💪Girl dad 🛋️Psychologist 🌅I pulled back from a prestigious (but overworked) clinical path to design a 6-figure career around my family 🤝🏾I help therapists build and make money from their online courses and podcasts

I didn’t grow up around business owners.
To be honest, I thought I’d do therapy and testing forever.

Then, in 2014, a snowstorm shut everything down. 

The power went out.
The roads froze.

I canceled 21 therapy sessions in one week.

We were saving for our first home.
And just like that, my income was gone.

So I started asking better questions.

A few months later, in March 2015, I launched a small podcast called Selling The Couch. 

No hype. Just showing up each week (and recording from a TV dinner stand from Walmart!).

Over time, it became:

• 🌍 A top 0.5% podcast worldwide
• 📊 1.92M+ downloads in 100+ countries
• 💛 A trusted space for thoughtful builders

Then life changed again.

Our daughter was born 7.5  weeks early.
The sounds of the NICU stayed with me as she struggled to make it.

That season taught me this:

How you build matters as much as what you build.

⸻

Today, I help thoughtful professionals grow without burning out.

So far:
• 🎧 245+ therapists launched podcasts
• 🧠 50+ founders built online courses
• 💰 $1M+ earned—while building around family and health

My own business is built around:

🥾 Hiking
🧩 Deep work
⛪ Church
⛳ Golf
💬 Time with the people I love

Because success that breaks your nervous system
isn’t success.

⸻

In fall 2025, I started learning to play golf. ⛳
I was 43.

It was a dream I’d had since I was eight.

I'm committed to weekly lessons with a PGA coach, hours of practice, and more hip mobility training that I know what to do with. 😅

Golf teaches me patience, pressure, and staying calm when it matters.

⸻

What I’m focused on now

Haven — a calm community for therapists building:
• 🎙️ Podcasts
• 📘 Courses
• 🎥 YouTube
• 🎤 Speaking + writing

No hustle culture.
Just steady progress.

👉 sellingthecouch.com/haven

I also write The Quiet Builder ✍️
A paid newsletter for people who want to build their careers around their lives and health.

⸻

Starting in Fall 2026, I'm working privately with people who make
high-stakes decisions under pressure—

where lives, capital, or influence
are on the line.

🩺 Doctors, Lawyers, and Surgeons
📈 Investors
🏗️ Founders
🏌️ Elite performers

The work is about one thing:

🧘 Identifying your unique performance blocks + staying calm when mistakes are costly.

⸻

If you’re building something meaningful and want to stay whole while doing it—let’s connect =).

Melvin Varghese, PhD

Burnout doesn’t start with exhaustion.

It starts when we ignore the early signals.
👀 Skipping meals
📱 Scrolling too much
😮💨 Feeling distant from work you used to love

In today’s episode of Selling the Couch, I’m joined by clinical psychologist,  author, and my friend, Dr. Emily Anhalt, whose work on emotional fitness is helping therapists, founders, and helpers build resilience—without self-sacrifice.

We talk about:

✅ Emotional fitness vs emotional intelligence
✅ How to know when burnout is around the corner
✅ A powerful “emotional push-up” you can try today
✅ Why boundaries are blueprints for sustainability—not barriers

This conversation is honest, practical, and such a refreshing reframe for anyone in the helping professions who’s tired of white-knuckling their way through it all. 🙂 

🎧 Listen here: https://lnkd.in/ezzpAn2w

📘 Get Emily’s book Flex Your Feelings: dremilyanhalt.com

Let me know what lands for you—and feel free to share this with a therapist or leader who might need it. We all need a little more emotional fitness in our lives.

Melvin Varghese PhD

💪 Girl dad + Psychologist + New Golfer ⛳ Helping therapists & quiet builders grow calm, strong businesses ✍🏽 Sharing slow growth lessons since 2015

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I used to think the goal was to be everywhere.
Instagram. Facebook. LinkedIn. 

Always posting. Always showing up.

And for a while, it worked.

My Facebook group grew to nearly 10,000 therapists.
I had a few posts go viral on Twitter (180k+ views). 

