The Solisser Group

Helping high performers find clarity and direction, along with maximizing their strengths, so they can thrive!

Performance Coach

The Penguin Group

Executive Coach

Kurrent Kitchen and Bath 

High-End Fixtures Sales Representative - Helped clients build their dream homes by understanding the project goals and used advanced industry knowledge to give clients the best products particular to their unique style and budget.

Sales Representative

AdVenture Media Group - We're Hiring!

Worked with Fortune 500 companies to increase profitability through the use of data driven marketing techniques.

Account Manager

A Coach for Founders, Partners, and C-Suite Execs | I Take The Relentlessly Driven To Their Peak Potential | A 𝑵𝒐𝒏-𝑴𝒐𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 Method to Earn More & Stress Less | Ready for the Next Level?

Do you remember dreaming of building a successful business that would allow you to live your life on your terms?


Let's go from 'Dreaming That Life' to 'Living That Dream'!


Hey, I’m Shlomo. 👋

As a Business/High-Performance Coach, I work with Founders, Partners, and C-Suite Executives who are determined to build the business (and life) they know they are worthy of!

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𝐈𝐬 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐘𝐨𝐮?

Do you believe your business can be performing better❓️

Are you overwhelmed, but feel no one knows your business better than you❓️

Is your whole team aligned and working towards the same goal❓️

Are you in a complicated business partnership ❓️

Are you stuck "IN" your business, with no time to work "On" your business ❓️

And Most Importantly,

Are you currently living the life you dreamed❓️

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How will I help you?

By utilizing my Proven 3-𝑺𝒕𝒆𝒑 𝑭𝒓𝒂𝒎𝒆𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒌, I guide you to build lasting success in you business and life. 


👉 I guide you to complete clarity of your goals

👉 I help you understand your particular challenges 

👉 I work with you to create personalized solutions

👉 I coach you through the process of change

👉 I enable you to discover your strengths

👉 I show you how to build the business and life you desire

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𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞'𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞:

A coach should be there for you when you 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 them.

A coach should service each client to their unique needs. 

A coach should help you 𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞 your goals. 
(AND help you overcome daily challenges too)

AND

Coaching isn't about motivation, it's about resolution!

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𝐌𝐲 𝐌𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐏𝐨𝐩𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐫 𝐏𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐚𝐠𝐞👇👇

Freedom Coaching:

This package is specifically designed to grow your business, achieve your goals, and create more time, energy, and freedom from your business. 

Advantages:
✅️ A coach at your side, guiding you to build the business and life you desire.
✅️ Monthly Subscription- You are not locked in with a long term retainer.

Offer:
✅️ Set and achieve larger business goals and maintain focus with Biweekly sessions.
✅️ 24/6 access to help resolve challenges in Real Time. Your solutions when you need them!
(I only take on 10 monthly clients to ensure each client has all the access they need)
Access via calls/texts/WhatsApp/email.




"Your Success will be defined by your ability to resolve the challenges you face along the way."


Want to learn more? 

Schedule a FREE 15-minute video call and let’s discuss how I can help you. 
https://calendly.com/shlomoyachnes/power-session

Shlomo Yachnes, MBA

The Better Center

Senior Clinical Supervisor

Private practice

Psychotherapist

Chemed Behavioral Health

Avrohom Leffler, LCSW, is a graduate of Long Island University who has received extensive CBT training at the Beck Institute for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and OCD and anxiety training from the Tic, Trich and Anxiety Group at the University of Pennsylvania. His areas of expertise include anxiety, mood disorders, OCD, depression, effective parenting, and emotional regulation in children and adults. Avrohom has facilitated social skills groups for children and currently co-facilitates a DBT group.

