Eric Feng

Top Voice | I help trainers, coaches & entrepreneurs get paid to speak

For a long time, I did everything “right.”

Built a personal brand. Spoke on global stages. Hit milestone after milestone.

But somewhere along the way, I lost myself behind the image.

The pressure to perform. The constant proving. The silent burnout.

After a health scare in 2025, I made a quiet decision.

I still want to scale my business and influence but not at the expense of my soul.

I haven’t figured it all out yet.
But I’m building differently now.
And I’m using this space to document the journey.

If you’re a high achiever who’s starting to question the old definition of success…

If you’re ambitious but tired of hustling on empty…

If you're craving more peace, purpose, and meaning in how you build your businesses...

You’re not alone.
Let's walk this out together.

Content Creator

With 200K+ following on Facebook and 51K on Instagram, I have been using these platforms to share my knowledge on sales, marketing and branding. Target audience are service professionals who market directly to consumers (B2C).

Eric Feng (CSP) - Global Speaker

I walked away from a career I spent 20 years building without knowing what would replace it.

That’s what “willing” looked like for me.

When I was told that my REAL mission wasn’t branding or professional speaking even though I was good at it, I was asked one simple question:

“Now that you’re aware of your 天命… are you willing?”

My deeper work, I was told, is to awaken people.
To raise their consciousness.
To build platforms and systems that help others fulfill their own calling.

I didn’t fully understand how.

But I said yes.

And “yes” meant action.

I deleted 7 years of social media content.
I stepped away from my professional speaking path.
I ended old business partnerships.

I did all this with no backup plan, no guaranteed next move and nothing to fall back on.

Just trust.

I was told that if I stepped into what I was supposed to do, the help I needed would come.

A month later, an ex-university classmate I hadn’t spoken to in almost twenty years reached out.

We met.

Weeks later, I found myself in Fukuoka meeting Marie Kondo, the globally renowned tidying expert behind the Netflix series Tidying Up, followed by over 4 million people worldwide.

She and her husband were building the Joy Movement.
And I was invited to be part of the core team.

Completely aligned!

Awakening people.
Spreading joy.
Building something larger than myself.

And then more “miracles” followed which will be more stories for another day.

But here’s what really changed for me the day I decided to do what I am supposed to do on earth.

Conviction returned.
Flow returned.
Joy returned.

Not because life became easy (newsflash: I still have my challenges)

But because I stopped building a life that wasn’t truly mine.

Looking back, the stagnation, the dissatisfaction, even the six-figure scam, they weren’t punishment.

They were redirection.

If you are 天命人, you cannot sustainably play small.
Eventually, life will disrupt what is comfortable.

And in a Fire Horse year, known for intensity, bold shifts, and forcing change, misalignment doesn’t stay hidden for long.

So please don't wait for life to force your hand. 

If you know you’re 天命人, this is your line in the sand.

Step into your bigger mission!

Comment “READY.”
And watch what moves toward you when you do.

#innerwork #awakeningachiever #天命人

Documenting my journey of scaling without losing my soul

Things that don’t matter in your 30s
(from a 45-year-old who has been there).

I just turned 45.

If I could speak to my 30-year-old self, here’s what I would say:
There are five things that don’t matter as much as you think.

1. Being popular.

Popularity is flaky at best. It comes and goes depending on your success, your relevance, your usefulness. The moment something goes wrong, watch how quickly praise turns into distance or worse, gossip. And the more popular you become, the more jealousy you attract. You don’t need that distraction when you’re still building.

2. Being right all the time.

You don’t have to win every argument just to feel good about yourself. Most people don’t change their minds because you argue better. Pride gets in the way. All you do is drain energy and risk damaging relationships you may need later. Sometimes it’s wiser to stay silent and let results speak.

3. Avoiding failure to protect your ego.

Your 30s are the best time to make mistakes. This is where you gain real experience, the kind that prepares you for bigger responsibilities later. Don’t let early success make you play safe. In your 30s, you’re still allowed to experiment. That window doesn’t last forever.

