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Graham Nicholls

My emotional intelligence certification meant nothing.
"You don't see me," she said.

Three months of coaching.

Weekly sessions focused on her career transition.

I had frameworks. Tools. Assessments.

Everything except awareness.

I was so busy solving her problems, I missed her pain.

Every session, I'd dive straight into action planning.

"What's your next step?"

"How will you approach this?"

"Let's create a strategy."

She'd answer. We'd make progress. Check the boxes.

But her voice got quieter each week.

I told myself she was “doing the work.”
What she was actually doing was withdrawing.

I thought I was helping her move forward.

The day she ended our contract, she told me:

"You never asked how I was feeling about any of this."

That sentence exposed me.

I'd spent thousands learning about emotional intelligence.

I could explain the five components in my sleep.
I just couldn’t embody them in the room.

Self-awareness. Self-management. Empathy. Relationship management.

I had the language.
I didn’t have the presence.

I'd been coaching a human like she was a problem to solve.

Not a person experiencing change.

Here’s what I finally understood:

Emotional intelligence isn’t knowledge.

It’s presence.

It's the pause before they answer.

It's noticing when "I'm fine" doesn't match their shoulders.

It's asking "How does that land?" instead of "What's next?"

Emotional intelligence isn’t five neat circles on a slide.

It’s what happens when you feel the shift in the room before the client says a word.

Certifications teach you frameworks.
They don’t teach you how to sit with discomfort.

On paper, I had all five.

In practice, I had to earn them.

The coaching industry celebrates strategy.
It rarely rewards presence.

And if you’ve ever defaulted to strategy instead of silence… you’ve felt it too.

If this felt uncomfortable to read, pause there.

Because fixing problems is easier than sitting with pain.

Because frameworks feel safer than presence.

Because admitting you've been emotionally absent for months is terrifying.

Coaches don’t lose clients because they lack tools.

They lose them because the client can feel they’re being managed… not understood.

And the client usually knows before you do.

➕ If this hit home, follow Graham Nicholls. I write for coaches, just like you, every day.

“ChatGPT gave me better coaching than you.”
Sarah thought her coaching career was over.

She was shaking.

This wasn't about losing a client.
This was about losing her identity.

She walked them through her framework.
Asked the right questions.
Gave thoughtful advice.

The client nodded.

Then they showed her their phone.

"I asked ChatGPT the same question. Look."

The response was devastating.
Thorough.
Structured.

More actionable than anything Sarah offered.

Her client wasn’t cruel.
They were confused.

"Why didn't you give me this level of detail?"

"Am I even needed?" she asked me.

That's when it hit me.

AI isn’t replacing coaches.
It’s exposing the ones who were hiding behind advice.

The coaches panicking about AI already know their work is replaceable.

That's not an AI problem.
That's a depth problem.

AI reveals the three types of coaches:

Type 1: The Advice Givers

Type 2: The Comfort Providers

Type 3: The Truth Tellers

Most coaches think they’re Type 3.
Very few are.

If this made you uncomfortable, good.

AI will devour Type 1 and 2.

It has better frameworks.
More patience.
Unlimited availability.

And it never avoids a hard question.

But it can't hold someone in their deepest fear.
It can't confront the lies they tell themselves.

It can’t dismantle the identity they’re hiding behind.

If your coaching can be replaced by a chatbot, it was never coaching.
It was structured sympathy.

The extinction event has already started.

➕ If this hit home, follow Graham Nicholls. I write for coaches, just like you, every day

7 certifications. 

I still felt “not ready.”

If you’re a coach, you’ll understand this.

I spent $27,000 on programs.

Three years of study.
Still hesitated to charge properly.

Last year, Gemma came to me.

Four certifications.
Two diplomas.

Zero clients.

She’d spent $19,400.
And still felt “not ready”.

She kept saying, “Maybe I need one more certification."

Not because she lacked skill.

Because she lacked focus.

Certifications feel safe.

They delay the real risk: 

Being rejected.

We didn’t change her skillset.
We cut 80% of her offers.

Most coaches don’t have a knowledge problem.
They have a positioning problem.

There are three types of coaches:

1. The Collector – always enrolling, never selling
2. The Generalist – broad skill, vague outcome
3. The Specialist – one pain, one result, one price

Only one of them gets paid.