LinkedIn brought in opportunities I couldn’t have imagined.

From the outside, it looked like momentum.

But something else was happening underneath. 😔

I stopped measuring the depth of my work.
And started measuring how many likes it got.

I started measuring how I felt on the inside by how my posts were doing.

A few years ago, I shut down that Facebook group + stopped posting on Twitter.

And lately, I’ve been pulling back here on LinkedIn, too.

Not because I hate social media.

But because I'm starting to tune in to how my nervous system feels when I'm always on social (not great).

I'm also (very slowly) realizing that I do much better with 1 on 1, small group chats, and actually meeting up with people.

It's a big reason why this year I'm focusing a lot more on in person meetups + phone calls.

Recently, I recorded a Quiet Builder episode on this idea of "growing without always being on social media."

https://lnkd.in/eViuDyiM

Would LOVE to hear how you're thinking about this. 🙂

I sat down this morning to write a post about our latest Quiet Builder episode...but I can’t finish it without acknowledging what’s been happening in Minnesota.

In just the past few weeks, federal immigration agents have shot and killed at least two U.S. citizens in Minneapolis, including a 37‑year‑old ICU nurse who was described by family and friends as someone who cared deeply about helping others. 

This isn’t just news on a screen.

It’s real people.
Real grief.
Real fear.

And truthfully... it’s left me reeling.

⸻

As someone who has lived in this country as an immigrant, who wants to show up for others, and who believes in service and community, I find myself struggling with two things at once:

1️⃣ 𝗠𝘆 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗰𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘆 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗹𝗶𝗰𝘁‑𝗮𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗱𝗮𝗻𝘁

When events like this happen, there’s a part of me that just wants to turn away — to protect my peace, to focus on work, to stay safe.

2️⃣ 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝘂𝘀𝗵 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘀𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗜 𝗰𝗮𝗻’𝘁 𝗹𝗼𝗼𝗸 𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘆

Because part of building platforms like this — slow, deep, relational platforms — is exactly to be a voice for people who don’t feel heard.

⸻

My heart breaks for my country right now.
It breaks for Minneapolis.

It breaks for those who are scared, uncertain, and hurting.

And it breaks for the therapists and clinicians I know — the ones who will hold other people’s pain and their own.

This is heavy work.
Emotionally. Humanly. Spiritually.

If you, too, are having a hard time with what’s unfolding — in Minnesota or anywhere suffering violence and fear — you’re not alone.

It matters that we care.

It matters that we feel.

It matters that we don’t look away.

Today was a big day in my golf journey. 🙂

After a few weeks of lessons…practice....
a lot of slow-motion swings in the lab (and lots of "what the heck am I doing learning this game at 43?" moments)…

I finally made it out to the range. 🏌🏾‍♂️

I have no idea if what I’m doing is “good” —
But it felt great to see the ball fly.
Even if it wasn’t always straight. 😅

Feels like Day 1 all over again.
And I’m here for it.

Any fellow golfers here?
Would love to connect . 🙂

26 days after I launched my podcast, it ranked higher than Snoop Dogg’s new podcast. 😅

It’s funny to look back on now.
But at the time, it meant 𝙖 𝙡𝙤𝙩.
I needed it to mean a lot.

In my 20s and 30s, I tied my worth to success.
If I wasn’t achieving, I felt like I was failing.
That feeling ran deep.

Over the years, therapy, brainspotting, and my faith helped me see something else:
𝗜 𝗺𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗜’𝗺 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴.

That’s been hard to accept.
But also freeing.

Now in my 40s, I’m making some changes.

Starting in 2026:

• I’ll work just 2 days a week on Selling the Couch
• I’ll spend 1 day playing golf and another day practicing
• And I’ll spend another day in a new experience called A Quiet Approach

It’s for people who need to stay calm under pressure—
like surgeons, investors, and founders.

We’ll use golf as a playground to see how stress shows up and brainspotting to help reset the nervous system.

But here’s the big question I’ve been sitting with lately:

𝗖𝗮𝗻 𝗮 𝗯𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗯𝗲 𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗲𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗯𝗲 “𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗳𝘂𝗹?”

