose influence."

But the opposite happens every time.

One director I worked with voiced that she was overwhelmed.
She got the support she needed and delivered three weeks early.

A team lead raised doubts on a critical project. He prevented a costly mistake and earned a promotion six months later.

A quiet CTO opened up about health challenges.
She built the most loyal team I've seen, with 94% retention over two years.

The uncomfortable truth? 
Vulnerability works for introverts because it's rare.
It comes from someone who has already earned credibility.

People trust those who trust them first.

One DDI study found that 76% of leaders say they lead authentically, but only 24% allow themselves to be vulnerable.

That gap is the opportunity.

Introverts don't need to act louder to lead.
We just need to show more of what's already there, with purpose, in moments that matter.

The VP who said "I need help" that morning?
She's now the CEO.

When did your quiet leadership speak loudest?

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BonaMente

Helping companies bring transformational ideas into Business-as-usual.
Powerful blend of Strategic HR experience, strong business acumen and passion for modern trends in people-centric Leadership and way of organizing.

Supporting business leaders and company owners on wide range of transformative journeys:
- Complex multi-dimentional change programs
- Business Performance turnaround
- Business model change
- Leadership paradigm shift
- Targeted organizational culture change
- HR transformation
- M&A integration, spin-off business transformation

Individual Entrepreneur, Business Transformation Consultant

LeanPeople

The multi-discipline expertise business service platform, dedicated to put strategies into practice. Everything a mid-size business needs to reach outstanding results:
- business and market positioning
- marketing and market intelligence
- people and culture
- organization and processes
- legal and finance
We take care of your organization in all means, so you could care of your core business.

Co-founder and Chief Transformation Officer

Electrolux

Effectively manage manufacturing, supply chain, and logistics for 20 factories, 34 warehouses, one supply chain fulfillment centre, a population of 15k, and 18 direct reports. Define and deliver major improvements for Employer Value Proposition. Address the coming needs of Industry 4.0 transformations regarding digitization and modern capabilities. Utilize leadership skills to fuel positive organizational change, experiment with the latest methods, and meet the needs of the VUCA environment. Travel 50–70%.
Key Contributions
Reached and maintained the strategic target for product delivery at continuously improving cost while growing employee engagement since 2016. The key success came from several turnaround initiatives allowing entire end-to-end Supply Chain to perform at best of capabilities:
•	Designed, implemented and continouosly growing the new leadership approach based upon trust, engagement, and realizing full team potential.
•	Accomplished several multi-year cultural change programs: Consumer-focused supply, cross-functional collaboration, talent-driven teams; new practices became the blueprint for success.
•	Realized major organizational setup changes in Quality, Supply Chain and Manufacturing; completely re-energized and transformed the teams into admirable, high-achieving and continuously improving.

HR Director Industrial Operations EMEA (from 2019 - Europe)

Fully supported all organization units located in the region (Sales & Service, Professional Equipment, Logistics, IT, Global Technology) leading an HR team of three that managed 250 staff members. Guaranteed timely turn-arounds on key projects. Streamlined the processes for leadership changes and paved the way for increased profits and growth. Built new capabilities and new culture while making the leap to drive business to the next level as an independent self-driving sales machine.
Key Contributions
•	Secured business continuity and increased HQ stakeholders’ understanding of situation.
•	Completely re-energized the team and seeded enthusiasm and self-esteem, assuring all are ready for stepping up the responsibility and taking all market opportunities
•	Ushered the company into an era of being a top player in the Russian and CIS markets.

Regional HR Director (CIS counties + Baltics)

Linde Gas

Oversaw four production facilities, two ongoing M&A projects, and an HR team of 10 that supervised 1k employees.  Developed and implemented new and improved HR policies, procedures, and processes that contributed to overall organizational success. Preserved cost basis and needed profitability after the financial crisis struck. Restructured processes, minimized hiring and training efforts, and developed key leadership teams. Oversaw large customer installation projects. Focused upon succession planning and preserving operational capabilities.
Key Contributions
•	Reached all targets and deliverables when completing two M&A projects.
•	Assured business continuity along economical crisis, delivering expected level of EBIT and ROI.
•	Successfully rolled out a critical SAP HR project.