You can keep “improving”
without ever risking rejection.

Clients don’t pay for education.

They pay for:

• Speed
• Certainty
• A result they can measure.

Generalists feel knowledgeable.

Specialists get paid.

The infographic shows where clients are spending money right now.

Not because they’re trendy.

Because they solve urgent pain.

Depth builds confidence.

Repetition builds authority.

Revenue builds belief.

At some point, another certification stops being education.
And starts being fear in disguise.

You don’t need more letters after your name.

You don’t need another certification.

You need the courage to sell one problem.

➕ If this hit home, follow Graham Nicholls. I write for coaches, just like you, every day.

Louise lost a coaching client to Claude.
And it stung.

15 certifications.
AI still won.

Her entire pitch was about who she was. 
Not what she built.

"I hold space." 
"I am a coach."
"I help people transform." 

The client wanted results, not sympathy.

He asked one question:
“What framework do you use?”

She didn’t have an answer.

AI exposed something most coaches didn’t want to admit:

Being a coach isn't a business model.

It's a job title.

While coaches romanticised their identity, the market bought architecture.

Documented frameworks. 
Repeatable processes. 
Measurable outcomes.

The industry taught coaches to lead with personality.

AI just accelerated what buyers were already thinking.

Clients don’t want space holders.
They want outcome builders.

So what does “architecture” actually look like?

It looks like this:

A named framework.
Clear stages.
Defined inputs and outputs.
Measurable milestones.

Not “I help you grow.”

But, this instead:

Stage 1: Understand revenue constraint.
Stage 2: Install demand.
Stage 3: Build conversion path.

Architecture is visible.

It can be drawn on a whiteboard.
It can be documented.
It can be handed to someone else and still work.

That’s the difference.

Identity needs you in the room.

Architecture works without you.

If you want to survive this shift, build:

• A repeatable methodology
• A transformation map
• A clear before/after state
• A process someone else could follow

If your value disappears when you log off, you built personality.

If it compounds while you sleep, you built structure.

AI replaces personality-led advice.

It amplifies structured thinking.

Choose which side of that line you stand on.

You can architect transformation or perform it.

Only one scales.

Markets always reward what scales.

AI didn’t kill coaching.
It exposed the coaches who never built anything more than their identity.

If this makes you uncomfortable, good.

➕ If this hits home, follow Graham Nicholls. I write for coaches, just like you, every day.

After 1,000+ paid sessions, I’ve learned this:
Coaches don't avoid money because it’s noble.

They avoid money because they’re scared of being measured.

I spent 7 years avoiding business conversations with clients.

Called it "staying focused on transformation."

It’s a beautiful narrative that keeps coaches stuck below £2k months.

The coaching industry has convinced itself that money talk is shallow.

That ROI conversations compromise the "sacred" work.

Here's where it comes from:

Coaching schools borrowed from therapy.

The idea that business talk contaminates the space.

But therapy operates in a different ecosystem.

Therapy is funded by insurance.
Coaching is funded by discretionary spend.

Discretionary spend requires visible ROI.

Different economics. Different rules.

The industry won't admit this because it's built on certification programs selling aspiration, not market reality.

They teach coaches to "hold space" but not to demonstrate value.

To "trust the process" but not to measure outcomes.

The result? Coaches who sound profound but can't articulate why anyone should pay them.

After 20+ years, here’s what I’ve learned:

The coaches getting paid track at least one measurable outcome per client.

Salary growth. Promotion rates. Retention. Cost reduction.

Coaches avoiding money conversations aren't protecting transformation.

They're protecting themselves from accountability.

It’s not philosophy.
It’s fear.

Because if you never connect your work to business outcomes, you never have to prove it worked.

And the clients? 

They're left translating coaching into business impact alone.

The ones who can't make that translation stop renewing.

The ones who can start wondering why they're paying you.

This is why coaching gets positioned as a luxury.

It’s the first budget cut when revenue dips.

And the one expense executives justify in whispers.

The industry created this by teaching coaches that money talk is beneath them.

ROI conversations are MORE ethical.

Not less.

When you can't articulate business impact, you're asking clients to buy hope.

When you avoid money metrics, you're selling faith.

The industry's money phobia isn't protecting client relationships.

It's protecting coach mediocrity.