SENSORY OUTLET THERAPY

Social Worker

Lakewood Peer Consultation Group

Founder and coordinator

The Center for Cognitive and Behavioral Therapy of NJ

---- Therapist in group private-practice specializing in CBT, DBT, and Scema therapy.
 ----   Provides short-and long-term cognitive behavioral therapy to children,adolescents and adults with mood, anxiety-related, and personality disorders.
   ----    Co-facilitates weekly DBT group

Cognitive Behavioral Therapist

Jewish Board of Family and Children's Services

	Provide individual psychotherapy for children, adolescents,  
   and adults
	Provide family therapy and marriage counseling 
	Facilitate social skills group for children/preteens

YMCA Counseling

	Provide counseling and psycho-education to children ages 4 to 14, 
   whose lives have been affected by drugs and alcohol.
	Facilitate weekly group and individual therapy.
	Utilize expressive art therapy.
	Conduct family conferences.

Clinician

The Special Children's Center

Provide therapeutic support for children and young adults with developmental disabilities.

Therapist/Educator

Preferred Behavioral Health of NJ

Provided individual and group therapy to culturally-diverse adolescents diagnosed with major psychiatric disorders, attention disturbances, anxiety, and depression.

Clinical Social Worker Intern

Compassionate Evidenced-Based Social Worker

Hi! 👋🏻 

So glad to see you here. A little about me!

I’m the Senior Clinical Supervisor of The Better Center, which is a group private practice/therapy center. I help manage and direct all clinical aspects of the center, including interviewing potential hires, policy, trainings and providing supervision for all Clinicians. Reach out with any questions or to collaborate!


Additionally, I have a small private practice. A little about that! I’m extremely passionate about everything therapy-related. I love working with people and helping people. And that comes across in my work!  My style is interpersonal and friendly, warm and supportive. Additionally I’m known to be a goal-oriented and focused therapist who gets results! 


Some areas of specialty: Anxiety, Mood Disorders, Emotion Regulation, OCD, Parenting, Relationships, Panic Attacks, Phobias and Trauma.  I’m also honored to provide therapy to other therapists and Clinical Supervision as well. Modalities that I’m well trained in include CBT, DBT and Schema therapy and also Mindfulness, EFT, EMDR, ACT and Gottman. 


I have also been employed at Chemed Health Center for over 12 years and enjoy being a therapist and supervisor there. 


Some professional background and experience:
Avrohom Leffler is a graduate of Long Island University who has received extensive CBT training at the Beck Institute for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and OCD and anxiety training from the Tic, Trich and Anxiety Group at the University of Pennsylvania. His areas of expertise include anxiety, mood disorders, OCD, depression, effective parenting, and emotional regulation in children and adults. Avrohom has facilitated social skills groups for children and currently co-facilitates a DBT group.


Additionally he has training in EFT, EMDR, EFT and is qualified to provide clinical supervision.
He is frequently published in the Voice of Lakewood and enjoys speaking publicly about therapy, Wellness, Mindfulness and Productivity. 



Contact me: for therapy please message me or email at avrohomleffler@gmail.com
For inquiries at the Better Center, call 646-578-8822
Or email at info@thebettercenter.org 
Can also check out our website the thebettercenter.org


Avrohom Leffler LCSW

Cool! But does it fit?

Sometimes men splurge and get a custom suit.
Maybe it fits better than off the rack, maybe not! Depends where you go and how much you spend.

For many, it’s all about being able to customize features. Get some cool looking stuff. And hopefully fits ok!

When finding a therapist a poor fit is not ok!
Cool quickly wears thin. Someone else’s style may not be for you. The main thing is to feel comfortable. And safe. 

Have you ever bought anything custom?

Clinical Director of The Better Center/Expert Psychotherapist in Private Practice/Purveyor of Positivity

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My shortest session ever?

I think it was something like 2 minutes. Maybe 5 minutes.

Was with a teen ( of course!) Stormed out.
And you know what? Totally my fault.

Of course I didn’t do anything “bad”. But you gotta know your population! Different wording, affect, body language.

I don’t remember exactly what I said. Probably something about why they came, or things to work on. Doesn’t matter. I could have done better. First sessions with these kinds of situations the stakes are high, gotta be smart.