HR Director

Samsung Electronics

CIS region was newly shaped organization in 2005, became independent and reported directly to HQ. CIS region included 8 subsidiaries: Sales, Service, and R&D functions. Population around 1.000 employees, HR team 8 people.
Main achievements:
-	Built up CIS Headquarter from scratch, including main holding function (among which HR)
-	Established all core HR processes from practically 0 levels or upgraded up to required international standard
-	Effectively installed localized Leadership team. Traditional Korean expatriates moved to "adviser" roles where needed, otherwise fully localized.
-	Reduced Employee turnover from 25% to 5%
-	Together with the Manufacturing unit completed due diligence study (people side) for the opening factory in Russia

CIS Region HR Manager

That was the project of integrating acquired PWC Consulting business into IBM. The idea was to find synergies between 2 businesses to move from Product- to Solution-based model. The population of ~100 consultants.
- Aligned all processes to IBM standard while keeping low turnover rate.  
- Consulting department got through several restructurings with overall headcount increase
- Reached project deployment ratio was 86%. 
- Re-tuned the educational system to allow consultants to use time without project for learning.

HR Manager. Business Consulting Services department (integration project)

Luxoft

My core responsibility was to build the software development team of around 200 people for the new business stream of Luxoft - dedicated software development centres for big corporate clients.
The pilot project I held was with super demainging Deutsche Bank who decided to outsource their USA and UK development centres to Luxoft.

The core responsibility was hiring initial team of ±100 people within a strict timeline of several months and expand it as per demand keeping speed, at uncompromised quality of candidates.

Along with the growth of the team, I was also involved into employee development, leadership development and team cohesion building activities.

Recruitment Manager

Unconventional Leadership Enthusiast | Creator and propagator of the "5E's of Leadership" | Empowering Leaders to Transform & Thrive in the Age of Change

With over 20 years in corporate HR, I’ve transformed underperforming teams into high achievers and turned potential into performance.

Like many managers, those I’ve helped have faced the complexities of leading teams through challenging changes and resolving deep-rooted issues.

Today, as a consultant, I elevate leaders from daily firefighting to strategic excellence, driving outstanding team results.

My Commitment. 

I empower you to:
- Elevate your teams to new heights.
- Synchronize structures, processes, capabilities, and culture.
- Unlock your team's full potential with a clear performance roadmap.
- Foster a culture of continuous improvement and learning, tailored to your needs.

Why Partner with Me?
I offer more than advice — I become your strategic partner, crafting a unique approach that fits your world. As a mentor, coach, advisor, and consultant, I provide the methods and insights to view your organization from every angle, connecting these elements into a holistic picture.

People are the core of business success and the central driver of growth. If you're ready to uncover and maximize your organization's potential, let's collaborate.

Your vision, combined with my expertise, will forge a path to outstanding team results. 
Reach out with a message or book a call (button at the top of my profile). Together, we’ll shape the future of your organization.

Mikhail Lvovskii

"Can you make a game that feels like real life?"

That’s what my son asked me one day.

I shared this story around a week ago, showing the simple financial simulation we played over some time. I tried to explain valuables in life, which is not only money you can spend, but also taking care of health, family, and planning for future...

At first, when I heard his request to make a game, I smiled. I recognized the specific passion of my boy to understand the life, and the role of money in it.

Then I realized something:

This is the exact thing most leaders ask for.

They say they want playbooks, but what they're really looking for? 
A way to actually feel the impact of their decisions, not just read about it in a manual.

Here’s the funny part:
Whether we’re talking about kids or CEOs, the need is the same.

They both crave a space to:
→ Connect actions to outcomes
→ See how risk and reward really play out
→ Learn by doing, not by memorizing a list

So my son and I started on our “real life” game. 
-> We mapped out simple cause-and-effect loops.
-> Make a choice, see what happens. 
-> Earn, spend, save, invest. 
-> Adjust, try again.

And as we played, I realized:
This is exactly what good leadership systems do, too.

We talk a lot about best practices and frameworks, but none of them stick until people get to experiment safely.
Give a team a safe way to try, fail, and learn, and you get real change, real fast.

It’s wild how much business has in common with a child’s playground.

But here’s the punchline:
No one ever learned to lead by watching someone else play.

You have to get on the field. 
You have to try, make mistakes, see for yourself.

That’s why play is the oldest, most effective learning system ever designed.