I think the answer is yes.
But it’s a shift I’m still learning to live.

I made a short video about this if you want to watch. 🙂
📽️ https://lnkd.in/eXEuWQy2

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⛳ Any fellow golfers out there?! Let's connect. 🙂

Open Question

❓ Would love to hear...how are you navigating chasing vs being content with enough?

Last week, we launched something new.
It’s called 𝘏𝘢𝘷𝘦𝘯.

A calm, steady space for therapists building online courses, podcasts, YouTube channels, speaking, and writing—without the whole hustle vibe.

We kicked things off with a live accelerator on:
𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗔𝗜-𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲.

15 thoughtful colleagues joined me.
We’re exploring what it means to build a course that lasts—
even in a world where AI changes everything.

I’ll be honest...
Every time I launch something new, I still feel it.

That quiet voice:
“Will this work?”
“Will it help?”
“Will anyone say yes?”

But they did.
And I’m so grateful. 😭

We’re keeping this first cohort small—
not to create hype or scarcity,
but to serve deeply.

To listen.
To build something that actually supports.

Next up?
A short pause,
then our 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗧𝘂𝗯𝗲 𝗙𝗹𝘆𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗲𝗹 accelerator in April—
how to use AI + quiet strategy to turn one video into many.

The part means a lot to me?

We’ve set aside 10% of every sale from Haven
to create a scholarship fund for girls and women rescued from brothels in the commercial sex trade.

To support their education.
To help rebuild lives that deserve more than survival.

This is something our family has wanted to do for a long time.

Now, with Haven’s potential to scale, it finally makes sense to start.

Because this isn’t just about business.

It’s about asking:
What does generational impact actually look like?
And how do we quietly build toward it?

💬 If you’re a therapist building something meaningful online,
DM me and I’ll keep you posted when Haven opens again.

“This sounds NOTHING like me.” 
This is what I said when I started AI early last year to create content. 😅

You type a few prompts into ChatGPT or Claude...
It spits something out that kinda works...
But it sounds robotic, flat, and not like you.

Like it has no soul or depth.

The problem isn’t you.
The problem is how most of us were taught to use AI.

𝗪𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗮 𝗺𝗮𝗴𝗶𝗰 𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗰𝗸—𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗮 𝗰𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗮𝗯𝗼𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗼𝗿.

⸻

Here’s what changed everything for me:

✅ I stopped asking AI to replace my voice
✅ I started teaching it how I speak, think, and create
✅ Dan helped me build a brand voice doc so my team could use AI without sounding like AI

Now we use AI to:

— Write podcast scripts
— Repurpose transcripts
— Draft LinkedIn posts like this…all without me micromanaging or burning out.
⸻
I recently sat down with my friend, Dan Cumberland 🚀, to talk about using AI for content creation without losing your voice. 

What I most loved about this chat is that it's full of practical things we can all do.

If you’ve ever thought, “𝗜 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗔𝗜, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗜 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗺𝘆 𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗰𝗲…”
This new episode is for you. 🙂

https://lnkd.in/eUwE9jM6

Before I became a dad, I recorded podcasts at 3:50 a.m.

I thought that was what success looked like—
stacked calendars, always “on,”
doing everything, every day.

But something shifted.

A NICU baby.
Aging parents.

And a quiet inner voice asking:

“What if you built around energy, not ego?”

So I made a change.

I cut Selling the Couch to two days a week.
I opened space to rest, for prayer, to golf, and to be present.

And one day, this sentence came out of my mouth:

“𝙄 𝙬𝙖𝙨𝙣’𝙩 𝙩𝙧𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙙𝙖𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙮𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚.”

That was it.
That was the shift.
The moment I realized this was enough.

👉 I shared the full story in this short video.

Would love for you to watch. 🙂

🔗 https://lnkd.in/erfZgMGk

Online courses feel risky right now. 😩

I’ve been creating them for 11 years — through the 2008 crash, COVID, and now AI.

But lately I’ve been wondering:

❓ Will anyone even buy my course?
❓ Is all this effort worth it?

𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝘁𝗚𝗣𝗧 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗚𝗿𝗼𝗸 𝗮𝗻𝘀𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗱𝘀...
𝘄𝗵𝘆 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗽𝗮𝘆 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲?

That fear is real. And valid.

⸻

But here’s the shift I’m seeing 👇

𝗖𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻’𝘁 𝗱𝗲𝗮𝗱.
𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗲 𝗯𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲.

People no longer want just content.
They want belonging.
They want something made for them.

⸻

What’s working now 🧭

1️⃣ 𝗚𝗼 𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗵𝗲.

One of our students is building a course + support experience for
 South Asian caregivers whose parents are facing Alzheimer’s, cancer, or terminal illness.

It’s personal. Needed. Deeply human.

⸻

2️⃣ 𝗕𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗴.

People aren’t looking for information.

They’re looking for community.
Somewhere they feel seen.

⸻

3️⃣ 𝗔𝗱𝗱 𝘀𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗴𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 

Not gimmicks. 🎯
Just small wins that build momentum.

⸻

4️⃣ 𝗕𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗼𝗽𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 

Position your course in a blue ocean 🌊 —
where students either choose you...
or choose nothing.

⸻

🎙️ I recently recorded a STC podcast on
𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗧𝗼 𝗔𝗜-𝗣𝗿𝗼𝗼𝗳 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗢𝗻𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗖𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲 (𝗡𝗼𝘄 + 𝗜𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗙𝘂𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲)

I walk through these 4 strategies — with examples. 

🔗 https://lnkd.in/ePSwg3jj

If you’re launching (or reworking) a course in 2026…
this will help. <3

P.S. We're wrapping up our soft launch of Haven, our new community for therapists building and growing their courses, YouTube, podcasts, speaking, and writing.

𝗪𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝟮-𝟯 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘀𝗽𝗼𝘁𝘀 𝗹𝗲𝗳𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗻𝗲𝘅𝘁 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸'𝘀 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗼𝗿 𝗼𝗻 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗧𝗼 𝗔𝗜-𝗣𝗿𝗼𝗼𝗳 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗖𝘂𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗼𝗿 𝗙𝘂𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗢𝗻𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗖𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲.

Please DM me if you've love to chat about it. 🙂

21 years ago, I started my PhD.

I was excited. 

I knew it would be a long road—5+ years of grad school, internship, and postdoc.

But it flew by.
And now, looking back, I wish I had done some things differently.

✅ I got a lot done.
❌ But I wasn’t always strategic with my time.

If I could do it over again...
 • I’d take a basic finance and/or a storytelling class 
 • I’d start building something small on the side: a podcast, a newsletter, even a LinkedIn presence
 • And I’d invest in my nervous system—because this work is heavy 

🎧 I just recorded a podcast episode on this:

“If I Were In Grad School Again, Here’s What I’d Do.”

https://lnkd.in/eiYDxMbe

It’s honest. It’s practical. It’s from the heart.

If you’re in grad school—or mentoring someone who is—this might help. 🙂

QUESTION: If you could speak to your former self who was going through school, what would you tell them? Would love to hear. =) 

“I wish I’d known...” story.

What if you didn’t have to PERFORM your success?

I used to think success had to be loud.
That if I was doing well, people should see it.

But over time, I noticed something:

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗺𝗲𝘀𝘁, 𝘄𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗜 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄?
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻’𝘁 𝗼𝗻 𝘀𝗼𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗮.
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗼𝗳𝗳.
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗯𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗶𝗻 𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗲.

They value privacy over applause.
Margin over attention.
Freedom over fame.

Now I’m asking different questions:

Does this decision buy more time with my family?
Will this matter in 20 years?
Am I still free?

That’s my definition of wealth now.
Not noise. Not numbers.
But peace.

Recently, I recorded a YouTube video on building generation wealth without performing on social media. 

▶️ https://lnkd.in/ePj676ny

Would love to hear what how you're thinking about this. =)

People Are Watching—Even When You Think No One Is. 👀

When I started my podcast in 2015, I had no idea where it would go.

I was juggling clinical work, trying to understand this whole podcasting thing, and figuring out how to share content that actually helped people.