Now, it’s true that he was extremely oppositional, defiant, impulsive, and really struggling. And been to other therapists with no success. So could be unlikely would go anywhere. But none of that matters.
My job is to know all that and be smart. Know how to relate to teens.

BH many years later there is little that fazes me.
I’ve gotten more smooth, more confident, more flexible, more humble. And like anyone who works with teens knows, more irreverent.

And I very rarely have sessions that result in the client getting explosive and storming out.
And if would happen, unfortunate but also ok.
We can only try. 

So important to reflect on our journey and appreciate the growth. And still be growing.

Did you ever think back to early in your career?
Any disasters?! 🤦🏻‍♂️😨😀

Motzei Shabbos was going to work with Totty day!!

You heard right! 😆 
No, not working. I need one day a week off!
But was heading to The Better Center to set up for my Sunday night show.

My kids asked if they can come because they had never seen the place in person. So of course I agreed. I’m a big fan of letting the kids know what we do, what do we spend so much doing, where we do it! And making it a positive if possible.

My girls loved the office. Said looks like a hotel. They call it “the hotel office”. And this is constant feedback we receive from clients and other professionals. That beautiful building and offices. Really lends such a serene and calm vibe and atmosphere to the whole experience.

Do your kids know what you do?
Ever bring them to the office?

Every town has its landmarks.

It’s famous buildings. Well known and iconic eateries. Institutions.

Here in Lakewood we have Bagel Nosh. BMG.

And now The Better Center!

The amazing thing is we haven’t been around for 30 years. It just seems like we have.

Really a novel and groundbreaking concept.
Accessible and quality therapy.

Stand-alone beautiful building
Intakes and consults within days, not weeks.
Experienced therapists ( we hire mostly LCSWs. Even the LSWs we hire, previous experience)
Reasonable rates
Accept Horizon!

As they say if you build it, they will come.
Well, we built it. And BH they are coming!
We continue to grow and see impressive numbers. And yet, our white glove service and boutique style therapy remains the same.

The only question is, why haven’t YOU reached out yet! 😊 

What landmark do you have where you live?

Your content is brilliant….

But is it as interesting and captivating as a picture of a steak?! Or chicken sandwich 

It’s interesting to see people complain about LinkedIn. They say it’s boring. Or doesn’t help or lead to business.

Then you take a peek and see they don’t even engage with the comments.. Someone took the time to engage with you. They took a chance.
Their reward? Being ignored. Lost opportunity 

Here are some benefits of LinkedIn:

1. Great chance to express yourself. Journal 

2. Get to know people. Relationships. Network 
And those can all lead to business 

3. Learn from others. Teach others and sharpen your own knowledge 

4. Business and career opportunities. Job opportunities. Hire candidates 

But all of these require investing some time.
To understand the platform. Thoughtful and relevant contact. Engaging with people.
Creating relationships.

Have fun with it! But have some understanding and strategy.

Some of my most viewed posts are non-therapy related. Or loosely connected.
And yet all that are connected with me know exactly my style, my jobs and what I offer.

What is one thing you find helpful about LinkedIn?

Many years ago I volunteered to accompany a Meshulach door to door in my neighborhood to help them collect much needed funds.

At one house a small child gave us each a can of soda “here, take this”. Such a well-raised child, clearly a product of tremendous Chinuch.

I didn’t really want it and tried explaining to the child I live a few blocks away and I’m good. Plus would be hard to carry and not practical. He insisted I should just take it so of course I did.

And had absolutely no idea what to do with it!
A warm can of soda? If anything would have preferred water. I think I just stuck it in my pocket. 

I would like to highlight 2 valuable lessons from this story. One, need to give people what they need. Not what you have or what you want.
Yes, it’s such a beautiful thing to give out drinks. But cans of soda are not practical.
For the same price and effort, buy water!
This can be true for customers, with parenting, anything. Don’t just do what works for you. Or what you’re used to. Do what’s wanted and needed.