So here’s my challenge:
- If you want your team to learn fast, give them space to experiment. 
- Make it safe, make it real. 
- Let them play their way to mastery.

Who’s building “cause and effect loops” at work? 
How do you create room for safe experiments? 
Would love to hear your take.

Talks about #culture, #leadership, #management, #futureofwork, and #humanresources

Interim HR Director/CHRO | Turnaround & Transformation Specialist | I stabilize broken organizations and rebuild dysfunctional teams

We’re quick to teach kids facts: how things work, what’s right, what’s smart.

But I’ve noticed with my son that he doesn’t need more answers.

He needs space to ask better questions.

We talk about curiosity like it’s just a stage before real learning.
Honestly, it’s the whole game.

When he asks, "Why do people go to work?" or "Who decides what things cost?" I could hand him the answer.
Instead, I ask, "What do you think?"

The stuff he comes up with? Sometimes hilarious, sometimes surprisingly deep, always honest.

It keeps reminding me of leadership.
The best leaders aren’t the ones with all the answers.
They’re the ones who keep the right questions open long enough for the team to grow into them.

Maybe real learning - for kids and adults - starts the moment we stop teaching what to think, and start letting people discover why to wonder.

Curiosity isn’t a warm-up. It’s the main event.

Speed isn’t the enemy. Recklessness is.

Most new CEOs and MDs show up thinking fast action is what boards want. Make decisions, shake things up, hope for quick wins.

But here’s the real twist: speed, on its own, doesn’t fix what’s broken. 
In fact, it usually makes cracks widen.

I’ve seen plenty of leaders walk in the door, all energy—pushing for big moves. 

But they forget what actually stalls teams. It’s rarely lack of ambition. It’s the invisible friction under the surface:

- People second-guessing decisions
- Departments protecting turf
- Quiet doubts that never make it into the open
- Unclear priorities that leave folks spinning

Moving fast without fixing those? That’s how dysfunction gets turbocharged.

The best leadership systems don’t just chase speed. They create speed—by making trust and focus unavoidable. Clarity isn’t just a “nice to have.” It’s the fuel.

The system I install with clients is dead simple: in eight weeks, you get every leader laser-focused on a short list of priorities. Everyone knows what matters and what’s expected. Leaders own not just results, but the mindsets behind them.

Forget long, wordy change management programs. Forget burying people in new policies.

Here’s what works:

1. Make priorities visible—so nobody hides behind “busy.”
2. Get leaders accountable—for both numbers and energy.
3. Open up real talk about what’s slowing execution.
4. Turn that awkward “hesitation” into fast alignment.

It’s strange how just eight weeks of this kind of system can shift a team from stuck to scrappy. Friction isn’t the enemy if you use it right. It’s a warning light. It’s feedback.

You want a fast turnaround? You need a human system that turns hesitation into momentum.

Trust isn’t a buzzword. It’s a choice you build, every day, in every meeting.

Slow teams aren’t slow because they lack speed. They’re jammed by what no one wants to say out loud.

My challenge: take a hard look at your own leadership system. Where are the hidden slowdowns, the quiet doubts, the gray areas? Are you building an environment where people move because they want to—not just because they’re told to?

If you want a real business turnaround, don’t just demand action. Start with real trust, visible priorities, and shared ownership.

That’s when your team moves at real speed.

Where’s the invisible friction in your business today? What would happen if you tackled that first?

If you want a high-performing leadership system, stop obsessing over org charts.

Start obsessing over real conversations.

Most CEOs and MDs step into a maze of complex structures. 
Everyone's focused on boxes, arrows, endless PowerPoint slides that promise transformation.

But here's the truth: 
- Real change never happens in a slide deck. 
- It happens when people talk - honestly, often uncomfortably. 

That’s where the fastest 8-week turnarounds actually begin.

I’ve watched leadership teams skip over the hard talks. 
They go straight to reorganizing. 
New charts, new titles, new workflow documents.

But nothing shifts until someone finally says, 
"What’s really slowing us down?" 
And, 
"What can we do - right now - to move faster?"

Forget the weekly scripted check-ins. 
Toss the ‘safe’ status updates.

Instead, ask real questions. 
Let the room get awkward. 
You can almost feel the pulse of the company change when someone tells the truth.

