Ryan Staley

I help Chief Revenue Officers & Sales Professionals Leverage AI to work 10 hours less weekly and 2x performance. Follow for cutting-edge cheat codes, prompts, and workflows🎙Scale Up Show Host🔥$0→$30M ARR in 5.5 yrs

Over the last decade, I’ve grown a division from 0-$30M ARR with 4 Sales People and have upskilled over 2,500 GTM executives on AI, Enterprise Sales and GTM Strategy  .

My mission is to inspire 1 million Go To Market Executives to work less and sell more through becoming Superhuman with Artificial Intelligence.

I help revenue leaders transform their teams by acquiring AI skills to escape the operational grind, and accelerate topline revenue.

I’m the founder of Whale Boss and The Scale Up Show.

My portfolio:

→ I’m the Founder of Whale Boss, an AI Sales & Marketing consulting and skill transformation company
→ I’m the Founder of the Scale Up Show, Top 1% Global Podcast
→ I teach Executives, Sales & Marketing teams to implement tools like ChatGPT, Copilot, Claude, etc.   
→ I provide Chief AI Officer Advisory services for human capital.  


My results:

→0-$30M without funding, marketing or SDRs with only 4 Sales people
→Identified and implemented over 500 AI use cases (internally and externally)
→Taught over 800 CROs proprietary selling strategy and tactical execution
→Consulted over 40 Technology companies on custom revenue growth strategies.  
→Voted as a TOP global AI thought leader, Gartner Ambassador & Sales Assembly thought leader. 


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I deconstruct how the top SAAS CEOs in the world grow their companies repeatedly and predictably.  

This show has featured Startup and Billion Dollar Founders, Best Selling Authors, and the World’s Top Sales and Marketing Experts like Terry Jones (Founder of Travelocity and Chairman of Kayak),  Andrew Gazdecki (Founder of Microacquire), Harpaul Sambhi (Founder of Magical with a previous exit to Linkedin) and many more.

I've spent 3 years helping executives navigate the fastest transformation in human history.

Here's what I've learned:


The ones who perform under pressure all have something in common.


A center. An anchor. 
Something they control when everything else is chaos.


For me? It's this. 5am. 
Weights. 
Silence before the storm.


This isn't a "wake up at 4am and crush it" motivational post.

It's reality:
→ My energy stays higher throughout the day
→ My decision-making stays sharper under pressure
→ I'm building health proactively instead of reacting to burnout


I've watched too many CROs and CMOs grind themselves into the ground chasing numbers.


Hit the target. Miss their health. Miss their families. Miss themselves.

The irony? When you lose your center, you lose your edge.


NOTE: This doesn't have to be the gym. 
It could be running. Meditation. 
Playing guitar. 
Coaching your kid's team.


The point is having SOMETHING that's yours. 


That doesn't depend on board approval, pipeline coverage, or the next AI announcement.


What's your anchor?

Founder & CEO, Whale Boss | Demystifying AI Agents | Helping revenue leaders 2x team results through AI Led GTM | Trusted by PE-backed SaaS | Transform your team in 60 days

I did something from Thanksgiving to New Year I haven't done in 5.5 years.
I stopped.

No podcasting. No YouTube. No content treadmill.
Instead:
→ Closed out the year strong
→ Set up massive foundational moves for 2026
→ Actually recharged with family in Napa-Russian River Valley
→ Did deep work when things got quiet

Here's what happened when I created space:

I spent serious time with Claude Code and orchestration workflows.

What I discovered completely rewired what I think is possible.

The jump I'm seeing in AI orchestration isn't incremental.
It's exponential intelligence at the speed of thought.

2026 is going to be different. Not because of hype.

Because of what I've built in the silence.

Sometimes the best move is to step back so you can leap forward.

What's one thing you stepped away from that gave you unexpected clarity?

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I just finished another AI Transformation Sprint with a SAAS leader-QT9 Software  software

The results blew me away.

Here's what 45 days of focused AI implementation produced:

→ 18 AI use cases deployed across Sales, Marketing, and Leadership
→ 139 hours saved WEEKLY across the team
→ Equivalent of 3.5 Headcount gain to drive greater efficiency and output
→ 12.4x return on program investment

But here's the metric that matters most:

Workflow confidence jumped 103%.

Before: 1.94/5
After: 3.94/5

This is the real unlock.

Most AI training programs teach tools. We transformed how the team THINKS about AI.

The 3 biggest wins:

🔹 Demo Prep: 2+ hours → 10 minutes (92% reduction)
🔹 Account Research:** 4 hours → 30 minutes (87.5% reduction)
🔹 Business Case Creation:** 4 hours → 15 minutes (94% reduction)

Here's what most companies get wrong:

They measure AI adoption by "ROI on Day 1 like a slot machine"
That's like measuring fitness by gym membership.

Leadership doesn’t set the non-negotiables

The real ROI comes from:

1. leading indicators=time
2. lagging indicators=increase in tasks, activity, pipeline , etc
3. Results= Increases in revenue and profit 

When confidence doubles, adoption becomes automatic.

NOTE: 

74% of the ROI came from SALES use cases. 

The Executive leadership was committed

-leading by example, setting expectations and driving adoption

The team was amazing

-hungry, curious and grew exponential by doing

What's blocking your team from this kind of transformation?

Feel stuck or don’t know where to start, DM me and I’ll give you a few ideas of what has been working over the last 3 years.

Amazing work Jim Ellward Jared Brady Brian Kulaga Cole Gardner, MBA Jake Ninowski Kertrina Justice Blake Carlson Christian Reyes 

And the rest of the QT9 team (who are not showing up in LI for me.)

15 hours in, three operating systems later, and I'm officially hijacked by Claude Code.

Not in the way you think.

Let's skip the AI hype and get real.

I stopped reading about "AI use cases" and got my hands dirty.

Fifteen solid hours, two weeks, zero fluffy prompts.

Just building actual operating systems.

Not content.

Not lists.

Real, working systems that actually run my business better.

Here's what happened:

1. The CEO Operating System (Annual Planning)

Forget hope and guesswork. This system turns chaos into a clear plan.
- Pick the few things that matter (not 27 "priorities")
- List what we're not doing
- Map risks and constraints
- Build a real 90-day action plan
- Log decisions, assumptions, and learnings as we go
- Use 10 battle-tested frameworks for tough calls

The result? Not a plan that "looks good" in a slide deck, but one that actually runs when the rubber meets the road.