If you can’t explain how your work leads to ROI,

it’s not transformation.

It’s theatre.

➕ If this hit home, follow Graham Nicholls. I write for coaches, just like you, every day.

Stop wasting time on your coaching business marketing plan.

Here's how to use Claude to write it in 27 minutes.

A year ago...

I watched coaches struggle with marketing.

Months of research on target audiences.

Trying to figure out their messaging.
Building funnels that never worked.

They bought course after course on "authentic marketing."

Still felt lost.

"Who's my ideal client?"
"What should my content strategy be?"
"How do I stand out in this crowded market?"

The questions never ended.

Now?

Meet Siara.

She built her complete marketing plan in 27 minutes.

Using Claude. ( claude.ai )

Complete marketing plan.
Clear ideal client profile.
Content strategy for 90 days.
Lead generation system.
Pricing strategy that converts.

Why does Claude destroy this problem?

Most AI gives you templates.

Claude creates WITH you.

It won't let you hide from the hard questions about your unique value.

It's not just more generic marketing advice.

Claude digs deeper:

It forces you to find your edge.

Here's the exact 8-step process Siara used:

Step 1: Give Claude Your Foundation

Share your coaching background, experience, and the problems you naturally spot.

Don't skip anything.

Step 2: Let Claude Interview You

It will ask about your best client results, what energises you, and where you see gaps in the market.

Answer honestly.

Step 3: Use This Power Prompt

"Based on everything I've shared, create my ideal client profile. Include their specific pain points, what they've tried before, why they're stuck, and what success looks like to them."

Step 4: Build Your Messaging Strategy

Ask Claude: "Now write my core message that speaks directly to this person's frustration and shows them a clear path forward."

Step 5: Create Your Content Framework

"Give me a 90-day content strategy with specific post ideas, topics, and angles that position me as the go-to expert for this audience."

Step 6: Design Your Lead Generation System

"Show me how to turn my content into a lead generation machine. What lead magnets, what sequences, what calls to action?"

Step 7: Build Your Pricing Strategy

"Help me create a pricing structure that reflects the transformation I deliver. What packages, what price points, what guarantees?"

Step 8: Create Your Implementation Timeline

"Give me a week-by-week action plan to launch this marketing strategy, with priorities and deadlines."

Siara's marketing plan included:

☑️ Crystal clear ideal client avatar
☑️ Unique positioning statement
☑️ 90-day content calendar
☑️ Lead magnet strategy
☑️ Email sequence framework

She spent 9 months on this before.

Never got clarity.

27 minutes with Claude?

Done.

While most coaches debate AI...

Smart ones are using it to dominate their markets.

Learn these tools.

Or disappear into the darkness.

➕ If this helped, follow Graham Nicholls. I write for coaches, just like you, every day.

A Happiness Coach for Corporate Professional Women | Happiness is Your Birthright | Transform Inner Critic | Being Seen, Heard And Respected | Choose Love Over Fear

As an NLP Happiness Coach, I empower women to release fear, reconnect with their inner wisdom, rebuild self-trust, and create a life of emotional freedom, truth, and joy.

I believe happiness isn’t something to chase; it’s a home within. 

Through gentle guidance and deep inner work, I help women let go of a thousand stories of unworthiness and meet themselves as a fuller expression of who they wish to be.

Every journey home begins with one brave step, and it always leads back to love.

For years, I believed happiness was something I had to chase. I tried to change others, hoping that would bring me the love and fulfillment I longed for. But the more I tried, the more I buried my own needs beneath guilt, self-betrayal, and quiet exhaustion.

The turning point came when I realized: no one else could walk this path for me. I had to choose it - to become the brave heart who would journey home to herself. That awakening was a blessing in disguise.

🌿 Today, I guide women who are ready to see uncertainty as opportunity, embrace imperfection as wholeness, and meet life as it is - with gratitude as their anchor.

Through NLP coaching and deeper self-reflection, I guide them in releasing fear, reclaiming their self-trust, and reconnecting with their inner wisdom - living a life of emotional freedom, truth, and joy is within reach.

I believe happiness is not a luxury - it’s our birthright. 

When we choose love, we choose peace. And when we walk this path together, we create ripples of gentleness, strength, and compassion - the very energy the world needs more of.

