Soul First. Strategy Second. | Akashic Life & Leadership Coach | Visionary leaders finally feel the success they’ve already built through Soul Alignment | Creator of the Akashic 5D Experience 💫

High-performing leaders don’t burn out from success.
They burn out from continuing to operate inside something that no longer fits.

When results look strong on paper, but decisions keep draining energy, that’s not fatigue.
It’s a signal you’ve been overriding.

Signals repeat until you stop.

I work with high-achieving leaders who have already optimized strategy, systems, routines, and mindset, yet still feel a quiet drag they can’t solve by doing more.

Nothing is “wrong.”
Something is outdated.

What I do:

I help leaders identify the unconscious pattern and structural mismatch driving decision fatigue, stalled momentum, and misdirected effort, then correct it at the source so decisions become final and direction holds.

I do this as an Akashic Life & Leadership Coach, using the Akashic Records as a diagnostic tool, not a philosophy, to see what strategy alone can’t.

This is not mindset work.
It’s not motivation.
It’s source correction.

What changes when the source is corrected:

• Decisions stop being revisited
• Misaligned roles, offers, or strategies get shut down
• Effort drops without loss of momentum
• Leadership feels simpler, not heavier
• Success stops costing health or identity

I learned this work through lived consequence, not theory.
After losing my home, my partner, and my sense of direction, clarity stopped being optional.

It became structural.

Today, I do this work inside The Akashic 5D Experience💫, a private, multi-session container for leaders who are done circling and ready to choose from their true operating system.

Clients experience results like:

• Cleaner decisions in half the time
• Revenue growth without burnout
• Promotions and pivots that hold
• Teams that feel the shift before it’s announced

If you’re done fixing strategy and ready to correct what it’s built on, start with the Featured section or message me directly.

Sandra J Wilson

Grief doesn’t confuse you. It splits you in two.

Part of you wants to move forward.
Another part wants everything to stay exactly the same.

So you think harder.
Plan more.
Try to reason your way out of the discomfort.

That doesn't work.

Truth doesn't come from arguing with yourself.
It comes from listening to what your system already knows.

Grief strips away your tolerance for pretending.
 
What no longer fits becomes impossible to carry.
That’s when clarity starts returning.
 
Not because you force it.
Because you stop fighting it.

There are seasons when loss temporarily disrupts your inner voice.

When that happens, the work requires a different level of understanding.

I make space for one client in that season at a time.

Quietly. Intentionally.

The details are in the Featured section or https://lnkd.in/eykHBzDg

Your body already knows the answer.

Soul First. Strategy Second. | I identify the root pattern shaping your decisions, then recalibrate it | Akashic Life & Leadership Coach | Certified Soul Realignment® Practitioner

Your body already knows the answer.
 
Your mind just hasn’t agreed yet.

That disagreement is what people call indecision.

It’s the mind arguing with a truth the body has already accepted.
And that internal conflict burns more energy than action ever could.

This is why leaders feel tired without doing much.

They’re not overwhelmed by options.
They’re resisting what their system already knows.

Your Soul Blueprint doesn’t give you new answers.
It removes interference.

And when the noise clears, decisions don’t require effort.
They require honesty.

This is the work I do in a private client experience.

If this is something you’ve been living with, start with the Featured section.

After loss, the mind doesn’t want truth.
It wants guarantees.

So it replays conversations.
Reviews decisions.
Runs scenarios until everything blurs.

I thought that was intelligence.
It wasn’t.

It was grief trying to manufacture certainty.

Here’s what I learned the hard way:
Guarantees don’t exist.
Truth does.

And truth doesn’t come from thinking harder.
It comes from listening to what your system already knows.

The real cost of avoiding truth isn’t confusion.
It’s exhaustion.

Most people who say they’re “tired” aren’t overwhelmed.
They’re negotiating with something they already know is true.

And that negotiation is relentless.

So I’m curious:
If you’re honest with yourself, what truth are you still trying to outthink?


Energetically I only work with one grief client per month. 

If this is you, https://lnkd.in/eykHBzDg

You keep clearing your inbox. But, when was the last time you cleared your energy? (or for me, the fruit fly that appears in my video) 😂 

Frequency carries residue, especially after heavy calls.
 
Simple rituals keep your signal clean.