Honestly? I didn’t think anyone would listen. 😬

I was convinced I needed to be more polished, more experienced—more something—before I had the right to take up space.

But over time, I noticed something surprising...

𝗣𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻’𝘁 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝘁𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.

𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘁𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀.

Not for perfection, but for 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗼𝗳—that you can start before you’re ready. That you can figure things out along the way. That you don’t need to be an expert to make an impact.

And I see this all the time with therapists who want to create a podcast or an online course. They think they need more credentials, more confidence, or more clarity before they start.

But here’s what I’ve learned: 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗶𝘁 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗳𝗶𝗴𝘂𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝘂𝘁.

The simple act of showing up—imperfectly, consistently—is what inspires others to believe they can do it too.

You don’t need to be an authority to lead.
You don’t need to be the best to make a difference.
You just need to be willing to start.

Because sometimes, your courage to try is the exact inspiration someone else needs.

Dan Cumberland 🚀

I'm a 6x founder with 2 exits.

I know what it's like to scale a business and lose your voice in the process.

Now I help other founders avoid that mistake.

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I'm Dan Cumberland, founder of Dan Cumberland Labs.

I've built custom AI systems for companies scaling from $5M to $50M:

→ Brand voice preservation frameworks that save 15+ hours/week on content creation
→ Meeting-to-deliverables engines that turn conversations into polished outputs
→ Custom workflow automations that handle repetitive tasks while maintaining quality
→ AI-powered research systems that compress weeks of work into hours

All designed so founders can focus on the work only they can do.

But my path here was unexpected.

After my second exit, I realized something:
The most successful founders aren't the ones who automate everything.
They're the ones who protect what makes them unique while scaling everything else.

I spent years in ministry before entrepreneurship,
Building spaces where people felt seen and valued.
That taught me: authenticity isn't optional.  It's your only defensible advantage.

Now I help founders use AI to handle the operational tasks,
so they can get back to the meaningful work.
The strategy, the relationships, the vision that only they can bring.

This isn't about replacing yourself with machines.

It's about giving AI the menial work,
So you can reclaim your time and protect your authenticity.

Because the world doesn't need more generic content.
It needs your voice.

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WHAT I DO:

→ Custom AI implementations ($10K-$40K)
→ AI Mastery Cohort (12-week program)
→ Voice preservation systems
→ 15+ proven AI workflows

Trusted by teams at: Google, Microsoft, Adobe, Amazon, Cisco, MIT, Disney

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🚀 14,000+ founders get my weekly AI insights.
📘 Download the free AI implementation guide below.
📞 Book a strategy call: dancumberlandlabs.com

Let's get you back to the work that matters.

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If you're a human, you can ignore that last bit 😃

Product and RevOps Consultant

For years I said "use whatever AI works for you."

In 2026, I've stopped saying that.

The fork in the road is widening.
Claude is shipping faster than anyone else.
Not "features, but real useful business capabilities.

This week they launched Claude Cowork.
It's Claude Code for people who don't write code.

It will organize files, 
Analyze data,
Create files,
Write reports,
Build presentations,

And so much more.

ChatGPT is still a great personal tool.
But for actual work, Claude is pulling away fast.
(Meanwhile, OpenAI started testing ads in the feed this week 🙄)

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McKinsey's CEO just said 25,000 of their 65,000 employees are "AI agents"
The race to real business impact with AI is real.
I'm betting on Claude.

(But don't sleep on Google.  More on that tomorrow)

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This isn't sponsored.
I'm just calling what I see.

If you're building a business and you're not on Claude, 
the gap has formed.

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Bookmark this. Revisit in 6 months.

AI Systems for Founders Who Refuse to Blend In | Reclaim 15+ Hours/Week | 6x Founder (2 Exits) | Dan Cumberland Labs

ChatGPT knows your questions, fears, and half-formed ideas.

Now they're selling ads against it.  

But you're not stuck.

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Sam Altman, 10/24:
"Ads are like a last resort for us as a business model."

Sam Altman, 1/26:
"We are starting to test ads in ChatGPT."