4. Keeping up with lifestyle inflation.

When income increases, lifestyle often follows immediately - luxury condo, sports car, branded everything. It feels like progress. But many people in their 30s are upgrading expenses, not building wealth. They look successful but are financially fragile. Freedom in your 40s and 50s depends on discipline in your 30s. Invest. Build assets. Create options. Image impresses strangers. Assets protect your future.

5. Trying to figure everything out.

There’s pressure in your 30s to “have it together.” Career path. Marriage. Kids. Investments. Five-year plan. Ten-year plan. But you are going to live a long life. Your 30s are just one chapter. Don’t rush to appear settled and lose the joy of discovery.

And stop asking everyone how you should live your life. Most people project their own fears and regrets onto you even if they mean well.

Your 30s are for building useful skills. Gaining real experiences. Expanding your network. Accumulating resources. And most importantly, getting to know yourself - your strengths, your weaknesses, your values, your purpose.

Because when you reach your 40s, you don’t want to still be experimenting with identity. You want to spend the next decade building something aligned with who you truly are, not who you were trying to impress.

If you could give your 30-year-old self one piece of advice, what would it be?

Photo on left: Me in my 30s
Photo on right: Me in my 40s

#lifeinyour30s #lessonslearned

At 35, she lost all her hair, eyebrows and eyelashes.

What happened next changed her life - and the lives of thousands of professionals she now helps.

This International Women’s Day, I want to spotlight Xi Ren Yang, one of the speakers we groom at Experts in Asia.

At the time, Xi Ren was a successful HR leader.

From the outside, everything looked fine.

But the intense stress she had been carrying eventually triggered Alopecia, causing her to lose all her hair.

That experience became a turning point.

Instead of hiding, she chose to rebuild her life around a new mission: helping professionals manage stress, build resilience, and thrive - not just survive.

Today, Xi Ren is an award-winning consultant and keynote speaker whose sessions have helped 80%+ of participants reduce stress within just one hour using her CARE Framework.

I recently had the privilege of interviewing her on the #ExpertsInAsia podcast, where she shared how leaders and organisations can build resilient teams in today’s high-pressure world.

If you’d like to watch the full podcast interview, DM me and I’ll send it to you.

Happy (belated) International Women’s Day to all the women who turn adversity into purpose!

#InternationalWomensDay #IWD2026

Last August, someone I trusted said to me, "Eric, your time is running out.’”

Not in a dying way.
But in a destiny way.

Let me explain.

Many of us (you too!) are born with a God-given mission.

No, it may not be your current career. 
And no, it is also not some role that our society rewards.

It is a unique task that only you can fulfill in this lifetime.

Think about every hero story:

Neo in The Matrix. 
Moses. 
Even characters like Naruto or Luffy.

They were different.
They didn’t fully fit in.
And they were all called to something bigger.

They are all people with a calling (or in mandarin, we say 天命人).

Now here’s the part people don’t talk about.

If you don’t use your gifts for what they were meant for, they get taken away.

It’s like the Parable of the Talents in the Bible.
The servant who buried his gift lost it.
The ones who used theirs were given more.

Back to my story.

When I met Huiteng (who can read into people's life missions), she told me, "Eric, you are good at branding and speaking. But you are not using your gifts for what they were actually given to you for.”

That hit. 

I was succeeding.
But I didn’t feel fulfilled.

There was always this feeling… like something was missing, but I couldn’t name it.

Then she said something really drastic, “If you don’t step into your real mission, life will disrupt what is comfortable until you do.”

It already did for almost two years.

I lost passion for the work I used to love.
Money didn’t come as easily as before.
Problems in my professional and personal life started stacking up.
I even got scammed six figures.

Looking back, I realize it wasn’t punishment.
It was redirection.

So if you too have been feeling stuck, restless or things keep falling apart for no clear reason…

Maybe you’re not unlucky.
Maybe you’re just misaligned.