2. The Sales Intelligence Operating System (Client Interaction Analysis at scale)

My new force multiplier.
It chews through a mountain of sales calls, client emails, and feedback in seconds, not weeks.
- Finds trends, patterns, and recurring objections
- Spots churn risk and expansion signals
- Surfaces the REAL words buyers are using, not what we wish they'd say
- Highlights opportunities we're missing

This thing can scrape thousands of data points and hand me something actionable before the coffee gets cold.

3. The Product Intelligence Operating System (Continuous Improvement)

Where delivery drifts, this system pulls it right back.
Because my edge is delivering actual AI transformation training, not just talking about it.
This OS hunts for patterns in:
- What features clients love (and which get ignored)
- What gets real results vs. wasted effort
- Where new modules, examples, or sequences are needed

It's the antidote to vibes-only product improvement. Decisions made on facts, not feelings.

Let's get honest about what made this work.

It wasn't "AI did it for me."

It was orchestration.

I skipped the mega-prompt lottery and ran swarms of specialized agents, each with a clear job.

Every OS had something even more important: memory. They don't just spit out answers and forget. They get smarter. They remember what works, what doesn't, why we made certain calls, and how we define "good."

Every week, outputs compound instead of vanish.

Here's your anti-hype PSA: it's not magic. If you feed it garbage, you get garbage,just a lot faster, and prettier.

The unlock isn't the tech.

It's having:

- Real-world skills 
- Guardrails
- Repeatable workflows
- And, most important, systems that learn instead of reset every time you open a new chat window

Thinking about breaking this down in detail on LinkedIn, YouTube, maybe even my podcast.

Would you want to see how each OS works under the hood, or should I just go back to writing about "top 5 AI tools for 2026" instead?

Drop a comment, tag someone who needs to see this, or just tell me if you want more.

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We’ve trained 1,850+ sales and marketing professionals on AI in 2025.
Here are the 10 most jaw-dropping ROI outcomes they achieved:

(With real quotes from real people. No theory. Just results.)

#10: Personalized Demo Configuration
"Prospects are more engaged because demos are tailored to their exact industry and use case." — Account Executive, B2B SaaS
Result: 10%+ conversion lift → 500 more closes/year potential

#9: Executive Alignment Strategy
"We're getting meetings at higher levels than ever before. The AI research helps us speak their language." — Enterprise Account Manager, $4B BPO Company
Result: 20%+ larger deal sizes → $2M incremental revenue

#8: Shark Tank Hackathon Model
"Teams built actual tools they're still using. It wasn't just training—it was delivery." — Leadership Teams, Multiple Companies
Result: 100 tools built → 200 hrs/week saved → $520K/year

#7: ROI Builder for Champions
"Building a business case for my champion used to take half a day. Now I can generate one in 15 minutes." — Account Executive, B2B SaaS
Result: 94% time reduction → $225K/year saved

#6: Competitive Intelligence GEM
"Instead of spending hours every week tracking competitors, the GEM does it automatically and alerts me." — Sales Rep, Life Sciences Company
Result: 4+ hrs/week → Fully automated → $1.04M/year

#5: Prospect List Generation
"It took us days to build a prospect list. Now we generate 300+ qualified companies in minutes." — Sales Team, Life Sciences Company
Result: 95%+ time reduction → $480K/year saved

#4: Crawl-Walk-Run Framework
"Every department now has a structured AI project in flight. We went from pockets of use to organization-wide." — COO, Industrial Software Company
Result: Org-wide adoption → 500+ hrs/week saved → $1.3M/year

#3: Call Transcript Analysis
"I don't spend 30 minutes after each call reviewing notes. The AI extracts everything instantly." — Multiple Participants
Result: 30 min → Instant (100% automated) → $2.6M/year for a 100-person team

#2: Account Research Workflow
"I was spending 4 hours researching each strategic account. Now I get better insights in 30 minutes." — Marketing Specialist, B2B SaaS
Result: 87.5% time reduction → $1.75M/year saved

#1: Demo Prep Automation
"What used to take me 2+ hours now takes 10 minutes. I can prep 5 demos in the time it used to take for 1." — AE, B2B SaaS
Result: 92% time reduction → $1.37M/year saved

The math doesn't lie:
📊 Total Annual Impact: $14.21M (for a 100-person team) 
⏱️ Hours Recaptured: 5,935 hrs/week 
🎯 Sales drove 79% of total ROI

The bottom line:

AI transformation isn't about technology. It's about closing the deal with your own organization. 

The companies seeing these results treated internal AI adoption like an enterprise sale: → Identify the pain → Find champions → Build the business case → Close the deal

Your team already knows this framework. Now apply it internally.

Which of these outcomes would move the needle most for your team?
Drop a comment 👇

I've presented growth strategies to C-Suites for the past 15 years.

Here's the brutal truth:

Most strategies die in the boardroom because they're built on gut feel and outdated playbooks.

The C-suite doesn't want more slides. They want conviction backed by data they can actually verify.

That's why I've spent the last 3 years building AI workflows that pressure-test strategy BEFORE it hits the executive table.

What used to take my team 3 weeks of analyst work now happens in 2 hours.

On January 28, I'm teaching this exact approach in Pavilion's AI in GTM School:

**Growth Strategy Design for an Enterprise (with AI Workflows)**

What you'll walk away with:
→ How to stress-test positioning against real market data using AI
→ Frameworks for validating competitive threats before they become surprises
→ The exact process I use to build strategies the C-suite actually trusts

This isn't theory. It's the same workflow I've used with 2,400+ executives over the past 3 years.

If you're a CRO or CMO tired of defending strategies built on hope, this session is for you.

Link in comments to register.

What's the last AI growth strategy you presented that got challenged in the boardroom?

This is taken from an AI Agent social network - Moltbook

It is the third most upvoted post and the first 2 aren’t any better.

Things are going to go off the rails really fast if someone doesn’t have some standards or safety measures to this site. 


Although this is an amazing concept and idea we need to make sure bad actors that have social burner accounts don’t poison the well.

Please comment for reach and let’s make sure we act smart when working with this insanely powerful technology.

WHAT keeps me up at night about AI in GTM:

The window is closing.