Here’s what I’ve seen work:
- Drop the script. Just talk.
- Don’t settle for surface-level updates.
- Invite the tough feedback, even if it stings.
- Let everyone, from the quietest team member to your right hand, speak up.

You want an 8-week turnaround? 
Start with one brutally honest conversation.

Don’t wait for the perfect plan or organizational flowchart. 
Just get people talking for real, today.

If your leadership meetings haven’t made anyone a little nervous lately, you’re probably missing out on your next big breakthrough.

So here’s my challenge: 
Swap one routine check-in for a truly candid conversation this week.

Ask: 
"What’s holding us back? 
What’s the one thing we need to tackle - today?"

It might feel risky. 
But that’s where transformation starts.

Try it! And let me know what happens next.

HR isn’t broken.

It’s just stuck carrying the blame for problems leadership refuses to touch.

Let’s be honest. HR can’t fix what leadership keeps funding and protecting behind closed doors.

Every “HR issue” you hear about that never gets solved? Trace it back. There’s usually a system at the top that quietly approves those exact behaviors.

- The toxic rainmaker who hits their numbers but leaves team morale on life support? Still gets the bonus. 
- The manager nobody trusts, but everyone tiptoes around? Still gets the corner office. 
- The “values” on the lobby wall? Everybody knows they’re just for show when office politics turn ugly.

HR can write the nicest policies, design shiny frameworks, even train managers till the cows come home.

But let’s not kid ourselves: culture isn’t a poster or a checklist. It’s whatever leadership rewards, excuses, or ignores.

And here’s the wild part: Most managers aren’t failing because they don’t care. They’re failing because nobody actually taught them to lead. They were promoted for being good at spreadsheets or sales—not for building teams that trust each other.

Dave Ulrich nailed it: 
“If line managers are not accountable for people and organization, HR is a mirage.”

It’s the oldest story in the book.

People don’t leave organizations. 
They leave bad managers—and those managers are exactly who our systems let off the hook.

Want your best people to stay and your business to actually work? 
Stop expecting HR to clean up what leadership keeps sweeping under the rug.

If you’re ready to do more than just talk, there is a space in my calendar we can fill together to make your leadership system work. 

Want to see real change? Start at the top.

Pass this along to a leader who’s ready to look in the mirror.

Everyone’s still talking about “T-shaped” people.
But here’s the reality: the smartest teams have moved on.

Forget debating I, T, M, or V-shaped talent.

The truth? These are just labels after the fact.

What actually drives performance is talent that flexes and adapts as the business changes.

The market shifts every year - the shapes you need change, too.
So why are most leaders still trying to squeeze everyone into last year’s model?

Here’s what I see in the highest-performing teams:
- People who can move between deep focus and broad collaboration without missing a beat
- Leaders who build systems for rapid skill growth instead of static org charts
- HR that’s obsessed with potential, not just credentials

The old approach was: hire for the shape that’s trendy, then hope for the best.
The new approach is: build a system that helps people develop multiple edges, explore new disciplines, and step into what the business needs next.

If your talent development playbook still looks like a textbook from 2015, you’re already behind.
It’s not about the letter you hire for.
It’s about what those people can become when the system pushes and supports them in real time.

Who’s still hiring for T-shapes?
Who’s building shape-shifters?

Stop following trends. Start building teams that can win in any market.

I’ve spent most of my career obsessed with one thing:
𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗯𝗶𝗴, 𝗹𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗻.

The messier the challenge, the more fired up I get.

Looking back, I realize it’s always been about transformation - just in different forms.

-> First it was M&As and culture change.
-> Then leadership journeys.
-> Then came financial crises, restructuring, and the need to rebuild trust.

-> Then Covid hit - disrupting everything.
-> Business progress stalled, energy drained, and uncertainty ruled.

Then came the next wave - 𝗧𝗲𝗰𝗵𝗻𝗼𝗹𝗼𝗴𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗔𝗜.
Suddenly, every old playbook was up for grabs.

The last four years of running my organizational transformation consultancy have been the most intense and rewarding of my life.
Each project, each turnaround, each leadership reset - a chance to rebuild something stronger.

And the wildest part?
We did it all in a world that seemed to reinvent itself every five minutes.

I’ve never been prouder - or more grateful - to have helped incredible teams thrive under pressure.