And life is trying to move you toward what you were actually meant to do.

In my next post, I’ll share the clear signs that you might be called for a greater purpose i.e. 天命人.

For now, tell me, "Have you ever felt like you were meant for more, but couldn’t explain why?"

Pic: Huiteng (extreme left) who can read into people's life missions. 

#innerwork #awakeningachiever #天命人

Why do hateful comments hurt more on some days than others?

I recently came across an old interview with Anne Hathaway (video below) where she spoke about dealing with online hate.

At first, she was deeply affected by the criticism.
Later, she realised why.

Because she hadn’t learned to fully love herself yet.

In her words: “If you don’t love yourself, when someone says horrible things, a part of you is always going to believe them.”

That line stayed with me which inspired this morning's post. 

Hate only lands where there is a "soft spot".

If someone insults you about something you’re completely secure in, it barely registers.

But if they touch an insecurity you already carry, even lightly, it stings.

For example, if someone calls me “fat,” it wouldn’t affect me. I know it’s not true. And even if it were, weight has never been my insecurity.

But if someone commented on my hairline a year ago?

That would have hurt because that was something I had been insecure about for a long time.

Now that I’ve addressed it and feel secure about it, the same comment wouldn’t land the same way.

This is why inner work is so important! 

Not to silence your critics.
But to strengthen the parts of you that still feel fragile.

So the next time you receive a criticism that affects you, instead of asking, “How do I shut them up?”

Ask, “Why did that affect me?”

That question will change more than any argument ever will.

Watch Anne’s clip below.
It explains this far better than I can.

And after you watch the clip below, share with me one criticism that used to affect you but no longer does.

#haters #AnneHathaway #innerwork

5 Signs You’re Not Meant For An Ordinary Life
(You might be 天命人)

Pay attention to the final sign.

1. You never fully felt like you belong.

Even when you fit in, you feel slightly different.
Like you’re observing the world more than blending into it.

You can function in society.
But deep down, you know you’re not here to just fit in.

2. Your life has been unusually hard.

Not normal challenges.
But intense seasons. Pressure. Loss. Setbacks.
Almost like you’ve been trained through adversity.

3. Success doesn’t fully satisfy you.

Even when things look good.
Even when others think you’ve made it.

There’s still a quiet voice saying,
“Something is still missing.”

4. You have natural abilities you can’t explain.

You read people easily.
You sense energy shifts instantly.
People trust you quickly.
Your words carry unusual weight.
Things that feel normal to you but don’t to others.

5. You can’t get away with playing small.

When you settle for superficial success…

Energy drains.
Flow slows.
Things fall apart.

Ordinary success feels empty.

If these signs resonate with you, you might be 天命人: someone called to a bigger purpose.

But here’s the part no one tells you.

If you don’t use your God-given gifts for your REAL mission…

Passion drops.
Flow slows.
Disruptions increase.
Things stop feeling smooth.
Dissatisfaction grows.

Rest assured, it's not punishment.
It’s a wake-up call.

If you’re serious about finding out whether you are 天命人, don’t just scroll past this.

Comment “ME.”

Let’s confirm it!

#innerwork #awakeningachiever #天命人

How do you deal with haters... without losing your peace?

Let’s be honest.

Being talked about behind your back hurts.
Especially when you’ve done nothing wrong.

But inner work can change how you interpret it.

Here’s what I’ve learned over the years of dealing with my haters (and gossipers).

1. When they criticise you, it reveals more about them than you. 

When someone speaks negatively about you, it often reveals their insecurity more than your identity. What sounds like an attack may actually be envy, fear, comparison, or unresolved pain speaking.

Before you absorb it as truth, ask yourself: Is this really about me… or their unresolved pain?

2. Not everyone deserves your defence.

If someone chooses to talk ABOUT you instead of TO you, that tells you something about their maturity.

People who value truth will come to you for clarification.
People who value drama will gather an audience.

Before you rush to explain yourself, ask: Is this a conversation worth having or just noise not worth entering?

