Every week your hidden loops run. The cost compounds. I stop that. 

I work with leaders responsible for execution.

The ones carrying deadlines, scope, and accountability that never ease up. It often looks like Founders, VPs, Directors, or Product and Project Leads.

But the role is not what matters, the weight is.

The problem is not effort. The problem is loops you cannot see.

They look responsible in the moment but they drain time, slow decisions, and eat into the trust you’ve earned.

You know the signs:

• A decision pushed off until the opportunity is gone
• A hire delayed until the best candidate walks
• Work you delegated pulled back onto your plate

These aren’t small habits. They are loops that build a mental prison.

I learned to see loops early because I lived inside them for years.

I do not coach in the way you think of coaching. I cut the loop at the source so it stops running you.

My clients walk out with:

• Decisions made in hours instead of weeks
• Teams that move without being pushed
• Projects delivered instead of delayed
• Opportunities secured before they slip away

And when the loops are gone, other shifts happen too:

• Decisions stick the first time instead of circling
• Work stops bleeding into every hour of your day
• Authority shows up in every call and every move
• Careers accelerate

We do not polish symptoms. We cut the loop.

No journaling.
No endless talk.
No drawn-out processes.

You can read what my clients say in the "Recommendations" section below.

If this feels like your world, connect with me.

Roshan Chander

The best shift I made as a leader was not meditation, journaling, or slowing down.

It was realizing my "fatigue" was actually friction running in the background.

It showed up in small ways first.

A decision that should have taken five minutes took twenty.
A simple call felt heavier than it should have.
I kept checking the same email before sending it.
Not for edits. To make sure I wasn’t creating another fire to put out.

Meetings kept moving but I could feel myself sitting half a step behind them.

I told myself I just needed more sleep, more discipline, more focus.

None of it changed anything.

One night my wife asked, "Are you even here?"
I was physically present but mentally still running checks from the day.
Replaying things that were already done.
Scanning for problems that had not happened.

That was the moment I saw the real cost.

It was loops running my decisions.

Every rethink. Every replay.
Every silent "Did I miss something" eating up the space I needed to lead.

Once I started spotting those loops, the pattern was obvious.

The more pressure I felt,
the more I checked.
The more I checked,
the slower everything moved.

Not just my work. The entire team.

That is what I expose in the Loop Exposure Audit.

It is two sessions.
60 minutes to identify the loops running your week.
30 minutes to show the exact cost on paper and where the first cut goes.

This is not mindset work.
It is execution work.

See the pattern before it burns another quarter.

👉https://lnkd.in/g5tY8_XY

I Cut Hidden Decision Loops that Drain Revenue, Time, and Authority.

You know this one.

I lived it longer than I want to admit.

You tell yourself, "Next time I’ll push the decision through"
Then the moment comes and you hesitate.

You tell yourself, "Next time I’ll delegate and let it go"
Then you take it back.

You tell yourself, "Next time I’ll have the hard conversation"
Then you push it another week.

You’re not confused.
You’re not unskilled.
You’re in a loop.

A loop that feels responsible in the moment but costs you days, sometimes weeks, because the same move repeats without you noticing.

And it doesn’t just slow your week.
It slows decisions, timelines, and the trust your team has in your calls.

That’s the one I cut fast.

The Loop Exposure Audit is complimentary for now.

Two sessions.
Sixty minutes, then thirty.
Session one exposes the patterns running your work.
Session two shows the cost on paper and the first cut to make.

If you’ve been repeating the same move for months, you don’t need motivation.

You need to see the loop 👉 https://lnkd.in/gKu8Ex2n

PS: What decision have you been circling that should already be done?

You’re the one everyone counts on 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗻𝗼 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗰𝗵𝗲𝗰𝗸𝘀 𝗼𝗻.

The numbers said he was fine. The sleepless nights said otherwise.

When we spoke, he was running a tech company that looked stable, but the strain behind it told a different story. 

He’d built teams, landed funding, hit milestones.

Yet at 1 a.m., he was still staring at spreadsheets, wondering why forward momentum kept disappearing.

The problem wasn’t the model. It was the loops running him.