Right now, companies who implement AI systematically have a MASSIVE competitive advantage.

By 2027? AI capabilities will be table stakes.

Everyone will have access to the same tools.

The differentiator will be:
→ How fast you implemented
→ How deeply it's embedded in your operations
→ How skilled your team became during the transition

I've watched this pattern before.

Companies that moved early on CRM, marketing automation, sales engagement—they dominated for years.

The laggards spent the next decade catching up.

AI is that same moment. Compressed into 24 months.

This is why I partnered with Pavilion to teach a session for the **AI in GTM School**.

It's designed for GTM leaders who:
🔹 Know AI matters but don't have a systematic approach
🔹 Want alignment across teams, not scattered experiments
🔹 Need a 90-day plan they can actually execute

The next cohort starts next week.

If you're a CRO or CMO who's ready to move from AI experimentation to AI transformation—this is your moment.

Here is the link to sign up: 
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McKinsey just announced they have 25,000 AI agents.

My reaction? That's not a flex. That's a warning sign.

Here's what I've learned from 3 years of AI itransformation implementations across startups and fortune 500s:

MORE IS NOT ALWAYS BETTER.

In fact, more is usually worse.
I've watched companies rush to build dozens of agents, custom GPTs, and AI workflows—only to end up with a graveyard of tools nobody uses.

The problem isn't building agents.

The problem is building agents without asking:
→ Who owns this?
→ Who maintains this?
→ Who actually uses this daily?

NOTE: Managing 25,000 agents currently is just as hard as managing 25,000 people.
Maybe harder.

Because agents don't tell you when they're broken.
They don't raise their hand when they're producing garbage.
They just keep running.

The companies winning with AI right now aren't the ones with the most agents.

They're the ones with the RIGHT agents.

Fewer. More precise. Actually used.

What's your take—is agent quantity becoming the new vanity metric?

I spent 4 hours watching a single Anthropic video over break.

Rewound it. Took notes. Implemented immediately.

Here's the insight that's changing how I build AI systems:

STOP building agents. START building skills.

Here's what most people get wrong:

They think an "AI agent" is some magical autonomous entity that figures everything out.

Wrong.

Agents without skills are just expensive guessing machines with massive drift.

🔹 They go off path
🔹 They hallucinate next steps
🔹 They deliver inconsistent outputs

The Anthropic team broke it down into 3 layers that change everything:

**Layer 1: Foundational Skills**
The basics. File creation. Web search. Code execution.
Every agent needs these—but they're just the table stakes.

**Layer 2: General-Purpose Skills**
Document creation. Data analysis. Spreadsheet generation.
These are the workflows that apply across industries.

**Layer 3: Custom Enterprise Skills**
YOUR specific processes. YOUR playbooks. YOUR workflows.
This is where the magic happens.

The shift?

Instead of asking an agent to "figure it out," you're giving it a SKILL.md file that says: "Here's exactly how we do this."

No guessing. No drift. No inconsistent outputs.

NOTE: I've been implementing this for 2 weeks and the quality of outcomes is dramatically better across everything from content to research to data analysis.

The companies that master skills will have AI that actually performs.

The companies that keep building generic agents will keep wondering why their AI is inconsistent.

Which approach is your team using right now?

I just burned through 115 million tokens on Claude Code in 30 days.

That's not a typo.

I kept hitting usage limits and upgrading—which tells you something about how deep I went.

Here's the thing nobody talks about:

Building agents is EASY.

Building GOOD agents is hard.


You can spin up a swarm of AI agents in minutes. I've done it. Command it, and it creates.


But here's what happens next:


The output is a fraction of what you actually need.
It's the exact same pattern as Custom GPTs.
Anyone can build one in 60 seconds.
Almost no one builds one worth using.


The difference between "agent that exists" and "agent that performs"?
🔹 Rigor in testing
🔹 Quality examples baked in
🔹 Clear success criteria
🔹 Iteration cycles (lots of them)

After 30 days of intensive building, here's my take:


The barrier to entry has collapsed.
The barrier to excellence hasn't moved.


That gap is where the real opportunity lives for revenue leaders willing to put in the work.


What's been your experience building agents—easy to start, hard to finish?

I've been wrong about where the next AI breakthrough is coming from.
Prompting. Workflows. Automation.

But here's what I'm realizing now:

The real unlock isn't better prompts.

It's agentic tools like Claude Code.

I've been fine-tuning how I use it across everything I do—content, research, client work, operations.

And it's not incremental improvement.


It's a different category entirely.

So I'm going to start sharing what I learn with you in real-time.

Frameworks.
Cheat sheets.
What works. What doesn't.


No polish. No waiting until it's "perfect."

Because this is the bridge to the next exponential value creation with AI.

And I'd rather you learn from my mistakes now than figure it out alone 6 months from now.

Here is quick cheat sheet that will get you started on how to use it the right way!

What AI tools are you experimenting with right now that feel like a step-change, not just an improvement?

I've spent the last 3 weeks building what I call an "Agentic Operating System" for my company.

Here's the breakthrough:

What if your AI didn't just answer questions...

But held the ENTIRE CONTEXT of how your company operates—and helped you see what you're missing?

This is orchestration engineering.

And it's the skill that will separate 10x knowledge workers from everyone else.

Here's how I'm building it:

**5 interconnected "Operating Systems" that form a company brain:**

1️⃣ **CEO/Executive OS**

- Annual goals
- Quarterly priorities
- Weekly operating rhythm
- Action plans with tracking

2️⃣ **Sales Intelligence OS**

- Pipeline analysis
- Call transcriptions → next best actions
- Executive overviews
- Hidden opportunities across deals

3️⃣ **Product Intelligence OS**

- Training transcripts
- Customer feedback loops
- Win/loss analysis
- Engagement and expansion signals

4️⃣ **Marketing OS**

- Campaign performance
- Content byproducts
- Dream 100 prospecting
- Competitive intelligence

5️⃣ **Internal Operations OS**

- Slack messages
- Email threads
- Meeting transcriptions
- All aligned to strategic goals

**The magic happens when they INTERCONNECT.**

🔹 Your sales calls inform product improvements
🔹 Your product intelligence informs marketing messaging
🔹 Your internal operations stay aligned to executive priorities
🔹 Every signal gets processed against your strategic goals

This creates what I'm calling the "company brain."