3. Your trigger is your teacher.

If their words sting deeply, pause.

Strong reactions often point to something tender inside you. Sometimes criticism hurts because it touches an insecurity that hasn’t fully healed.

Before blaming them, ask: What part of me still needs assurance or growth?

4. Protect your energy, not your image.

Trying to control how everyone sees you will exhaust you. In fact, the more you chase acceptance, the more power you give away (to them).

Reputation lives in other people’s minds.
Character lives in your daily actions.

Before defending your name in future, ask: Am I protecting my reputation… or my peace?

5. Let your integrity outlast the noise.

You cannot out-talk gossip. But you can outgrow it.

Consistency exposes exaggeration.
Time exposes truth.

Before responding, ask: Will this matter in a year or is my ego just uncomfortable today?

The truth is no one truly “hates” you.

They are just reacting to what you represent, what you trigger, or what they haven’t resolved in themselves.

So instead of silencing your critics, you are better of learning how to master your response to your critics.

While we are on this topic, what is your personal rule when dealing with criticism or gossip?

#haters #innerwork

Some of the most successful people I know are deeply unfulfilled.
Not because they failed.

But because they succeeded at the wrong thing.

Career is going well.
Income is stable.
People around them think they’ve “made it”.

Yet there’s a quiet feeling inside that refuses to go away:
“This can’t be all I’m here for.”

If you’ve ever felt this, you’re not alone!

A few days ago someone asked me a question many people secretly are asking too: “How do you know if there’s something bigger you’re meant to do?”

From what I’ve seen, clarity about your deeper calling usually comes in two ways.

1. Honest conversations with yourself

Questions most people avoid:
- If money wasn’t an issue, what would I actually want to do with my life?
- If my life were a movie, what story would I want it to tell?

These questions sound simple.

But when answered honestly, they reveal what your soul actually cares about.

2. The right guidance

Sometimes we need someone who can see what we cannot see ourselves.

Not someone who decides our path.

But someone who can help reveal:
- your natural gifts
- your patterns
- the direction your life energy seems to be moving toward

Even then, clarity rarely arrives all at once.

It grows through movement.

The only thing you really need at the start is WILLINGNESS!

The willingness to move when you feel the pull.

And the COURAGE to take the first step before everything makes sense.

Each step then becomes feedback.

You ask yourself:
- Did this make me feel alive?
- Did this create something meaningful for others?

If yes, you keep moving.

Even setbacks become part of the path.

Looking back at my own journey, some of the hardest moments eventually became the experiences that shaped the work I now feel most aligned with.

Nothing was wasted.

So if you’ve been feeling that quiet pull lately…
Please don’t ignore it.

Sometimes that feeling is the beginning of your real life work calling you forward.

Quick pulse check:
Which one describes you right now?

1️⃣ I feel there’s something bigger I’m meant to do
2️⃣ I’m starting to figure out what it is
3️⃣ I’m already building toward it

Comment 1, 2 or 3.

#innerwork #awakeningachiever #天命人

Most people don’t burn out from failure.
They burn out from succeeding at the wrong life.

If you’re doing well on paper but something feels off inside, read this post. 

Here are 7 signs you are succeeding but losing yourself. 
(see pictures below)

Be honest: how many hit you?
Comment the number.

#scalewithsoul #awakeningachiever

NLP & Enneagram | Built a thriving FA practice | Now Helping Others Do the Same | Branch Director at AscenXio.sg [PIAS] | Host of the CPF Subject Webinar

🚀 Are you an aspiring leader who wants to build a lean, profitable FA business you actually enjoy?

This is where we come in. 

When your advisors leverage our:

- AI powered ecosystem with leads support
- transitional package of up to 200% to ease the switch
- mentorship that integrates NLP and Enneagram techniques

↳ they will cross the $150k income mark easily in their very 1st year.

All without:
✘ Burning thousands on roadshows
✘ Cold-knocking doors or chasing strangers
✘ Awkwardly pitching friends over coffee

The possibilities are endless when they follow the system we’ve built.