But a consultant’s mission always ends the same way:
when the team has the strength to run on its own, it’s time to step back and find the next turnaround.

Now, with 2026 around the corner and a solid pipeline forming, I’m getting ready for more - 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗯𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵, 𝗳𝗼𝗰𝘂𝘀, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗶𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗮𝗻𝗶𝘇𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝘁 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁.

Let’s keep building what’s possible.
Who’s in? 💡

Remember when digital transformation felt like a marathon everyone could train for?

Now, it’s a sprint—and the finish line keeps moving.

AI has just changed the rules for leadership, pretty much overnight. 
It’s not just another tech upgrade. It’s a full-on test of how fast, decisive, and human your leadership actually is.

Here’s the real kicker: 
Every CEO, MD, and exec is now getting graded on their ability to use AI as an advantage. 
If you hesitate, someone else will move faster. Simple as that.

This isn’t just about tools or hype. 
It’s about how you think and act.

Leaders who figure out AI are going to jump to the front.
-> They’ll automate headaches. 
-> Make faster calls with better data. 
-> Turn cautious teams into teams that execute fast (because the excuses disappear when AI does the grunt work).

The ones who wait? 
They’ll keep fighting the same old fires, but now those fires are ten times bigger and the clock is running out a lot quicker.

Let’s be honest:
- We’ve all seen leadership teams drag their feet on new tech before.
- But this time, the cycle is brutal. 
- Markets move faster. 
- Boards are impatient. 
The gap between the top and bottom widens every quarter.

If you’re a new CEO or just got handed a messy turnaround, here’s my take:
- Start running small AI experiments right away (you don’t need a PhD)
- Pull your leadership team in. Get everyone learning together
- Focus on real business headaches that AI can solve now, not three years from now
- Measure, tweak, move - don’t wait for perfect

AI isn’t a silver bullet. 
But right now, ignoring it is the fastest way to fall behind.

If leadership is about making decisions that move the business forward, AI is the new test.

Some leaders will take the test and win big. 
The rest might not get a second chance.

Who’s actually moving?

A weird thing happened last weekend.

I was trying to get my kids to clean up their toys. 
After week-long school break, room was looking way too messy.
 
The more instructions I gave, the slower things got. 
Questions, clarifications, waiting for my next move—total standstill.

I finally just said, “You know where everything goes. I trust you. Show me when you’re done.”

The shift was immediate. 

Suddenly, it became a project. They sorted, made up little games out of it, even helped each other. It actually got done faster, and with zero nagging.

On Monday, I returned to work and realized how much this “parent mode” sneaks into business.

We say we want teams to move fast and take ownership. 
But how often are we - without even noticing - setting the pace by controlling every little step?

In turnarounds or high-stakes projects, it’s easy to clamp down. 
We want things fixed. We want visible control.

The problem? 

The more you micromanage, the more passive your team becomes.

Fast, high-performing teams don’t need a permission slip for every action. 
They need clarity, trust, and a real chance to own the outcome.

If you’re always in “parent mode,” you’re training the team to wait for your go-ahead.
If you give them space (and trust), you might be surprised by the results.

The reality: 
You can’t force speed. But you can remove the drag.

So here’s my question:
Where are you still giving play-by-play instructions, when you should just be asking for the finished result?

Maybe it’s time to step back. And see what your team can actually build.

I used to think creating something big required a team, a fancy setup, and a real budget.

Today, my 7-year-old asks, "Can we make our own stories? You know, the kind with real animation?"

The wild part is, now we can.

AI and a wave of new tools have flipped the script. Anyone willing to imagine and learn can bring their ideas to life, no big studio needed.

You don’t have to be a pro animator to make a point visually.
You just need a message worth sharing, and a bit of persistence.

To me, this isn’t about replacing human creativity,
It’s about giving it a megaphone.

If technology lets a kid and his dad turn big life questions into stories, we’re on to something bigger than just content.

We’re seeing the start of a world where learning, storytelling, and real leadership all mix together in the same creative space.

That’s the future I want to help build.

P.S. I am soon coming out with the series of short animated movies explaining kids all around money.
2-minutes short 3D animated movies are the best way to explain my kids complex matters of earning, spending, saving, investing, making business.

Along with games, I consider visual stories the second best way to teach things to kids.

HR is not your compliance cop or party planner.