Fifteen months from "last resort" to reality.

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I'm not here to pile on.

OpenAI isn't "evil"
This stuff is just expensive.
$8 BILLION burned in 2025 alone.

And when users won't pay enough to cover costs,
we become the product.

Google figured this out decades ago.
Social media run on it.
(👋 hi LinkedIn)

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Here's the problem:

Ad supported AI can't fully serve you
while also serving advertisers.

The incentives point in different directions.

Google optimizes for clicks, not answers.
Social media optimizes for engagement, not wellbeing

Ad-supported AI will optimize for... 
what... I don't even know yet.

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Here's what I'd do:

1. Pay for your AI tools
If you're not paying, you're the product.

2. Choose tools with aligned incentives.
Claude's business model is to be useful enough that you pay.
That's an incentive I can trust.
And it's worth every penny.

3. Keep your AI brain portable.
Your prompts. your context. your workflows.
no single tool should own them.
If you're running a team,
this is essential.

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This isn't about ChatGPT vs Claude.

It's about choosing tools that serve you and your business,
instead of tools that serve advertisers.

Wherever tool you're putting your time and data into
should work for you

Not against you.

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I put together a guide on exporting your ChatGPT data.
Same walkthrough I use with clients.

1. Follow me
2. Send me a connection request (so I can send it to you)
3. Comment MOVE below

Nobody notices when you're gone from LinkedIn.

 That sounds brutal. It's actually a gift.

 Walking back in after time away feels like walking back into a party after you ghosted it.

 Everyone's still talking.
 The conversations kept going without you.
 And now you're standing in the doorway thinking:
 "Do I need to explain where I've been?"

 After 3 years of regular posting, I stepped away for December.
 And I got all in my head about coming back.
 Breaking the silence.
 Explaining the gap.

 But then I remembered what I always forget:

 Nobody is waiting for you to return.
 They're not counting the days.
 They didn't notice.

 The apology post is a trap.

 You don't owe anyone an explanation.
 You don't need permission to show up.
 And you don't need permission to leave.

 The only thing that matters is the same thing that's always mattered:

 Do you have something to say?

 Your next post is your welcome back party.
 No explanation needed.

 If you've been gone, just show up.

Yesterday I told you not to sleep on Google.

They just proved why.

Google announced "Personal Intelligence" for Gemini.

ChatGPT Memory saves notes about you over time as you use it.
It builds your profile conversation by conversation.
This is great.  But it takes months.

Gemini just connected to your entire digital life.

Gmail. Photos. YouTube. Search history.
Everything you already have.
From Day one.
Ready.

I asked it for activity ideas for this weekend.
It knew my kids' ages.
It looked at recent activiies on my map.

And it gave me some great ideas.
It's insane how much Google knows about me.
But since it knows it, I may as well benefit.

That's the difference.
For anyone on workspace, drive, gmail, maps, etc.

ChatGPT learns who you are.
Gemini already knows.

This is one of Google's moats.  
Data.  So.  Much.  Data.
I've had a gmail account for 20 years.
Now they're making it useful

Gemini tends to move slow.  
But the gap is closing.

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Save this. 

Full disclosure: I used AI to help write this.
But none mentioned here.
More on that later this week.


(Claude is typing…)

I turned on an AI system less than 30 days ago.

Today my website traffic is up 2x.

Before: ~550 clicks per day from Google 
After: 1175+ clicks per day
I saw results within days.

Every month, it runs marketing experiments on my site.

Like a CMO.
It writes a hypothesis. 
Launches the experiment. 
Waits 30 days. Checks the results. 
Notes and iterates if needed.
I don't touch it.

I can always see what it's done and what's working.
And it's a system that's constantly iterating and improving. On its own.

The graph in this video is actual Google Search Console data from my site.

Most people use AI for one-off tasks.
The real leverage is in systems that run without you.

I'm implementing this for a small number of clients in Q1.
Jump on my calendar it you want to explore: 
https://lnkd.in/gV7qdPMC

Or comment CLICKS if you want to know more about how it works.

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