👉 Here’s a sneak peek:  https://lnkd.in/gBzBahKF

⸻

A bit about me:

Over the past decade, I’ve guided our branch’s clients with empathetic, values driven advice.

Here’s what that has translated into:

→ Securing over $200M in life coverage
→ Managing $30M+ SGD of funds across annuities and unit trust.

Some personal milestones:
→ Achieving Top of the Table in just 7 months
→ $500k APE in a month
→ $7M SPI in a single month

I’ve also had the privilege of building and leading 3 high-performing teams at Income, GE, and PIAS

Then in 2021, everything changed.

I found out my dad had cancer.

At the same time, my mum’s heart condition worsened.

So I stepped away. No hesitation.

For two years, I focused fully on my family.

And I’m thankful this career gave me the freedom to do that.

By the start of 2024, they recovered.

And honestly, so did I.

Mentally. Emotionally. Professionally.

I returned with more clarity and focus.

And rebuilt everything from scratch.

Not just my team and production.

But my purpose too.

Today, I lead a boutique branch at PIAS — one of the largest FA firms in Singapore.

We may not have the flash of mega agencies or branches.

But what sets us apart is really simple:

We focus on what matters.

→ Helping each advisor grow the right way, one step at a time

⸻

What makes our branch different?

✅ Most of our advisors double their production in 12 months since joining us
✅ Almost 70% of our advisors are on track to become MDRT qualifiers this year
✅ We don’t just talk about mentorship, we back it up with real guidance through Joint Field Work.
✅ We provide you with qualified leads and polished tools to support meaningful client conversations.

You’ll also get:

- Weekly real world case studies from MDRT/COT/TOT leaders
- Plug-and-play first class presentation kits, calculators, and tools
- A proven LinkedIn system to build your brand and team
- A cohesive team culture that puts your growth first 

⸻

If something here resonates, let’s chat.


🇸🇬 Eng Lee Ho [CFP® • TOT • COT]

“You can work hard on your JOB and make a living.

You can work hard on yourself and make a fortune.”

Most people are exhausted…

…because they’re chasing income instead of increasing value.

Working harder feels productive.

It rarely is.

You can:

➤ answer more emails
➤ take more meetings
➤ fill every hour

…and still earn the same next year.

Because the market doesn’t pay for effort.

It pays for impact.

Value has only two levers.

What you deliver.

- Your product. 
- Your advice. 
- Your solution.

Who you are.

- Your judgement. 
- Your communication. 
- Your ability to stay calm when decisions get expensive.

Most people only upgrade the first.

Top performers upgrade the second.

That’s why two advisors can sit in the same room…

Same product.

Same client profile.

Same opportunity.

One closes. One doesn’t.

Skill compounds.

Busyness doesn’t.

If you want a different income next year, stop asking:

“How can I work more?”

Start asking:

What must I become so the market has no choice but to pay me more?





::
:::::
:::::::::
:::::::::::::::

Ever wonder how top producers can close deals so easily while seemingly having all the time in the world?

Join my latest webinar here as I unveal some of these communication and closing secrets:

📍 12 & 26 Feb 2026 | Thur | 11AM–1PM
💰 SGD 99 only

👉 Register here: https://lnkd.in/gvPSUMQu

———

📷 Source: Jim Rohn

#Lbfalumni
#WeAreAscenXio
#Skyhightower

________

Hi, I’m Eng Lee 🚀 

I work with FAs, agents, & bankers who want to 3X their production through expert positioning and strategies that resonate with higher quality clients.

On our platform, you will get to leverage a 100% Free Ai-powered CRM system that saves you hundreds of hours each year.

➤  Allowing you to focus on client relationships and growth while the system nurtures them. 

I also share one practical communication and positioning insight daily on my Telegram channel.

➤ [Channel link in comments]

If you’re curious how this could work for you, I’m happy to offer a complimentary 60 minute conversation to walk through your current situation & the transitional allowance options available.