Let's just call it out.

Too many HR teams are stuck pushing paperwork, rolling out one-size-fits-all policies, and obsessing over annual engagement surveys that barely shift the needle.

But that's not what moves a business forward.

HR should be where growth starts.

If you want real results, you need a system where people know the goal, get the right support, and have the freedom (and pressure) to perform.

I've seen companies double down on ping pong tables, happy hours, and fancy policies.

Trust me, no one ever turned around a struggling business with free snacks.

What actually works?

→ Putting the right people in the right roles, fast.
→ Giving crystal-clear expectations, not just fuzzy values on a poster.
→ Holding leaders (yes, even the CEO) accountable for results, not just effort.
→ Rewarding what actually moves the needle.
→ Designing systems that make execution almost automatic.

The best HR leaders I know are builders. They're not waiting for someone to hand them a seat at the table—they pull up a chair and start driving the agenda.

They turn HR into the actual engine of business outcomes.

If you're in HR and you want to matter, don't hide behind process.

Be the architect of performance.

Nobody will invite you to lead if you don't make things happen.

Stop waiting for permission.

Start designing for impact.
 
Want HR to matter? Drive the business, not just the paperwork.

How are you making HR the engine, not the brakes, in your company?

Ever watched a kid build something from nothing?

A drawing, a paper city, a wild little experiment. 
It almost doesn’t matter what it is.

It’s that moment when they look up and say, “I made this.”

As a parent, it’s hard to top that feeling. But here’s the thing: we talk a lot about ownership and accountability in business. At the heart of it, we’re all chasing that same spark—the quiet pride of making something real.

Lately, I realized what I actually want to teach my son isn’t how to follow instructions. It’s how to come up with his own ideas. It’s how to make something that didn’t exist before, even if it doesn’t work out the first time. Maybe especially if it doesn’t.

Creating makes you care. Caring makes you grow.

That’s where leadership really starts. Not with memorizing rules, but with turning curiosity into something real.

If your team isn’t making things - testing, building, experimenting - something’s missing.

Leadership and learning are both about this simple loop: see what’s possible, try to make it happen, and learn by doing.

It’s not just for kids.

If you strip away the fancy language, most leadership "systems" boil down to a checklist and a prayer. 

I've watched too many new CEOs and MDs walk into the job only to inherit a playbook built for a world that doesn't exist anymore. 

They're told to "trust the process," but half the time, the process is just rearranging old problems and crossing fingers that the market won't notice.

-> Execution gets slow. 
-> Teams go quiet. 
-> Results flatline.

But real, high-performance leadership systems aren't born out of hope or recycled frameworks. 
They're put together on purpose, with people front and center.

Here's what actually works when the clock is ticking and turnaround can't wait:

- Clear roles, so everyone knows who's doing what (and why).
- Real transparency, even when it's uncomfortable.
- Fast feedback loops, where people get honest input and aren't left wondering.
- Accountability that's not just punishment—it's a culture where showing up matters, and people want to.

All in the first 8 weeks. 
No top-down edicts. 
No artificial cheerleading. 
Just focused change that puts the human part back in leadership.

If you had to start over tomorrow, would you rebuild your existing leadership system? Or is it time for something totally different?

Old playbooks don't create momentum. Precision and bold moves do.

So, what's the one thing you're doing right now that actually shifts the needle for your team?

Drop your answer or tag a leader who gets it.

Ever tried explaining compound interest to a seven-year-old?

My boy shows interest to various range of topics, among money and science are the top leaders.

I've been reading some adapted financial and science books with my son. They're fascinating, but let's be real - most of it goes way over a kid's head.
Even those written for kids...

I watch him wrestle with big ideas. Sometimes he gets lost. Sometimes he asks questions that catch me completely off guard.

That’s when it hits me: understanding isn’t just about the content, it's about how you translate it.

At work, I spend my days turning strategy into something people can actually act on. At home, I’m learning how to turn abstract concepts into curiosity and play.

It's the same skill either way: empathy. 

Seeing where someone is - right now - instead of where I wish they were.

So, when he asks why some people have more, or how money "appears," I answer with stories, not spreadsheets.

Maybe that's what real learning looks like. Less flooding people with facts, more lighting up that spark of understanding.

That's how you make ideas stick. 
With anyone, at any age.