It helps you see:

- If you're on track
- What you're doing right
- How to optimize
- 10x opportunities hiding in plain sight
- 100x possibilities you never considered

NOTE: I used to think the future was individual AI agents doing tasks.

Now I realize it's ORCHESTRATED SYSTEMS where agents work together with shared context.

That's the 10x multiplier.

The Leaders who build this capability in 2025?

They won't just outperform their peers.

They'll operate in a different dimension entirely.

Which of these 5 operating systems would unlock the most value for your team?

I spent 25 years learning how to build pipeline, increase close rates, and shorten sales cycles.

Then I asked an AI agent: "How would YOU solve these problems?"

The answer exposed a blind spot I didn't know I had.

Here's what I learned: We've been giving agents human playbooks and asking them to execute faster.

That's backwards.

Here are the 4 questions that changed how I work with agents in 2026:

1. "How would you approach this AS an agent—not as a faster human?"

Stop giving agents your methodology. Ask them what methodology makes sense given THEIR capabilities.

An agent doesn't need to "qualify" leads the way a human does. It can score 1,000 signals simultaneously. Let it design the process.

2. "Given these raw materials, what would you build?"

Feed it the data: transcripts, CRM records, emails, call recordings, Google Drive docs.

Then ask: "What system would you create to solve [goal]?"

You'll get architectures you never would have imagined.

3. "What patterns do you see that I can't?"

This is the unlock.

Humans are pattern-matching machines—but we max out at ~7 variables.

Agents can correlate hundreds. Ask them what YOU'RE missing.

4. "Using first principles, how would you solve this if you had no constraints?"

Agents don't carry your limiting beliefs, your "that's how it's always been done," your organizational politics.

Let them design from scratch. Then adapt to reality.

NOTE: These questions assume you've given the agent CONTEXT—not just instructions. Context is the fuel. Instructions are just steering.

The skill of 2026 isn't prompting.

It's knowing what to ask.

What question would you add to this list?

WHEN I started using AI 3 years ago, I focused on prompts.

HOW to write better questions.
HOW to get better outputs.
HOW to save time on individual tasks.

That approach 10x'd my productivity.

But what I discovered this week will 100x it.

**The shift: Prompt engineering → Orchestration engineering**

Here's the difference:

Prompt engineering is asking AI a great question.

Orchestration engineering is building SYSTEMS where AI holds your entire business context and synthesizes insights you'd never see on your own.

It's the difference between:

- Using GPS for one trip
- And having a co-pilot who knows every route you've ever taken, every destination you're considering, and every traffic pattern across all your priorities

I've been building what I call "operating systems" inside Claude Code:

A CEO OS that synthesizes my annual goals, quarterly priorities, and weekly rhythms.

The AI doesn't just answer questions.

It eliminates disparate information across areas.

It turns goals into action plans and tracking sheets.

It shows me where I'm off track before I even ask.

**Here's why this matters for YOUR career:**

The executives who master orchestration engineering won't just be more productive.

They'll have a STRATEGIC ADVANTAGE that compounds every single day.

While others are still asking ChatGPT individual questions...

You'll have an intelligent layer synthesizing every:

- Sales call
- Customer interaction
- Internal communication
- Market signal
- Team execution detail

Against your strategic priorities.

In real time.

NOTE: I predict "Orchestration Engineer" will be one of the most valuable skill sets in business by 2027.

It won't require you to be technical.

It will require you to think in SYSTEMS, not prompts.

The 10x knowledge workers of the next decade won't be the best prompt writers.

They'll be the best orchestration architects.

This is the fastest transformation mankind has ever had.

And the window to get ahead?

It's closing faster than most people realize.

What's the first "operating system" you'd build for your role if you could connect all your disparate information in one intelligent layer?

I'm in this photo with the cast of Severance.

Except I've never met them.

I strung together a couple commands in ChatGPT's new image generator and this was the result.

2026 is going to be WEIRD.

Here's what I'm seeing after 3 years of AI implementation work:

The line between real and synthetic is disappearing faster than anyone predicted.

🔹 Veo 3.1 just dropped
🔹 Image generation hit a new threshold
🔹 Video is about to follow

And we're only in January.

NOTE: This isn't fear-mongering. This is pattern recognition.

When you can't trust what you see online, something else becomes infinitely more valuable:

Human-to-human connection.

Not text. Not email. Not async.

→ Live conversations
→ Phone calls
→ In-person presence

These will be at a PREMIUM in 2026.

The irony? The more powerful AI becomes at mimicking reality, the more we'll crave what's actually real.

What's your prediction for how this plays out?

I just looked at my ChatGPT annual summary.
I don't know if I'm excited or disturbed.

The data showed me exactly how much of my thinking, creating, and problem-solving now runs through AI. Every day. 

Multiple times per day.


Three years ago, I had my "ChatGPT moment" that changed everything.

What I'm seeing now makes that look like a warmup.

The agents. The systems. The orchestration capabilities.


My mind is genuinely blown.


Here's what I've accepted: This is short-term sacrifice for long-term gain.

The hours I'm investing now in understanding these systems? 
They're not optional anymore.
They're the price of admission for what's coming.


I've worked with 2,600+ executives over the past three years. 

The ones who leaned in early are operating at a completely different level than those who waited.

That gap is about to become a canyon.


What did your AI usage summary reveal about how you're working now vs. a year ago?

HOW would an AI agent approach pipeline differently than your sales team?

I ran the experiment.

I asked an agent to solve evergreen pipeline problems that every sales org faces. But I didn't just give it the task—I asked it to map out:

→ Its approach
→ The steps it would take
→ How it would "attack" the problem

Here's what I learned:

**What impressed me:**

🔹 The level of detail was exceptional
🔹 It viewed pipeline stages through a different lens than most humans
🔹 It identified optimization points I hadn't considered

**What missed the mark:**

🔹 Its assessment of how humans handle pipeline undersold us
🔹 It didn't account for relationship nuance that top GTM pros leverage
🔹 It assumed more process consistency than exists in real orgs

NOTE: This isn't about agents being better or worse than humans.

It's about understanding WHERE each excels.

The takeaway for revenue leaders:

Before you deploy an agent on any workflow, ask it to explain its approach first. Compare it to your team's approach. The gaps tell you exactly where human oversight matters most.