✨ My clients come to me when:

💧 They feel unworthy, unseen, or unloved.
💧 They’re tired of chasing approval or trapped in draining relationships.
💧 They’ve buried their dreams under fear, duty, or exhaustion.
💧 They’re ready - truly ready - to live fuller, and have no regrets.

Every journey home begins with one courageous step. Sometimes that step is as simple as a conversation.

📩 If this resonates with you, send me a message with “Brave Heart” or book a call. Let’s explore whether I am the right support on your journey toward freedom, joy, and self-trust.

Because brave hearts know - the journey home to love is the freedom they once hid from. And now, they walk toward it with gratitude, reverence, and awe.

Welcome home - sooner.

With love and light,
Eleen

Eleen (Yik Lie) Yaw - NLP Happiness Coach

On this 15th day of the Lunar New Year, when the full moon rises - symbolising completion, reunion, and wholeness - may you see that nothing in your life stands alone.

The joy and the struggle.

The gain and the loss.

The effort and the surrender.

They are not opposing forces.

They are parts of one complete circle.

Wholeness is not perfection.

It is the willingness to embrace every aspect of your life as part of your becoming.

As the first full moon of the year shines brightly, may it illuminate not only the sky above you - but also the quiet completeness within you.

And perhaps the deeper question to carry into this fullness is this:

If everything, even the imperfect, even the unfinished - is divinely placed to enrich the path you have chosen, can you allow yourself to live as though nothing is missing?

May the blessings of the Year of the Horse continue to expand your creativity, sweeten your heart, and reveal the abundance that has always been part of your wholeness.

Image credit: @gennygrevatte on Instagram

#blessings
#abundance

Eleen (Yik Lie)  Yaw - NLP Happiness Coach

Life Coach | NLP Happiness Coach | Empowering Women to Let Go, and Awaken to the Freedom of Love

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🌱 The greatest version of yourself is not behind you. 

It is unfolding steadily now, provided you don’t stand in the way.

Becoming the best version of yourself is a work in progress.

You have lived through the best and the hardest seasons of your life.

Yet the greatest version of yourself is not behind you.

It is unfolding right now.

We cannot force what is coming our way.

But we can paint images in our imagination that anchor confidence in our hearts.

Imagination is a creative power.

When we dare to dream with curiosity, playfulness, and a sense of possibility, we begin to energise the goodness we wish to experience.

But a dream remains a dream if it stays only in the mind.

Without action, nothing changes in our reality.

The past chapters of our lives cannot be rewritten.

Yet we often hold onto them tightly whether the memories are sweet or painful.

If there is one thing worth doing in this lifetime, it is this:

Live fuller with everything you can offer yourself now.

You may have already realized that constantly pleasing others while disappointing yourself is a painful trade.

It is not worth hurting yourself because someone chooses not to trust you, or decides to walk away from your life.

In time, you realize a deeper truth:

The person who has felt for you most deeply is yourself.

The pain you endured. The suffering you walked through. You carried it.

But when doubt and discouragement become the voice in your mind, they begin to crush the very spirit you are trying to heal.

The best version of yourself is discovered through experimentation - living, choosing, falling, learning, and beginning again.

Spend time caring for your well-being.

Your state of mind.

Your attitude toward life.

And the way you treat yourself.

At the end of the day, you are the one who faces what is reflected back from the world.

Energy attracts energy.

What you cultivate within will eventually return to you.

You do not need to walk someone else's path.

You are here to choose your own.

Not everyone will understand you. Not everyone will support you. Yet this is part of the wholeness of life.

Knowing this truth does not disqualify you from becoming the person you aspire to be.

Nor does it prevent you from choosing a life that truly matters to your soul and your heart.

Live fuller is not a destination.

It is a quiet commitment you renew every day.

What small action will you take today to become more of who you're aspiring to be?

Your greatest chapter isn't something you remember, it's something you're actively writing right now, with every decision you make. 💫

#imagination
#blessings

🍵 The separation heartbreak is temporary, but the memories last much longer. 

As I finished my matcha at a nearby café, I took a quiet moment for myself, trying to “download” tomorrow’s content.

The stream of ideas felt rather quiet today.

Unconsciously, I realize I'm preparing to return home, and I will miss my family here for a while.

Such hidden emotions linger, even when I try not to see them.