𝗟𝗼𝗼𝗽 𝟭: 𝗕𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗲𝘅𝗰𝗶𝘁𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗼𝗺𝗶𝗰𝘀.
He poured everything into the next big idea but ignored the systems that kept it alive. He called it innovation. It was avoidance.

Ignore the systems long enough, and the cost always comes due.

𝗟𝗼𝗼𝗽 𝟮: 𝗙𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗴𝘂𝗲 𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝗱 𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹.
After years of forcing deals through slow partners, he started lowering his own bar. "I just want it done" he said.

That line has cost more founders their freedom than failure ever has.

𝗟𝗼𝗼𝗽 𝟯: 𝗔𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗹𝗶𝗰𝘁 𝘄𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘁.
He said yes too often. Stayed quiet when he should have pushed back.
Every unspoken truth turned into resentment that burned twice as long.

He thought he had a money problem.

What he really had were mental bottlenecks hiding inside business problems.

I walked him through the same process I use in my audit work:

𝟭. 𝗙𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗰𝗶𝘁𝘀. See exactly where the leaks are. No stories, just numbers.
𝟮. 𝗙𝗶𝘅 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗱𝘀 𝗳𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗴𝘂𝗲. Remove the parts of the system that keep you tired.
𝟯. 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗻𝘁 𝗱𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗹𝘆. The conversation you avoid costs more than the mistake you fear.
𝟰. 𝗖𝗵𝗼𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻. Done and clear beats perfect and never.

Five weeks later, the company stabilized.
He wasn’t chasing deals. He was choosing them.

Most never make it that far.
They patch symptoms, chase fixes, and call it progress.
Until one day, they realize the real problem wasn’t in the system at all.

That’s where my work begins.

I Cut the Loops Leaders Can’t See That Drain Revenue, Time, and Trust.

You triple-check work no one else ever thinks about.

Not because you doubt the numbers.
Because you don’t trust what happens if you miss something.

Every deal, every call, every project runs through you.

It feels like control.

I used to live that way.
Every opportunity touched my hands.
Every decision waited for my approval.

It worked for a while.
Then it started costing more than it saved.

In real estate development, I was known for finding the best land before anyone else.

But by the time I was sure, someone else had already built. The myth of certainty cost me more than any mistake ever did.

I’ve seen the same loop in every industry since.
In tech launches, client pitches, and construction bids.

Different surface, same cost.

Leaders believe being careful keeps them safe.
But all that protecting does not stop loss.
It just delays it.

The thing you keep protecting might already be the thing holding you back.

PS: What opportunity are you protecting so carefully that it's already slipped away?

You know that swing.

At 9 a.m. the plan feels solid.
By noon, you’re making small edits.
By 3 p.m. you’re waiting.
By 10 p.m. you’re telling yourself, "I’ll decide tomorrow"

I lived that longer than I care to admit.

It didn’t show up as panic.
It showed up in small moves.

Pausing before I hit send.
Rechecking what didn’t need another check.
Asking for one more opinion.
Delaying what needed to move.

Underneath it was the same thought every time.
If this goes sideways, it’s on me.

That’s the loop I help leaders see fast.

The Loop Exposure Audit is complimentary for now.

It’s a two-part virtual process.
One sixty minute session.
One thirty minute follow up.

In the first session, I ask direct questions that reveal the patterns running your work.

In the second, I walk you through a one page audit that shows where those loops cost time, revenue, and trust, and where the first cut goes.

You leave with your loops mapped and the first cut ready.

👉 https://lnkd.in/gf6h-tGW

One small hesitation can steal a full week before you notice it.

It starts with a single pause.
A ten-minute decision becomes thirty.
A meeting loops instead of landing.
Your team waits for direction they used to bring on their own.

Not because the work changed.
Because you did.

You carry so much weight that even simple calls feel loaded.
So you play it safe.
You overthink the quiet decisions.
You delay the ones that matter.

Here’s the part most leaders never say out loud.
This hesitation costs a full cycle every week.

The deal that moves while you re-check the brief.
The hire that slips while you "sleep on it".
The task you pull back onto your plate at 4:45 pm because you don’t trust the handoff.