Most CEOs talk about change.
Very few start with themselves.

I've seen it over and over: leaders overhaul teams, processes, org charts.
But their own habits?
Untouchable.
Their blind spots?
Off-limits.

And the business never really moves.
Because the system always mirrors the leader at the top.

Want accountability?
Show it yourself, even when it's uncomfortable.

Want speed?
Make decisions without hiding behind endless analysis.

Want trust?
Go first. Admit mistakes, ask for feedback, be human.

The hard truth is this:
You can't build a high-performing culture by standing on the sidelines with a checklist.
You have to do the real work, in public, flaws and all.

The best leadership systems I’ve seen?
They start with a CEO willing to get uncomfortable.
Willing to hear tough truths.
Willing to shift their own playbook, not just everyone else's.

So next time you think about transforming your business, ask yourself one question:
Am I ready to change, too?

That’s where the real transformation starts.
Who have you seen lead real change - by changing themselves first?

Most transformation leaders don't fail because they lack the right playbook.

They fail because they avoid the stuff staring them right in the face.

In my first five years, I was looking for a best possible framework.
I was always looking for the best "proven" method.
But I missed the uncomfortable truths that actually decide whether a transformation lives or dies.

After 20+ years turning around teams and businesses across the EMEA and Asia, here's the real kicker:
- Elite transformation leaders are not smarter.
- They're just more honest about what they've been dodging.

Here's what I wish someone had told me when I started out:

1. Clarity always beats control.
2. Change falls apart when leaders protect their own comfort zones.
3. Your company's culture is built by what you let slide.
4. Every pilot project reveals what strategies you actually believe in.
5. Resistance? It's free consulting if you listen.
6. If your communication isn't consistent, trust evaporates.
7. Your data is only as honest as your culture allows.
8. People don’t fear change, they fear what they might lose.
9. Metrics never move people. Meaning does.
10. The middle managers you ignore will make or break your transformation.
11. If everyone agrees, someone’s holding back.
12. You can't change what you refuse to measure.
13. Urgency without direction just burns people out.
14. Governance isn't bureaucracy. It's insurance against disaster.
15. The loudest voices aren't always worth listening to.
16. Real transformation feels boring before it gets interesting.
17. Leaders decide how safe it is to tell the truth.
18. Adoption isn't a one-time win. It’s a daily grind.
19. Silence is feedback, too.
20. Your real legacy gets built in the routines nobody notices.

Here’s the hard truth no one wants to hear:
Most leaders only learn these lessons after burning through their teams, budgets, or patience with the board.

But you don’t have to wait for disaster.
Every one of these sentences is a red flag I’ve seen wreck transformations that were supposed to be slam dunks.

Your transformation isn’t stalling because you need another best practice.
It’s stalling because you’re not facing up to the things you’d rather avoid.

So, which of these stings for you?
And which have you been sweeping under the rug?

Let’s be honest—no one gets out of this work clean.
But the best leaders are the ones willing to face what hurts.

Which one hit home for you?
Drop your number in the comments.
Tag a leader who needs this list.

Day one as a new CEO or MD? The clock doesn’t just start ticking.

it sprints.

Every leader says they’ll “listen first.” 

Most spend months orbiting in learning mode, waiting for stars to align before making a real move. 

I see the same pattern more often than I would wish to: hesitation, drift, then the slow bleed of momentum nobody wants to admit.

Here’s the unfiltered truth: teams don’t rally around caution, they rally around intention.

If leaders step in and treat the first 180 days as a safe observation deck, confusion sets in. 
-> Processes stall. 
-> People start guessing what matters. 

Suddenly, those first few months you thought were “for learning” have quietly set a tone you’ll spend a year unwinding.

But when leaders go all in from day one - listening, yes, but also making calls even when the picture isn’t perfect - everything shifts. 

I’ve seen it over and over. 

Installing clear, human leadership systems quickly isn’t about rushing for the sake of it. It’s about showing that you’re there to stand up for people and results.

A human-centric system isn’t a magic phrase. It’s the moment you:
→ Pull the team together in person and say what matters most (no slides, just straight talk)
→ Set expectations, even if you’re not 100% sure yet—clarity beats perfection every time
→ Make a hard call early on, then explain why, openly
→ Ask for candor and actually listen, then act

You build trust fast by mixing direct action with unexpected empathy. People respond to leaders who risk being wrong out loud. That’s how you get momentum before the rumor mill can even warm up.