I've learned not to share my 'missing someone' energy with anyone, especially my parents and younger brother.

I remind myself again and again, as we send off my other siblings to the airport.

Not to shed tears, but to bless everyone with a warm, happy smile, knowing we'll see each other again next year.

The separation heartbreak is temporary, but the memories of the wonderful time spent together last much longer despite occasional tension.

Let's savour those instead.

I intentionally choose to notice the blessings that arise in awareness.

Insecurity can make a lot of noise, but I’m not brushing it aside forcefully anymore.

I choose to breathe. 

I choose to calm myself. 

I choose to speak my gratitude often.

What I entertain returns - almost unmistakably. I’m aware of that.

I remind myself that life itself - the breath, the separations, even the challenges can all be blessings when seen with an open heart.

Tapping into the circulating energy of good fortune during this auspicious Lunar New Year, I trust:

Goodness is not scarce. It is ever-present.

Nothing is missing, lacking, or disappearing from us.

These are simply moments in the season - to appreciate, embrace, and ride with steady effort and a grateful heart.

What helps you navigate goodbyes without letting heartbreak overshadow the beautiful memories you've just created?

Missing someone is proof that you were blessed to have them close. 

The ache is temporary. 

The love that created it lasts forever. ❤️

#blessings
#gratitude

🕊️ You travelled this far not because you’re lucky.

It’s because nothing here could really break or stop you from choosing how you want to live each day.

I don’t want to slip back into old habits of grumbling or feeling sad and unmotivated.

There are moments when I feel lazy or unproductive, and I let them be.

I’ve noticed that nothing impressive comes from rushing or from being unhappy.

If I want to feel good, I simply do what makes me happy.

We have yet to master the skill of being the boss of our emotions, we’re getting there.

I’ve had enough of self-pity and the longing for comfort.

I’m fortunate to have a daughter with whom I can share moments of emotional turmoil. 

She listens and never tries to educate me.

Choosing becoming is not only giving ourselves the chance to understand ourselves better through forgiveness, compassion, and guidance.

It also allows us to meet people who share that same understanding.

These are the people who will enrich our journey moving forward.

They do not lead us; they simply live the goodness their presence attracts.

We walk beside them because we are one of them.

It doesn’t mean the journey ahead will be merrier.

But we know it will get better.

We understand that the meaning of life is never about smoothness.

It is a mixture of joy and struggle.

However, the mind begins to see struggles as blessings.

And embrace them, moving through with gratitude rather than grumbling or sadness.

Unknowingly, we live fuller and happier in this self-aware and intentional work in progress.

And perhaps this is the quiet truth we’re learning to trust:

The greatest version of ourselves is not behind us.

It is slowly unfolding - each time we choose awareness over complaint, compassion over self-pity, and growth over comfort.

What lies ahead is not perfection.

But it is a wiser, freer, and more loving version of who we are becoming.

If the greatest version of you is still ahead, what are you choosing today that helps that version emerge? 🕊️

#blessings 
#becoming

🧨🧨Joy is simple - it begins with a grateful heart.

Day 8 arrives with merriment and excitement, often welcomed by the rich, lively sound of firecrackers. 

Many businesses reopen on this auspicious day, greeting the year with hopeful hearts - ready to receive the flowing energy of prosperity.

Today, I spotted this delightful prosperity cat figurine at the nail spa - perfectly in tune with the spirit of the day.

One paw gently calls in abundance and wealth, the other welcomes infinite happiness.

And the little one stands firmly upon a bucket overflowing with 福到 (fu dao) - blessings arriving, just as promised.

May this Day 8 surround you with warmth, renewal, and joyful expectancy.

I’m sending you heartfelt blessings for the year ahead - 

🧧an abundant and effortless flow of prosperity

🧧a body deeply nourished and well cared for

🧧a mind that is clear, steady, and flourishing

🧧golden opportunities that arrive naturally and are received with humility

🧧and a beautiful rhythm of giving and receiving, flowing with ease beyond what the mind can measure

May what comes to you be generous.

May what moves through you be meaningful.

May what stays with you be peace.

Wishing you a year filled not only with wealth - but with fullness of heart, quiet joy, and blessings that keep arriving… steadily, and abundantly.

恭喜發財！💰💰
Gong Xi Fa Cai 🧨🧨

Prosperity isn't just about what flows in, it's about the grace with which we receive it and share it forward. 