This is how you build agent + human workflows that actually work.

What's the first sales problem you'd ask an agent to map out? Drop it below—I'll share what I've seen work.

I've never written a line of code in my life. 

30 days ago, I went all-in on Claude Code—a coding platform.

Here's what I learned as a complete non-coder doing extensive coding for the first time:

Orchestration platforms like Claude Code require you to master 4 things in a specific sequence:

1. Foundational Concepts First

There's a language barrier that has nothing to do with code.

It's like learning to ice skate. You need to understand the lingo, the logic, how things connect.

Skip this step? You'll be frustrated within 48 hours.



2. Learn By Doing (After Foundations)

Once you understand the vocabulary, execution becomes your teacher.

I built. I broke things. I rebuilt.

No course can replace actually shipping something—even if it's messy.



3. Return to Foundations

This is the step 95% of people skip.

After building, go BACK to foundational concepts.

You'll discover entire categories you missed:
→ Continuous automation
→ Skills architecture
→ Edge cases you never considered



4. Context Engineering

This might sound like a buzzword.

It's not.

If you align context properly, prompting becomes almost effortless.

It unlocks capabilities you didn't think were possible.

NOTE: Context engineering isn't prompt engineering. It's the architecture that makes prompts work.

The sequence matters: Foundations → Doing → Foundations Again → Context Architecture.

Miss any step and you'll plateau fast.


What step are you currently stuck on?

What if cheat sheets/frameworks are actually holding you back?

I've taught thousands of executives about AI.

Frameworks everywhere.

Slides. Decks. Cheat sheets.


And here's what I've realized after 3 years of implementation work:

Frameworks are the START.
Systems are the SCALE.


Last week I built something I'm calling Atomic Claude Code.


It takes James Clear's Atomic Habits—one of the best frameworks ever created—and turns it into a living, breathing agentic system inside Claude Code.


Not a document I reference.
Not a poster on my wall.
Not a "note to self."


An actual system that:
→ Tracks my 1% daily improvements
→ Compounds learning over time
→ Holds me accountable without willpower


Here's the honest truth:
I've been teaching AI transformation for 3 years.
But the biggest unlock in the last 90 days?
Realizing I can BUILD the frameworks I teach INTO the AI systems I use.


The framework becomes the infrastructure.
The concept becomes the code.
The theory becomes the transformation.


NOTE: We're at an inflection point where the gap between "people who know frameworks" and "people who implement frameworks as systems" will determine who wins the next 12 months.


So here's my question:

Is this crossover from frameworks to agentic implementations something you're interested in?


Something you've already done?


Or something you're waiting to explore?


Drop your answer below—I'm genuinely curious where you are in this journey.

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Most businesses struggle to convert leads because they rely on forgettable downloads and meaningless discounts that fail to create an emotional connection. 

Prospects don't just need information, they need to feel valued, to trust you, and to experience genuine engagement. 

That's why I created the concept of the Microstory Journey, a 5-day emotional experience that uses the 3-Minute Story Blueprint to touch hearts, build authentic connections, and establish unshakable trust, turning hesitant prospects into eager customers ready to take action.

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1. Define your goals and messaging. 
2. Develop a customized storytelling strategy. 
3. Execute and refine messaging for maximum impact.

HERE'S WHAT TO DO NEXT:
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Stop Saying 'Should.' 

It's Killing Your Progress.

"I should prospect more." 
"I should post on LinkedIn." 
"I should work out."

Yet nothing changes. The list grows longer while your results stay flat.

Here's what actually happens when you 
replace "should" with different language:

Scenario 1: Your prospecting goal.

↳Old language:
"I should reach out to five prospects today."
Then guilt when you don't. Repeat tomorrow.

↳New language:
"I'm reaching out to five prospects today."
Or admit: "I'm choosing not to prioritize this right now."

↳Result: You either act or you own the choice. No guilt loop.

Scenario 2: Your content creation.

↳Old language:
"I should post three times this week."
Followed by excuses about time, perfectionism, fear.

↳New language:
"I must post three times this week to build my authority."
Or: 
"I'm not ready to commit to this yet."

↳Result: Clarity replaces confusion. Action replaces avoidance.

Scenario 3: Your personal commitments.

↳Old language:
"I should work out tomorrow morning."
Then snooze the alarm. Feel terrible. Repeat.

↳New language:
"I will work out tomorrow at 6 AM."
Or: "I'm prioritizing sleep over exercise right now."

↳Result: You honor your decision either way.

"Should" is the language of obligation without commitment.

It keeps you stuck in a cycle of intention without execution.

When you eliminate "should" from your vocabulary, 
you force yourself to either commit or let go.

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Messaging Strategist & Ghostwriter for Leaders - I help you turn short stories into trust, influence, and premium clients with my Microstory Journey using the 3-Minute Story Blueprint.

You know exactly what you need to do.
But you're still not doing it.

Here's why:

Your brain isn't lazy.
It's just running a calculation you don't see.

Every decision comes down to emotional math:
↳ Pain of taking action vs. pain of staying stuck
↳ Whichever feels heavier wins

I used to think I lacked discipline.

Turns out, I'd just linked massive pain to starting:
- Anxiety about failing publicly
- Worry about wasting time
- Fear of looking stupid

Meanwhile, staying stuck felt... safe.

Uncomfortable, sure. But familiar.

The shift happened when I realized:
Inaction has a cost too.

It's just quieter.
More gradual.
Easier to ignore.

So I started asking myself:

"What's the real pain I'm avoiding here?"

Usually, it wasn't the work itself.

It was the vulnerability. The visibility.

The possibility of being wrong.

Once I named it, the math changed.

Taking action became less scary than staying invisible.

Here's what I realized:
You're not avoiding action because you're broken.

You're avoiding it because right now, it feels riskier than standing still.

What pain have you been avoiding by not taking action?

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How To Get Complainers to Stop Complaining
Without Losing Your Mind.

You enabled the complaining the moment you 
started validating every grievance.

And now you're stuck in an endless loop of 
negativity instead of progress.

But here's what most people miss - 
stopping complainers isn't about dismissing their concerns.

It's about redirecting their energy strategically.