Why you would use the  ⚡️Energetic Hygiene Toolkit ↴

 → Your focus drops after meetings, even when your calendar looks manageable.
 → You pick up other people’s urgency, then feel wired and tired.
 → You are great in the morning, then your edge fades by mid-afternoon.
 → Your body feels “full,” but you cannot name why.

 
What it changes ↴
 → Faster mental recovery between calls.
 → Less emotional carryover from other people’s stuff.
 → Clearer decisions because your signal is clean.
 

When to use it ↴
 → After tough conversations, before presenting, between back-to-backs, and at the end of the day.
 → Any time your field feels noisy, or you notice you are solving problems that are not yours.
 → Five minutes or less, no special gear, works in real life.


You don’t need more grind, you need cleaner energy. 

I built six one-page tools to clear, reset, and raise frequency while leading.

What’s inside ↴

 ⌛️Daily Frequency Reset
 ⚡️Energetic Hygiene Toolkit
 💫Vital Force Energy Audit
 🔥Raise Your Frequency Playbook
 😇21-Day Soul Frequency Challenge
 🌟Energetic Boundaries for Leaders

Get the Energetic Hygiene Toolkit inside 🌟 The Energetic Leadership Series, $11.

 Link in Featured

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Most resistance isn’t fear. It’s a pattern.

Your mind keeps pushing, but your body keeps pulling back. 

That tug of war drains more energy than the decision itself.

Clarity feels slippery for one reason. 

You keep trying to choose from the same internal structure that created the problem.

High achievers do this all the time. 

They call it discipline. 
It is repetition.

When you stop overriding the signal, decisions get clean fast, then momentum returns. 

Not because you tried harder, but because you stopped repeating what was never true for you.

This is the work I do inside the Akashic 5D Experience💫.

If this hits, go to my Featured section and start there.

She called it an “acting” role.

Temporary. 
Transitional. 
“Just until we find the right person.”

So she said yes.

Not because she wanted it, but because:
The team needed stability.
The timing “wasn’t right.”
Clarity would come later.

From the outside, it looked like progress.
Title, authority, visibility.

Inside, January after January felt heavy.

Here’s the part most high-achievers hate admitting.

She was not confused about whether the role fit.
She was waiting for certainty she was never going to get.

In my work, this is one of the most common energy leaks I see in leaders.
 
Not the job. 
The negotiation.

Your system can only run “temporary” for so long before it starts charging interest.

The shift happens fast once they choose.
 
Either fully claim it, or step out.

Not because the job changes.
Because the inner argument stops.

Try this today: ↴

Name the role you are “temporarily” holding.
Write one sentence you keep repeating to justify staying in limbo.
Then answer this:
What decision would you make if certainty was not a requirement?

If you want the deeper root, I look at this through your Divine Soul Blueprint, including your Energy Center (your soul’s purpose) and the patterns that keep you over-responsible, over-accommodating, or quietly resentful.

If you are ready to stop negotiating with what you already know, DM me “ROLE” and I will tell you if The Akashic 5D Experience💫 is the right next step.

High performers love to collect skills.
 
New certifications. New strategies. New tools.

But the smarter you try to get, the further you drift from the brilliance you actually own.

Your real genius isn’t learned.
 

It’s remembered.


It is the thing you do without thinking.
 
The thing others struggle with, but you do in your sleep.

The thing you secretly downplay because it never felt hard enough to count.


This week’s Rethinking Your Reality breaks open why your genius is energetic, why strain kills it, and why ease is the proof you keep ignoring.


Read it here 🤓 ↴

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High achievers don’t hate endings.
They fear what endings force them to admit.

That something worked.
And now it doesn’t.

So they hold on.
Refine.
Maintain.
Rescue.

They call it resilience.
But energetically, it’s avoidance.

Because what you refuse to end doesn’t stay neutral.
It starts charging you.

Time.
Clarity.
Authority.
Creative power.

Strong leaders don’t cling to what’s complete.
They release it before it drains the field.


This week’s Rethinking Your Reality. Leadership Edition breaks down why endings aren’t collapsing.

They’re calibration.


Read it here 🤓 ↴

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If you’re torn between two options, congrats.
You’ve found your favorite hobby. 

Negotiating with yourself.

Instead:

Name the decision you keep revisiting.
Ask, What am I trying to talk myself into?

That’s the pattern.
 
Approval has a way of pretending it’s “logic.”
Choose relief, not applause.
 
Your nervous system will confirm it fast.


 Orientation first. Strategy second.