The cost isn’t stress.
The cost is friction.

Friction in decisions.
Friction in execution.
Friction in authority when your team can sense your pause before you speak.

I work at the level where hesitation begins, not where it shows up.

That’s the loop I cut.

The loop that drains revenue, time, and trust without making a sound.

If execution has slowed while your calendar stayed full, that’s not burnout.
It’s the pattern running your week.

If you’re ready to see what’s actually running you, I’ll show you where the loop lives.

I saw a line online years ago and it hit harder than I expected.

"Trying to bring my idea to life but there are so many things I feel like I need to do before I start that I end up doing nothing."

That was me in the last stretch of my real estate development career.

By late 2019, I knew I was done trying to force myself into a life that did not fit anymore.

I had the idea for the work I do now. I could feel it.
But every time I thought about starting, the list showed up.

Build a website.
Pick the right tools.
Write the right words.
Make the offer perfect.
Make myself perfect.

Then 2020 hit. The whole world shook.
All the noise stopped at once.
No one had the answers.
Everyone was guessing.

That was the moment I realized something important.

There is never a clean starting point.
There is never a day where the list gets shorter.
There is never a time when the fear goes away long enough to give you permission.

I was stuck in the same loop I now help other leaders cut.
The loop that makes preparation feel safe and movement feel dangerous.
The loop that keeps you thinking about the work instead of doing it.

Starting my coaching work was not perfect.
It was messy.
I took one step. Then another. Most of them felt wrong as I took them.

But I finally moved.

And once I did, everything that looked impossible became simple because I was no longer thinking about it.

I was in it.

If you are circling something you know you need to start, you are not alone.
Nothing is wrong with you.
You are just stuck in a loop that looks responsible and feels safe.

I know that loop well.
It almost convinced me to stay in a life that was already finished.

I’ve been in that room.

You bring the numbers, the logic, the fix, and still hear, "Let’s revisit next quarter"

It’s not always politics.
Sometimes it’s protection.
A loop that trades truth for safety.

The same one I used to run.

Keep everyone comfortable.
Avoid being the problem.
Lose months proving what I already knew.

When I started cutting that loop, everything changed.
I stopped selling ideas and started executing where I didn’t need approval.

Results made the case that no meeting ever could.

That’s what I help leaders do now.
Cut the hidden pattern that makes every idea feel like a fight.

If you’ve spent weeks waiting on a yes that should have been simple,
it’s not the system holding you back.

It’s the loop.

There was a stretch in my career where I made every decision twice.

Once in the moment.
Then again in my head for hours.

I’d leave a meeting and replay it in the car.
I’d send an email then second-guess the tone.
I’d make a call at 2 p.m. and rethink it at 10 p.m.

I looked like I had it handled from the outside.

Inside, I was waiting for the moment something would crack and expose what I didn’t want anyone to see.

I assumed it was stress.
I assumed it would ease up.
It didn’t.

Because it wasn’t stress.
It was a loop.

A loop that made simple calls feel heavier than they were.
A loop that made every move feel like a test.
A loop that burned more energy than the work itself.

Once I stopped treating every move like a test, things started to move.

Not all at once but fast enough to notice.

You stop re-deciding.
You stop replaying.
You stop burning energy on threats that don’t exist.

And your work becomes more direct, more deliberate, and easier to move through.

That’s what we map in the Loop Exposure Audit.

Sixty minutes to see the loop.
Thirty minutes to see the cost.
One cut to reset how you move.

This audit is complimentary.

If you’re tired of making the same decision twice, start here.
👉 https://lnkd.in/gQyTrFDh

You look composed on the outside.

You doubt every move on the inside.

Leaders rarely say it out loud.
But they feel it every day.

You replay a meeting, not to learn from it, but to check if you looked out of your depth.

You double-check work you already know is solid. You hold back on a move because the idea of being wrong feels heavier than staying still.

That is the loop.
Quiet. Constant. Draining.

I see it fast in others because I lived it longer than I should have.

You hesitate.
You over-prepare.
You hide the questions you should be asking.
You keep it together on the outside.
Inside, the doubt gets louder.