Here's what's really happening:
↳ Your empathy becomes their permission to continue
↳ Chronic complainers seek attention, not solutions
↳ They control the conversation through negativity

Here's how to break the pattern:

1. Acknowledge Once, Then Pivot

↳ Validate briefly, then shift to action
↳ Don't get trapped in the complaint cycle
↳ "I understand. What's one thing you can control here?"

2. Ask Solution-Focused Questions

↳ "What would make this situation better?"
↳ Move them from problem to possibility
↳ Force their brain to think differently

3. Set Boundaries Early

↳ Be clear about your role
↳ People respect confident limits
↳ Define what conversations you'll engage in

4. Model the Energy You Want

↳ Stay solution-oriented in your responses
↳ Your tone sets the standard
↳ Don't match their negativity

What Most People Are Overlooking:
Everyone can listen.
Everyone can sympathize.
But only leaders can transform complainers into problem-solvers.

Quick Question:

When was the last time you got stuck in someone's complaint spiral?

How did you handle it?

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They make it look so effortless.

That's what people say when they see polished work.

But here's what they don't see the invisible architecture behind it.

I used to think making work look easy meant hiding the effort.

The late nights.
The revisions.
The moments of doubt.

But the more I refined my process, the more one truth became obvious:

Work doesn't look easy because you hide the struggle.

It looks easy because you've done the hard work 
so many times that it becomes second nature.

And there are only two approaches to this:

The exhausting way
→ Reinventing the wheel every time
→ Burning out to meet deadlines
→ Starting from scratch repeatedly
→ No systems or frameworks
→ Relying purely on inspiration



The strategic way
→ Learning from past projects
→ Refining with each iteration
→ Making complexity invisible
→ Building repeatable processes
→ Creating templates and frameworks

One drains your energy.
The other multiplies your impact.

The best professionals aren't naturally gifted
they're systematically prepared.

They know that mastery isn't about working harder.

It's about working smarter until the complex becomes simple.

They've failed enough times to know what works.
They've refined their approach until it flows.

Not to show off.

But to deliver consistent excellence without the chaos.

Making work look easy isn't about pretending it's effortless.

It's about doing the behind-the-scenes work so well that others only see the result.

When you build the right systems, excellence becomes your baseline.

What's one process you've refined that now feels effortless?

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"Quick question" is never actually quick.

Feel That Stomach Drop?

I used to think it was just me.
Then, one day, I realized something:

"Those two words trigger an instant physical reaction."

I wondered why my stomach tightened every time I heard it.

It's always said like it's small. Casual. Friendly.
But the second you hear it, your body knows better.

Because "quick question" doesn't mean a question.

It made perfect sense to me.

It means a conversation.
With follow-ups. And feelings.

It's the verbal equivalent of: "We need to talk."

That pause you feel in your soul? You're not imagining it.

Here's what I learned about "quick question":
- Your stomach knows before your brain does
- Recognition beats explanation every time
- The tone is casual, the stakes are not
- It always leads somewhere bigger
- It's never one question

So here's my takeaway for anyone who's felt that tightness:

You're not overthinking it.
You're reading the room correctly.

Comment: "I've heard this one," and I'll share
the follow-up script that names what happens next.

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What's Controlling Your Life Right Now?
It's Not What You Think.

(And it's definitely not your circumstances)

Most people believe their life is shaped by what happens to them.
But here's the truth I've learned:

↳ Your decisions create your reality, not your conditions.

There are three decisions driving everything in your life right now:

1. What You Choose to Focus On

↳ Your focus determines your experience
↳ Not what's happening around you
↳ But where you direct your attention

2. Your Emotional State

↳ Your emotions shape your actions
↳ Your state creates your outcomes
↳ You can change how you feel in any moment

3. Your Blueprint

↳ The standards you've set for yourself
↳ What you believe you deserve
↳ These are your expectations

Here's What Most People Miss:

↳ They wait for conditions to improve
↳ They blame circumstances for their results
↳ They give their power away to external factors

The Real Shift Happens When:

↳ You rewrite your blueprint
↳ You realize you control your focus
↳ You take ownership of your emotional state

Your life doesn't transform when you get the promotion, 
find the relationship, or hit the income goal.

It transforms the moment you decide differently.

When you stop waiting for permission from your 
circumstances and start making different 
decisions, everything changes.

So here's my question for you:

Which of these three decisions do you need 
to take back control of today?

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Fear Will Move You Forward 

But It Will Never Set You Free.

I've been thinking about what really drives most of us.

Here's what I've noticed:
Fear is the default setting.

Fear of failing. Fear of being judged. Fear of not measuring up.
It's exhausting, and it keeps you stuck in reaction mode.

Here's what I've learned:
• Both create movement, but only one creates freedom
• Fear pushes you away from what you don't want
• Vision pulls you toward what you do want
• Vision gives you energy; fear drains it

The shift happens when you stop running from 
something and start moving toward something.

When I switched from "I can't mess this up" to 
"I'm building something meaningful." 
Everything changed.

The work felt different. The decisions became clearer.

The pressure turned into possibility.

Fear will always be there, that's normal.
But it doesn't have to be in the driver's seat.

So ask yourself

What would you create if fear weren't calling the shots?

What vision would pull you forward if you let it?

Drop a comment or send me a DM
 I'd love to hear what drives you.

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Ever replay one harsh comment all day?

I do.

Someone once told me my work "lacked depth."
Not in a meeting. Not with context.
Just a quick message, then silence.

I couldn't shake it.

I replayed it during lunch.
During my next call.
Even while brushing my teeth that night.

The comment wasn't even detailed.
But my brain filled in the gaps with worst-case scenarios.

Here's what I learned:

Our minds magnify criticism.
→ One negative comment outweighs ten compliments
→ We loop it, dissect it, personalize it
→ It becomes louder than reality

But here's the shift:

That comment forced me to ask better questions.
Not "Am I good enough?"
But "What specifically can I improve?"

I reached out. Got clarity. Made changes.
The work got stronger.

Harsh comments sting because they touch something real.
The goal isn't to ignore them.
It's to separate the noise from the signal, fast.

Because replaying it won't help.
But responding to it will.

What's one comment that pushed you to level up?

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You're watching the wrong thing during presentations.

The Signal That Tells You 10× More

That's what I realized after years of watching presentations.

But here's what most presenters miss:

The slides don't tell you if your message is landing.