And two, sometimes you need to take even if it’s not wanted or needed. It’s for the giver. By being a taker, you’re actually being a giver.

That actually reminds me of another story which I’ll put in the comments.

What’s your takeaway from this story?

Should parents be present in the therapy room together with their kids?

Of course the answer is.. it depends!

But for most kids the answer is no.

Let’s look at the pros and cons of each.

One of the reasons why therapy is successful is because it’s a fresh start. A chance to change.
Also, it’s a neutral setting. It’s NOT home.

So if a parent is present:
1. You lose some of those benefits 
2. The child may “act out” or put on a “performance “ for the parent. Harder to change.
3. The parents own issues are present. And gets blurred who is the client. If the parent struggles with anxiety, and the kid feels it in the session, mitigates the effectiveness.

On the other hand! If the child is anxious having the parent there can help regulate them. But often that’s only first session or two. Then the kid is fine and totally comfortable.

Having the parent present can help with having more information. Can help to work on family dynamics. Can work on the child’s behavior, work on changing or improving their relationship or their interactions. Increase attachment ( let’s keep in mind not all therapists are trained for a lot of this. The more people in the room, family therapy, the more complex. If not trained in family therapy, best to not be reckless)

In summation, most kids do great coming alone. And we need to make sure if the parent is present, it’s for a reason and the therapist agrees with it and it’s helping. ( of course if the kid is very anxious and asks for their parent first session or two that’s totally fine. And if the parent is present and helps them feel more comfortable about the process, that is important as well)

Most parents assume their kid will be more or less coming by themselves. If they ask if they will be present, I always say I’m equally comfortable either way and whatever is clinically best for their child.

I also stress the importance of working together, knowing what’s going on, joining sometimes and for parenting sessions.

What’s your thoughts?
Do you think kids should be in the therapy room alone?

ChatGPT finally disagreed with me! 😆

We all love how agreeable and positive it can be.. apparently has some backbone!

I asked something like “When CBT is done in compassionate way is it similar to IFS”?

Did not love the comparison!

Agreed that there are similarities: Both can feel warm, validating, and non-judgemental. Both can help you notice your emotions instead of feeling fused to them ( me, not ChatGPT: IFS talks about SELF, in CBT it’s a core belief, in DBT it’s Wise Mind) 

Both have aspects of being curious, gentle and of course healing.

But said they are still fundamentally different.
CBT is liked because clear, structured and practical. IFS has its own advantages.

What do you think, do you think when therapy is done in humanistic and compassionate way many modalities are similar and have over-lap?
Or not going for it?

Does ChatGPT ever talk back to you?

Together?

Or scheduling with with calendly?!

We live in a fast-paced world. Often both husband and wife work, kids, life stressors.

It’s a real challenge to spend quality time.
But it’s so important to invest in that.

I’m not one who says “date night” is the most important thing with marriage. But some version of that is definitely part of what’s important.

Quality time. Talking. Checking in with each other. Validating. Sometimes having real conversations and even deep ones.
Every couple is different and have different wants and needs.

But connection is always important.
And always a good idea to get away every now and then, whether once a day, week or go away for a night or longer!

PS there is a great book “Together” coming out soon. I was asked to review and write a few words of endorsement. Not quite yet but keep a look out!

Do you think couples find it challenging to spend quality time?

Push that cart!!

Much of the time the shopping carts in stores don’t work great. Usually one wheel is a little broken and hard to push. But we get there.
We complete the shopping and have the items 

I had the following thought:
We are like that cart sometimes!
Rolling along, making moves. But not easy!

One wheel broken, something not working properly. Hard to push through. Frustrating!

But we push!
And do our best to make it to whatever the particular finish line is. 
Even to successfully complete another week doing the best we can.

Do you find that shopping carts are hard to navigate?

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