This runs leaders harder than long hours ever have.

In the Loop Exposure Audit, we surface where this doubt runs your decisions, your communication, and your leadership behind the scenes.

Two sessions.
One map.
Your real loop on paper.

The audit is complimentary for now.

If you want to see what has been running your hesitation behind the scenes, start here  👉 https://lnkd.in/g_kuqksU

You know that moment when the day ends and you can’t explain where it went.

You were on calls.
You answered everything.
You handled every fire.

But nothing important actually moved.

That used to happen to me more than I’d ever admit.
I wasn’t procrastinating.
I wasn’t avoiding work.
I was stuck in a loop I didn’t know I was running.

I kept solving the urgent thing because it was easier than facing the real thing.

I stayed busy because busy felt productive.
By the time afternoon hit, I had nothing left for the work that mattered.

That’s the loop leaders don’t talk about.

Not laziness.
Not lack of discipline.

A loop that pulls your attention to whatever is loudest instead of whatever is required.

You don’t see the cost in the moment.
You feel it later in the things that should have moved but didn’t.

That’s why I built the Loop Exposure Audit.

Sixty minutes to identify the loops that hijack your day.
Thirty minutes to see the cost on paper.
One cut to take back your attention.

The audit is complimentary.

If your days keep filling but nothing meaningful moves, start here.
👉 https://lnkd.in/gE2g4mCX

Sapphire Partners

We are a managed service that specializes in chiefs of staff and executive assistance for neurodivergent leaders and micro businesses (including solo-preneurs). 

We relieve the overwhelm, support daily executive function, and cultivate productive time, focus, energy through a personalized support plan using module based pricing that can be customized for any budget.

We're innovating cutting edge technology by blending AI, automation, and data analytics with executive support. 

Through our unique methodology, we're also developing a model for predictive energy management and goal structure that will change the way our leaders and visionaries approach business strategy and leadership.

Our desire to create good in the world unites us all in collective impact. Sapphire supports visionaries with the tactical side of what they want most, and as a result, every leader we work with has a higher chance of success.

Lead vibrantly. 💎

Founder - CEO

Novalto

Operations and Executive Support

As the executive assistant to the CEO and COO of this 35+ year old company, I flawlessly managed all calendaring needs as well as implemented a task management system for company wide use that brings optimal efficiency, effectiveness, and simplified communication. 

✦	100% client satisfaction
✦	Employees under my direction have expressed that my events are organized, appropriately staffed and enjoyable. References are available.
✦	Rewrote an outdated operations manual and streamlined administrative operations to require less printing and file storage. 
✦	Over the course of 6 months, decreased office expenditure by 26% and was on target to reduce the annual expenditure by 40%.

Executive Assistant

Magnum Electric

✦	Detailed client scheduling and job planning
✦	Created and implemented a bidding program that made jobsite walkthroughs paperless and eliminated typographical errors from handwritten notes.
✦	Created and implemented a pricing system that integrated with my bidding program to allow the owner to present his clients with pricing in hours instead of weeks.
✦	Worked alongside the owner completing residential rough-ins, lighting design, box termination, and fixture installation, logging approximately 1,400 of OJT.

Electrical Assistant

Mountain Activities and Entertainment Company

I started this company from the ground-up, working with the SBA to create a comprehensive business plan with multi-year cash flow projections and market analysis for an activity mall. 

✦ The company garnered investment interest but proposed changes compromised the vision and I opted to retain ownership and morph the company into premium niche entertainment within the steampunk genre and culture until self-expansion was possible.
✦ Traveled to conventions all over the northwest with custom costuming pieces including hats that sold for over $500 each.
✦ Hosted rock concerts that featured niche artists. At the height of its success, artists contacted us wanting to schedule shows and include Montana on their national tours - including artists from Europe and the UK.

Bluestone Creative

Screenwriter (www.bluestone-creative.com)

Founder - Writer

Sunburst Foundation Inc

I utilized my AA in psychology to collaborate with therapists and case managers to provide premium treatment for more challenged clients.

✦	Implemented plans for activities that supported mental development, physical stimuli, and personal empowerment. 
✦	Improved the general quality of life for my clients by maintaining a thorough knowledge of community programs of many types, from entertainment to education to basic needs.