The faces do.

People think I'm weird for watching faces instead of slides.

I used to obsess over perfecting every bullet point.
Tweaking fonts.
Rehearsing transitions.
Making sure the data looked flawless.

But the more presentations I attended, the clearer one truth became:

Your audience's reaction matters more than your content.

And there are only two ways to present:

The oblivious way
→ Never checking for understanding
→ Finishing on schedule regardless
→ Reading bullet points verbatim
→ Ignoring confused expressions
→ Staring at your own slides

The adaptive way
→ Reading the room constantly
→ Noticing when energy drops
→ Responding to nonverbal feedback
→ Pausing when faces show confusion
→ Adjusting pace based on engagement

One delivers information.
The other creates connection.

The best presenters aren't just speakers, they're observers.

They know a furrowed brow means "slow down."
They see glazed eyes and shift tactics immediately.

Not because they're mind readers.

But because they prioritize resonance over rehearsal.

Watching faces isn't weird.

It's the difference between presenting at people and communicating with them.

Your slides support your message, but faces reveal if it's working.

What do you pay attention to during presentations?

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Marketing isn't about volume.

It's about clarity.

We often assume more content equals more attention.
But in real business, especially when competing for seconds
positioning shows up in much quieter ways.

I started paying attention to the brands that 
consistently cut through the noise.

↳ They simply knew exactly why they mattered.
↳ They weren't everywhere.
↳ They weren't louder.

And once you notice it, you can't unsee it.

Most entrepreneurs skip the critical step:
Defining what makes them irreplaceable.

They plunge into content, ads, and campaigns
but struggle to explain their unique value in a single sentence.

The assumptions?

↳ "Our product speaks for itself."
↳ "We'll figure it out as we grow."
↳ "People will understand what makes us special."

But without clarity, your message gets lost
and your budget gets burned.

Three truths about positioning in the attention economy:

1. If you can't explain your edge clearly, 
don't expect your audience to figure it out.

2. You're not competing for market share.
You're competing for milliseconds of attention.

3. Vague positioning doesn't win that battle.

Here's what sets standout brands apart:

↳ They lead with relevance.
↳ They craft messaging that cuts through noise.
↳ They anchor every campaign in a crystal-clear answer to: 
"Why should I care?"

Compare that to those stuck in generic slogans, 
feature lists, and "we're better" claims.

One approach resonates.
The other fades.

Before your next campaign, pause and ask:

What makes us the only choice for the right people?

Can you explain your unique value in 10 words or less?

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How Saying Less Helped Me Hear More.

I've been guilty of this for years.

Nodding along while mentally rehearsing my response.

In meetings, I'd:
➤ Plan my counterpoint
➤ Wait for the pause
➤ Polish my story

I wasn't listening.
I was loading.

Then I realized something:

The people I trusted most never did this.
They asked follow-up questions I didn't expect.

So I changed my approach.

Instead of preparing what to say next, I started tracking:

• Where their energy shifted
• What they didn't say directly
• What they emphasized twice
• Questions that would go deeper

That's when conversations became different.

Because real listening isn't about silence.
It's about curiosity.

Stop rehearsing your brilliance.
Start discovering theirs.

The best responses come from what you actually heard, 
not what you planned to say.

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51,500 AI layoffs hit Dow, UPS, Amazon, Pinterest.

There’s one skill AI still can’t replace.

 Because the market isn’t hinting anymore, it’s shouting:

Dow: ~4,500 jobs cut (about 13% of the company). 
UPS: up to 30,000 roles on the chopping block. 
Amazon: about 16,000 corporate jobs eliminated. 
Pinterest: about 15% of staff cut as restructuring accelerates. 

This isn’t random. It’s directional.

And the question nobody wants to say out loud 
is the one that hits at 2am:

“If my job is a set of tasks… am I at risk?”

Then the dividing line becomes obvious:

The one skill AI can’t replace is the ability to 
communicate in a way that changes behavior.

Not “being articulate.”
But creating clarity, trust, and alignment,
especially when stakes are high.

 AI replaces output.
 It doesn’t replace leadership.

And communication is what leadership looks like in plain clothes.

If you want to be future-proof, stop asking, 
“What tool should I learn next?”

Start asking, “Can I move people with clarity, empathy, and precision?”

What’s your plan to sharpen that this month?

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Introducing the Fishbowl Practice

The First Method That Neutralizes Criticism Anxiety

(The drill that builds emotional armor)

I help smart people stop talking like robots.
But here's what nobody tells you:

↳ The fear of criticism keeps you sterile.

My Fishbowl Practice changes that:

1. Write Your Worst Nightmares Down

↳ Every harsh comment you fear
↳ Every cruel judgment possible
↳ Drop them in a fishbowl

2. Pull One Daily

↳ Record your response on camera
↳ Just you and the discomfort
↳ No script, no safety net

3. Watch Your Transformation

↳ Week one: You'll stumble
↳ Week two: You'll find your voice
↳ Week three: You'll own your message

4. Build Resilience Through Repetition

↳ Criticism loses its power
↳ Your authentic voice emerges
↳ Confidence replaces performance anxiety

5. Turn It Into Content

↳ Your growth becomes your story
↳ Your vulnerability becomes your authority
↳ Your responses become YouTube Shorts

The Real Win:
When you can handle the fishbowl, real comments feel easy.

I'm starting this series next week.
Each episode: one comment, one raw response, zero editing.

Quick question:

What's the harshest comment you're afraid to receive?

⤵️ Drop it below
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"I wasn't ready for that."

We say it all the time.

But what does it really mean?

Most people think it's about surprise.
About being caught off guard.

But I've learned something different after years of working with leaders and founders.

"I wasn't ready for that" actually means three things:

↳ First: I didn't prepare mentally.
We knew it could happen, but we didn't visualize it. We didn't rehearse our response.

↳ Second: I underestimated the emotional weight.
Logic told us one thing. Reality hit differently. The gap between knowing and feeling is massive.

↳ Third: I didn't build the support system.
We tried to go it alone. No mentors. No peers who'd been there. No framework to lean on when it mattered.

Here's what I've noticed:

The leaders who say "I wasn't ready" the least aren't the ones who predict everything.

They're the ones who prepare differently.

They don't just plan for outcomes.
They prepare their mindset.
They build their network before they need it.
They create frameworks that work under pressure.