Simply Drop me a message or WhatsApp me at [9021 8427] 📮

🇸🇬 Eng Lee Ho [NLP • TOT • CFP® • FSD]

🍞 Funny how one simple breakfast can outlive a lifetime of expensive gifts.

Some of my clearest childhood memories go back to the early 1990s.

My Papa used to bring me for kaya butter toast.

Nothing fancy.

Just an old market.

Facing the sea.

Before the land reclamation.

In the wee hours of morning, the place will come alive.

- Crowded.
- Noisy.
- Warm.

The toast was cut into small cubes.

Served with toothpicks.

I loved it.

The elderly stall owner was called 阿坤.

My Papa use to call him “Bok Koon” affectionately.

After eating, I would always ask to walk by the sea.

Just a small boy.

Holding his father’s hand.

Years later, I found out that place was the Telok Ayer Transit Food Centre.

A temporary home for vendors when Lau Pa Sat closed for MRT works.

My Papa told me he used to visit the same stall when he was young.

Three generations. 

Same toast.

Here’s what hit me.

Papa gave me many gifts growing up.

To be honest, I barely remember them.

But those simple breakfasts?

Crystal clear.

These days, when I bring my own boy to Ya Kun…

I find myself telling him the same story.

About the sea.

About “Bok Koon”.

About his grandfather.

He’s heard it many times.

But that’s the point.

Because kids don’t remember what you spend.

They remember what you share.

Were you from that era too?

Or what’s one childhood moment you still remember clearly? ⬇️ 






::
:::::
:::::::::
:::::::::::::::

★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★

The right words can move millions. Learn how to use them.

Let me help you unlock your potential through masterful communication and my closing secrets.

Join my webinar:
📍 12 & 26 Feb 2026 | Thur | 11AM–1PM
💰 SGD 99 only

👉 Register here: https://lnkd.in/gvPSUMQu

———

📷 Source: self

________

Hi, I’m Eng Lee 🚀 

I work with FAs, agents, & bankers who want to 3X their production through expert positioning and strategies that resonate with higher quality clients.

On our platform, you will get to leverage a 100% Free Ai-powered CRM system that saves you hundreds of hours each year.

➤  Allowing you to focus on client relationships and growth while the system nurtures them. 

I also share one practical communication and positioning insight daily on my Telegram channel.

➤ [Channel link in comments]

If you’re curious how this could work for you, I’m happy to offer a complimentary 60 minute conversation to walk through your current situation & the transitional allowance options available.

Simply Drop me a message or WhatsApp me at [9021 8427].

🚀Are you 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 onto the right 𝘁𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 of gratitude?

Somewhere…

…there’s an older version of you quietly clapping for how far you’ve come.

I saw this play out with someone I met.

Let’s call her Rebecca.

She was in her 50s.

Nearly 30 years in the same company.

When we first spoke, she told me:

“I will never leave this job. I love my company.”

Then out of a sudden. 

Retrenchment hit.

The job disappeared.

Just like that.

Not just income gone.

Identity gone.

Routine gone.

Colleagues gone.

Her entire world… reset.

She was scared.

“What can I even do at this age?”

Six months later, we spoke again.

Different voice. Different energy.

“Eng Lee… I don’t think I ever want to go back to corporate.”

Why?

She had started freelancing.

It was tough. 

Still uncertain.

But she said something I’ll never forget:

“For the first time, I feel like I’m truly working for my clients… and for myself.”

She rediscovered something simple.

Talking to people.

Listening to their stories.

Reconnecting with what mattered.

That moment reminded me of a line:

In corporate life, you’re useful… until you’re not.

And it made me wonder:

What if the retrenchment never forced that reset?

Would she still be stuck thinking comfort meant security?

Since then, I’ve made this a quiet habit in my conversations:

➤ ask people what truly matters to them
➤ ask what they would do if fear wasn’t the blocker
➤ ask what version of life they actually want

Because self discovery shouldn’t need a crisis.