May your year overflow with both. 

#prosperity
#abundance

Do you enjoy being in your own company?

Unconsciously, the quality of our day is often shaped by the emotions, states of mind, and attitudes we carry from the moment we wake up.

What usually comes to your mind each morning - especially on a Monday?

Is Monday a bad day?

It depends on what you allow your mind to decide.

Dragging? Tired? Avoiding?

Or grateful, excited, and focused?

Research shows that for many people, the main motivation for showing up at work is the month-end pay. 

We often admire those who work from passion or from something that began as a hobby.

They may seem lucky.

But what we may not see is the quiet effort they invested in trusting themselves and choosing not to settle for less.

Still, the real question is this:

Can you enjoy what you have right now and begin your day with happy thoughts?

When you drink your morning coffee, do you take a moment to thank yourself for continuing to show up - or are you simply rushing while drinking it?

When you are stuck in traffic, are you complaining - or using that moment to quietly bless yourself?

When you feel left out or unappreciated, do you sabotage yourself - or pause to comfort and encourage yourself first?

These small efforts, accumulated over time, remind you why you are the most important person in your life.

What you cultivate within will reflect outwardly - sometimes in the mirror, sometimes through the way others respond to you.

One day, you may notice that you have become someone you genuinely enjoy being around.

To enjoy our own company, perhaps we simply begin here:

Less stress. More presence.

Less pointing fingers. More forgiveness.

Less self-sabotage. More clarity.

Less doubt. More self-support.

May your Monday be blessed with exactly what your heart, mind, and body need most today. 

And perhaps a gentle question to begin the day:

Are you someone you enjoy spending time with today? 🍵

#blessings
#gratitude

🌿 Healing never comes from time alone. 

It comes from your willingness to understand yourself.

You are easily bothered by what others think of you. Why?

You may believe the people around you shape your identity and opportunities.

Yet, if you never invest in yourself to feel whole and sufficient within, no external approval will ever be enough.

Sometimes we live day to day, holding onto old habits, convincing ourselves that breaking them will only make things worse.

Even when those very habits have already created deep stress.

Recently, I noticed something about myself.

I tend to explain too much.

Maybe I trust the person enough. 

Maybe it's an unconscious habit of “You must hear me out."

After stepping back, I realized this:

Not everything requires a serious explanation.

Each of us lives within our own perspective.

There is no absolute right or wrong, only varying degrees of tolerance, acceptance, and understanding.

There is no need to insist that others think as we do.

What matters more is mutual respect in intention.

With loved ones, we choose to listen - not to correct.

With others, we listen, but we don't take everything personally.

Within ourselves, we remain neutral.

We emotionally disengage when necessary - not out of coldness, but because our inner world deserves gentle preservation.

Our joy.

Our creativity.

Our peace.

These are lifelines, and we keep them safe.

When we truly understand and respect ourselves, healing happens quietly.

Past drama loses its intensity.

It passes lightly, without demanding our energy.

Simply because we are busy living well, right here, in this moment.

What old habit are you ready to release, not because someone told you to, but because you finally understand it no longer serves who you're becoming?

Healing doesn’t come from time alone.

It comes from choosing to understand yourself more deeply each day.

Day 11 of the LNY - a double of the single digit 1.

May the effort you make in pausing to reflect be rewarded with double blessings and deeper self-understanding. ❤️

#blessings
#healing

🐎 Today marks the 9th day of the Lunar New Year 

In our tradition, this day is said to symbolize lasting good fortune.

初九吉祥，福运长长久久。

💛 May good fortune flow gently, remaining with us for a long, long time.

 初九纳福，喜乐绵延不断。

💛 With grateful hearts, may we welcome peace, joy, and infinite harmony.

天公生赐福，家和万事兴。

💛 May our homes be filled with good luck and warmth, and our days guided by unceasing peace. 

福到初九，好运长流。

💛 May abundance grow not only in wealth, but also in love and meaningful connections.

As we honour this auspicious day, may gratitude ground us and blessings surround us.

Today, I pause to appreciate the abundance already around me. 

A day that reminds us: blessings are meant to last, and joy is meant to flow.

May the 9th day bring you infinite blessings, gentle luck, and a heart full of gratitude.

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