I get it - there’s always pressure to play it safe. Especially for new chiefs in complex turnarounds or fresh leadership teams. But safe rarely means strong, and waiting almost always costs more than acting.

So here’s my question to anyone walking into a hot seat right now:

What’s your first big move when you step in? Do you make a tough decision early, or focus on building relationships? How do you balance real urgency with real care, right from the start?

Drop your best move below. 
Let’s build a better playbook together.

Age is just a number. Execution is what counts.

I learned this lesson the hard way.

Years ago, I took on a struggling team that had been burned out by bad leadership and constant changes. Some people said I was “too young” to make a difference, or that real results would take years.

Honestly, I almost believed them. I was excited of a challenge, but terrified with ambiguity and lack of experience.

But instead of waiting to prove myself, I started with execution, not theory.

I set up simple rituals: breaking down an "elephant" into clear weekly goals, daily situation check-ins, and as much feedback as I could get. 

No complicated frameworks, no waiting for the “right” moment.

I listened first, cut the noise, and focused everyone on what we could control right now.

It wasn’t about my age, my title, or what was on my resume.

It was about what we actually did, every day.

In a few months, that team was in the midst of the business turnaround - and people who once doubted me became the loudest advocates.

If you’re a new CEO or MD facing a shaky team: don’t let age or experience gaps hold you back. Don’t hide behind vision decks or big promises.

Start with execution. Show people what “good” looks like, in the trenches. Make it so clear no one can miss it.

That’s the only way trust—and results—show up fast.

My one-sentence rule: 
Execution beats experience, every single time.


P.S. Today I turned 48. 
With years, I got extended capability for strategic planning and analytical diagnostics.
But one thing I stay true to: as soon as I have relatively stable grip on a situation, I start to act.

Everyone says they want change. It sounds exciting - until you’re the one in the middle of it.

A few weeks ago, I watched my son struggle with something new. 

He was learning how to manage his own small home income - his first step into financial independence. 

It wasn’t smooth. 
At first, he was excited. But then lost track of how he earns. 

He wanted to give up. He doubted if he’d ever manage his tasks. And honestly, some tasks are not exactly nice to do...
 
It took me right back to boardrooms and leadership teams who hit that same wall. When a new system or rhythm rolls in, even the best professionals get uncomfortable. It’s easier to stay with what’s familiar, even if it’s not working.

But here’s the thing: real progress usually hides inside discomfort. 

My son pushed through (well, I should be honest - I helped him 😀). 
By the end of hos first month, he was not just keeping track—he was setting goals. He’d found his way, and his confidence grew.

That’s exactly how leadership works, too. Growth always looks like friction when you’re in it. You only notice the progress when you look back.

What change tested you the most this year - and what did it teach you?

The sharpest leadership lessons don’t show up in fancy meeting rooms.

Sometimes, they sneak in when you’re sitting on the floor with Legos or at the table with board games.

A few months ago, my 7-year-old hit me with a question I wasn’t ready for.

“Can we make a game that’s like real life — not just luck?”

That one stopped me cold.

I’ve read entire books on leadership that didn’t hit this hard.

Because at the core, he pointed out something most teams get wrong.

Too many organizations still run on wishful thinking and coin flips.
Too few actually reward clarity, effort, and learning over random shots in the dark.

So we built our own ‘real life’ game.
- No loaded dice.
- No shortcuts.
- Just choices, consequences, and the grind of earning each win.

Here’s what happened:
→ He started testing ideas, not just hoping for a lucky roll.
→ He learned from every mistake, then tried again.
→ He saw that big leaps came from small, steady effort.

It struck me how early we can teach what actually moves the needle:
- Cause and effect matters.
- Learning from choices isn’t optional.
- Progress is earned, not given.

Most leadership books try to complicate this.

But a 7-year-old gets it.

Maybe we should build more companies the way kids build games.
Start with questions that matter.
Test, learn, and tinker.
Don’t hand out trophies for just showing up.

So, here’s my question:
When was the last time you skipped the buzzwords and learned leadership from a kid?

Share your best lesson below, or tag someone who needs a reminder that growth comes from effort — not luck.

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