Sometimes it just needs the right question.

So here’s mine for you today:

👉 If nothing forced you to change… would you still choose the life you’re living now?






::
:::::
:::::::::
:::::::::::::::

★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★

The right words can move millions. Learn how to use them.

Let me help you unlock your potential through masterful communication and my closing secrets.

Join my webinar:
📍 12 & 26 Feb 2026 | Thur | 11AM–1PM
💰 SGD 99 only

👉 Register here: https://lnkd.in/gvPSUMQu

———

📷 Source: self

________

Hi, I’m Eng Lee 🚀 

I work with FAs, agents, & bankers who want to 3X their production through expert positioning and strategies that resonate with higher quality clients.

On our platform, you will get to leverage a 100% Free Ai-powered CRM system that saves you hundreds of hours each year.

➤  Allowing you to focus on client relationships and growth while the system nurtures them. 

I also share one practical communication and positioning insight daily on my Telegram channel.

➤ [Channel link in comments]

If you’re curious how this could work for you, I’m happy to offer a complimentary 60 minute conversation to walk through your current situation & the transitional allowance options available.

Simply Drop me a message or WhatsApp me at [9021 8427].

🚀 Be like a Tree

𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 is truly the first step.

Particularly as I become older.

I increasingly realize that self-confidence is 𝙩𝙝𝙚 game changer. 

YES, even when one loses everything and need to start from zero again. 

He can lose everything but his Confidence. 

I recently spoke to a self-confessed introvert who [really wants to step out of his comfort zone].

↳ By moving into a sales role. 

But he's worried. Why?

Because he feels Introverts are quieter in nature. 

And that he brings [silence] to most social settings 😅

But that cannot be further from the truth. 

On the contrary, I think being an introvert is a Big PLUS!

Because we tend to be good listeners too! 

There is a reason you can spell [LISTEN] from [SILENT]😏

My advice to him is to not pass judgment on himself before even starting. 

No one can destroy a person, but only his self-esteem (lack of) and mindset can.

The key to a successful mind relies not upon what 𝙞𝙩 thinks, but rather on 𝙝𝙤𝙬 it thinks. 

Here are some negative thoughts which I am cautiously mindful of :

- dwelling on past events 
- lack of belief in ourselves 
- letting negativity overwhelm you 
- constantly comparing with others 
- too conscious of how others think of us

I ended the conversation by citing:

“Be like a child. Imagine what is possible and pursue your dreams fearlessly. 

The world is still a good place when we believe it to be.”

What is your take? ⬇️





::
:::::
:::::::::
:::::::::::::::

★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★

The right words can move millions. Learn how to use them.

Let me help you unlock your potential through masterful communication and my closing secrets.

Join my webinar:
📍 12 & 26 Feb 2026 | Thur | 11AM–1PM
💰 SGD 99 only

👉 Register here: https://lnkd.in/gvPSUMQu

———

📷 Source: self

________

Hi, I’m Eng Lee 🚀 

I work with FAs, agents, & bankers who want to 3X their production through expert positioning and strategies that resonate with higher quality clients.

On our platform, you will get to leverage a 100% Free Ai-powered CRM system that saves you hundreds of hours each year.

➤  Allowing you to focus on client relationships and growth while the system nurtures them. 

I also share one practical communication and positioning insight daily on my Telegram channel.

➤ [Channel link in comments]

If you’re curious how this could work for you, I’m happy to offer a complimentary 60 minute conversation to walk through your current situation & the transitional allowance options available.

Simply Drop me a message or WhatsApp me at [9021 8427].

🚀 You know how athletes watch game tape to improve?

Advisors can now do the same thing with AI.

With client approval, I’ve been using Plaud AI to transcribe real client and prospect meetings.

Not role plays.

Not theory.

Real conversations.