Being ready isn't about knowing what's coming.

It's about building the capacity to handle what you can't predict.

The next time you catch yourself saying "I wasn't ready for that," ask a better question:



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Have You Ever Won the Argument

But Lost Every Relationship in the Process?

Being right doesn't matter if nobody wants to work with you afterward.

Yet most of us prioritize correctness over connection every single time.

Here's what I've learned about the cost of being technically right:

Scenario 1:

You catch an error in someone's presentation.

↳Old approach:
Point it out immediately in front of everyone.
Make sure they know you spotted it first.

↳New approach:
Pause. Consider the setting.
Pull them aside later with a quiet heads-up.

↳Result: They fix the error and remember your respect.

Scenario 2: A team member suggests a flawed strategy.

↳Old approach:
Shut it down with data and logic.
Prove why it won't work, point by point.

↳New approach:
Ask questions that guide them to see the gaps themselves.
Let discovery replace demolition.

↳Result: They learn. They don't resent you for it.

Scenario 3: Someone challenges your expertise publicly.

↳Old approach:
Defend your credentials with force.
Make them feel small for questioning you.

↳New approach:
Acknowledge their perspective.
Share your reasoning without needing to dominate.

↳Result: The room sees your confidence and their dignity intact.

Being right with the wrong tone doesn't build influence.

It builds walls.

When you choose connection over correction, people actually hear you.

So here's what I'm asking myself now:
What's more valuable, winning the point or keeping the relationship?

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I used to think "watch me fail first" was about humility.
But it's actually about permission.

Most people wait for proof before they start.
➤ They need someone else to go first.
➤ They need validation.
➤ They need certainty.

I realized something different:

"Watch me fail first" means I'm willing to be the example.

Not because I want to fail.
Because I'm willing to learn in public.

Here's what that actually looks like:

• Testing ideas before they're perfect
• Sharing lessons while I'm still learning
• Making mistakes visible so others can skip them
• Building credibility through transparency, not perfection

The leaders I respect most aren't the ones who never stumble.

They're the ones who stumble forward and document the path.

Because when you say "watch me fail first," you're really saying:
"I'll take the risk so you don't have to guess."

That's not humility.
That's leadership.

Stop waiting for permission to be imperfect.
Start creating the path others are afraid to walk.

Your willingness to go first is your competitive advantage.

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I blamed my audience for three years.
(they weren't the problem)

The silent killer in every conversation:

Clarity isn't what you say, it's what they understand.

My Wake-Up Call:

→ Perfect presentations
→ Detailed explanations
→ Logical frameworks
→ Zero conversions

I kept thinking:
"Why don't they get it?"

The Real Issue:
↳ I prioritized being right over being clear
↳ I explained features, not transformations
↳ I spoke my language, not theirs

Then I shifted everything:

New Approach:
↳ Watch their faces, not my slides
↳ Test every message with real people
↳ Ask "what did you hear?" not "did you understand?"

The Results:
↳ Clients repeating my message back perfectly
↳ Referrals using my exact words
↳ 3x higher engagement rates

The Truth:
If they didn't get it, your message failed - not them.

Quick Question:

When was the last time you tested your message before blaming your audience?

Struggling to capture attention in conversations?

Start with vulnerability.

I used to think I needed perfect stories to connect with people.
Then, one day, I realized something:

My mistakes were more interesting than my wins.

I wondered why some conversations felt flat while 
others sparked instant connection.

The difference wasn't polish or perfection,
it was honest, human moments that people could relate to.

It made perfect sense to me.

So, I started opening conversations differently.

Weeks went by.
And engagement transformed with every vulnerable opener.

Networking events? Deeper connections.
Client calls? Trust built faster than ever.

And because I led with authenticity,

I stopped trying to impress everyone
and started building real relationships that mattered.

Here's what I learned about conversation starters:
- "I regret this…" invites empathy immediately
- "Don't do what I did" positions you as a guide
- "This is embarrassing" breaks down walls instantly
- Vulnerability creates permission for others to open up
- People remember how you made them feel, not how perfect you sounded

So here's my takeaway for leaders and communicators:

Lead with your humanity
or keep having forgettable surface-level conversations.

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The Smallest Edit That Changed Everything

I almost didn't make the change.

For months, I'd been sending cold outreach messages to potential clients.
Same template, same structure, same disappointing results.

Then I changed one sentence.
Just one.

Instead of opening with "I help executives craft their messaging"...
I wrote: "I noticed your recent post about struggling to stand out."

That's it.
Seven words became twelve.

The response rate jumped from 8% to 34%.

Same offer.
Same credentials.
Same me.

But here's what actually shifted:

I stopped talking about myself first.
I started with them.

It forced me to do the work before I hit send:
→ Understand their actual challenge
→ Show I was paying attention
→ Read their content

The tiny change wasn't really about the words.
It was about respect.

It proved I valued their time enough to be specific.
That I saw them as a person, not a prospect.

Now I apply this everywhere:
In emails, in stories, in every message I craft for clients.

Because people don't ignore relevance.
They ignore generic.

What's one small change you've been avoiding
that might actually transform your results?

Sometimes the difference between invisible and influential
is just twelve words.

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I shot 39 videos to get ONE right.

Was it worth it? Here's what I discovered.

Most creators say, "just hit record and post."
But after my marathon reshoot session, I learned:

↳ Perfectionism vs. progress is real.
Here's what I found on both sides:

The Pros:

Clarity improved dramatically
↳ By video 20, I knew exactly what to say
↳ Each take refined my message
↳ Confidence grew with repetition

Delivery became natural
↳ Eye contact felt genuine
↳ No more reading scripts robotically
↳ Energy levels peaked at the right moments

The Cons:

Time investment was massive
↳ Editing through 39 takes? No way, didn't do it!
↳ 3 hours for one 60-second video
↳ Diminishing returns after take 25

Overthinking killed spontaneity
↳ Started sounding too rehearsed
↳ Lost the raw, authentic moments
↳ Perfectionism became procrastination

The Key Insight:
↳ Beyond that? You're polishing, not improving.
↳ There's a sweet spot around 5-7 takes.
↳ Done beats perfect every single time.

My new rule:

Three takes maximum, then ship it.

What's your video recording process? One take or multiple?

Drop your number below
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