Psychiatric Rehabilitation (CBPR&S)

Bluestone Audio Video

Co-founded this company from the ground up with office administration, scheduling, purchasing, business image/marketing, customer proposals, inventory management, and employee relations with 2-5 employees under me.

✦	Managed the accounting through Quickbooks and strategized increased profitability.
✦	Worked directly with clients to provide home audio remote control programming.
✦	Worked with and protected the identity of high-end clientele and job records for internationally recognized names during the construction of their vacation homes.

Co-Founder, Operations Manager

Edelen Window and Door/Montana Sash and Door

Co-founded this company from the ground up with office administration, scheduling, purchasing, business image/marketing, customer proposals, inventory management, and employee relations with 2-5 employees under me.

✦	Ordered complete window/door packages for extremely high-end homes without error from blueprint measurements to jobsite delivery - including a package totaling $1.2M.
✦	Worked with and protected the identity of high-end clientele and job records for internationally recognized names during the construction of their vacation homes.
✦	Successfully managed the sale of this business to a bigger company that later built a new building and further expanded to a neighboring state.

Co-Founder, Operations Manager/Sales

Autistic | Strategizing strategist | Wannabe queen | Probably part crow | Chill pirate | Easily amused adventurer | Etiquette pusher | Concert goer | Casual archer | Sometimes writer | Movie enthusiast | Your mom

I work with leaders, managers, teams, admins, & neurodivergent visionaries to build tactical systems that relieve overwhelm and solve chaos. 

My approach to the complexities of neurodivergent leadership creates actionable strategies to enhance productivity, effectiveness, and joy...while making things even better for everyone else.

I intend to reach as many small business leaders as possible because, if a few hours a week of targeted, high-impact support means that they have the ability to keep creating, building and growing…this is now a critical, humanitarian mission to ensure that these leaders Keep Going.

I’ve been featured in numerous podcasts and national publications, drawing from the first-hand stories and dreams of entrepreneurs and executives across the globe. Give me a stage and I will change lives.

For my day-to-day, Seattle is home as the clan mom to a collection of young adults​, When I'm not working, you can find me casually adventuring in the mountains, doing archery, patronizing garage sales in pursuit of cool swords, thinking about my next business endeavor, skating, reading, or doing cosplay.

Autism was a 2023 discovery that wrapped me in a warm blanket on a cold day, grounding me and bringing clarity and relief to things that never made sense and things that I've been fighting within myself since my first memories.

I love to have fun because recovery is just as important as the work we do. I have stories for days and I’m not shy about the ones that had hard lessons to go with them. Laughter, tears, love, heartbreak, determination… these things connect us.

"Build a life you don't need a vacation from" and build a company where every person we hire or get to work with is also doing the same. Will it be my most successful endeavor yet? I'm pretty sure yes but only time will tell!

Eryn Anitavi

Y’all… I just hit 9000 followers on this delightful platform. 🤯

I’ve been here… posting, yelling into the void, and being pleasantly obnoxious for many, many, many years.

I’m so grateful to LinkedIn for creating… and holding (which is a far greater feat!)… a space with consistent quality and opportunity for growth.

Here’s to you Followers in the LinkedIn Universe. I adore you all. 💚💎🙌

taplio

The Battle

Roshan Chander

Eryn Anitavi

Followers

Posts

Engagements

Likes

Performance ScoreRoshan Chander's LinkedIn Performance

Performance ScoreEryn Anitavi's LinkedIn Performance

Ready to grow your LinkedIn presence?

taplio

The Battle

Roshan Chander

Eryn Anitavi

Followers

Posts

Engagements

Likes

Performance Score.css-goub6s{font-size:var(--chakra-fontSizes-md);font-weight:500;color:var(--chakra-colors-gray-600);display:block;margin-top:var(--chakra-space-1);}Roshan Chander's LinkedIn Performance

Performance ScoreEryn Anitavi's LinkedIn Performance

Ready to grow your LinkedIn presence?

Performance ScoreRoshan Chander's LinkedIn Performance