What decision are you currently renegotiating for the tenth time?

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Hey everyone! An ordinary genz guy, just here to add on to my perspective of the world, people and to add on to my spiritual journey! Although I'm a mechanical engineer:
1. No job, running my own business of motorbike parts.
2. Interests in... EVERYTHING in the world! Be it science, spirituality, psychology, mythology, history, sports...u name it, I'm the guy to talk too
3. A High Functioning ADHD
4. Social anxiety, but very talkative.

In short, a weirdo who loves life! Feel free to connect!

Kunal Kukreja

So last post before signing off!

I'm not gonna lie, switching off, uninstalling IS HARD!!!

Reason?

CHANGE!!!!

We are creatures of habit, it's very difficult to break a pattern or habit

Especially when its something we love!

And I freaking love all of u!

Ranging from the wise ones like Kimberly Maurer  BS, LPN, Pearl mum, the new people with "blocking threats" like Suzy big sis hehe, to the ones whom I'm with everyday like Phyllis big sis, Ireland big sis, Rachelle mama, Sophie big sis!

And the list goes on!

To tell u all, I'm going to the White Sand Desert in the Rann of Kutch....a BEAUTIFUL PLACE!

And best part, with my mum!

So definitely it's difficult for me to NOT come online here...I'll miss u guys so so so much!!

But what's needed is needed

So today's one last post before I uninstall tomorrow 

And I'll be coming back on 23rd

Till that time,.love u and take care!

What are the trips you're planning in 2025?

#travelling

POLL NUMBER 2!!

So on Monday, the 19th, I'm off to a trip to The Rann Of Kutch, the white sand desert in my country !

And guess with whom, WITH MY MOM!

My first ever trip with her for 5 days, and gosh I'm so so excited!!!

Now a suggestion, should I continue posting here, or uninstall Linkedin altogether?

I mean...I'll miss u guys and at the same time, want to be completely with mum!

I'd love your suggestions!

#trip

What would u suggest me in regards of staying online or offline during the trip?

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GIVING RELATIONSHIP A SECOND CHANGE

Poll time! 

And yes, the last "real help" poll before 19th, otherwise, my Suzy big sis will get me blocked for being online on a trip 😱😱❤️ (love u for that big sis hehe)

Anyways....so I was speaking to my ex date today, we had a long conversation....and she said one thing

"We all deserve a second chance, I made a mistake, I'm ready to amend it....together"

Emphasis on the last word.

To put into context, she's the one who had cheated on me for another stranger...and it seems that didn't work out that well for her

Now...I am confused

1. One side says I want to not take a chance, once a cheat is always a cheat 

2. Other side wants to forgive and become a friend...but not jump into dating.

And ..yeah this is what is going on right now

And tomorrow, I'll be meeting her in college 😱

So guys, help your boy out pls 🙏🙏🙏.

Should I give that relationship a second chance?

I gotta thank Rachael mum for today's post.

It took me back to a past experience of mine, with a few people, even someone here on this platform (the same..."you're draining" person)

When I mentioned about the emotional abuse and trauma with dad, I was actually asked a couple of things

1. Why aren't u medicating yourself ?
2. Your trauma is gonna make u diseased, where is your list of medicines?

And I was APPALLED, and I actually had some tears in my eyes 🥺🥺

Why u ask? This is a simple question right?

Not exactly...because

Why do we take medicine? Especially when its related to our mind... definitely there's a thing of being "diseased"... 

Not in the general sense..but if u read the 2nd question, the thing of "diseased" comes more upfront.

No I'm not pitying myself...it's not to spread weakness.

It's to make one thing clear

TRAUMA IS NOT DISEASE!!!!

It's an unpleasant experience, can be an aftermath to something very serious, but no it's definitely NOT A DISEASE

Speaking to loved ones, self care practices WITHOUT adding a foreign chemical can DEFINITELY help!

So whenever u see trauma and disease coming as one thing...

SPEAK UP!  Look at the way people like Kimberly Maurer  BS, LPN , Rachael mum, Alice big sis, Cheryl mama speak up, they don't wanna bring comfort, they wanna bring A REVOLUTION!

And I don't stand up to these queens, not even the slightest, but I can just do my bit, to speak what I feel is the truth!

So again, never hesitate to use your voice, IT MATTERS!

How do u view trauma as? Do u think trauma is a disease?

#trauma #disease

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