After each meeting, I run the transcript through AI and score myself on key areas using a simple scale:

➤ rapport and trust building (1–10)
➤ clarity of pain point discovery (1–10)
➤ handling of objections (1–10)
➤ how closely I stayed aligned to my ideal conversation flow (1–10)

The AI then highlights:

➤ where I did well
➤ where I lost momentum
➤ where I missed opportunities

And gives suggestions on how the next meeting can be sharper.

Here’s what surprised me.

The feedback is very specific.

Not “do better at rapport.”

But where rapport dropped.

Not “handle objections better.”

But which question triggered resistance.

No more guessing:

➤ why a prospect didn’t move forward
➤ whether trust was actually built
➤ if the issue was clarity, timing, or energy

It’s like watching game tape, but for conversations.

This isn’t about replacing advisors.

It’s about seeing what we’re too close to notice.

And improving one meeting at a time.

If you could score your last meeting honestly,

what would you want to improve first?





📷 Source: self

________

Hi, I’m Eng Lee 🚀 

I work with FAs, agents, & bankers who want to 3X their production through expert positioning and strategies that resonate with higher quality clients.

On our platform, you will get to leverage a 100% Free Ai-powered CRM system that saves you hundreds of hours each year.

➤  Allowing you to focus on client relationships and growth while the system nurtures them. 

I also share one practical communication and positioning insight daily on my Telegram channel.

➤ [Channel link in comments]

If you’re curious how this could work for you, I’m happy to offer a complimentary 60 minute conversation to walk through your current situation & the transitional allowance options available.

Simply Drop me a message or WhatsApp me at [9021 8427

🚀 At 1am, with no cars on the road… 
She still waited for the green man.

Empty street.

No traffic.

No one watching.

He could have crossed.

Nothing would have happened.

But he didn’t.

He waited.

And it hit me.

That’s what good habits look like.

They don’t depend on convenience or supervision. 

They show up automatically.

Here’s the dangerous part.

Good habits reward you immediately.

A quiet sense of discipline.

A small internal win.

On the other hand, Bad habits feel harmless.

Skip one workout.

Overspend a little.

Cut one small corner.

Nothing breaks today.

That’s why they’re dangerous.

Because the penalty is delayed.

And delayed consequences are easy to ignore.

Until one day, they’re no longer small.

The man wasn’t waiting for the cars.

He was protecting his standards.

And standards are built in moments
when breaking them would have been easier.

The truth is , most failures are due to our habits.

So be very honest to yourself.

What’s one small habit you know you need to fix… before it compounds?





::
:::::
:::::::::
:::::::::::::::

★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★

The right words can move millions. Learn how to use them.

Let me help you unlock your potential through masterful communication and my closing secrets.

Join my webinar:
📍 12 & 26 Feb 2026 | Thur | 11AM–1PM
💰 SGD 99 only

👉 Register here: https://lnkd.in/gvPSUMQu

———

📷 Source: iG

________

Hi, I’m Eng Lee 🚀 

I work with FAs, agents, & bankers who want to 3X their production through expert positioning and strategies that resonate with higher quality clients.

On our platform, you will get to leverage a 100% Free Ai-powered CRM system that saves you hundreds of hours each year.

➤  Allowing you to focus on client relationships and growth while the system nurtures them. 

I also share one practical communication and positioning insight daily on my Telegram channel.

➤ [Channel link in comments]

If you’re curious how this could work for you, I’m happy to offer a complimentary 60 minute conversation to walk through your current situation & the transitional allowance options available.

Simply Drop me a message or WhatsApp me at [9021 8427

taplio

The Battle

Eric Feng (CSP) - Global Speaker

🇸🇬 Eng Lee Ho [CFP® • TOT • COT]

Followers

Posts

Engagements

Likes

Performance ScoreEric Feng (CSP) - Global Speaker's LinkedIn Performance

Performance Score🇸🇬 Eng Lee Ho [CFP® • TOT • COT]'s LinkedIn Performance

Ready to grow your LinkedIn presence?

taplio

The Battle

Eric Feng (CSP) - Global Speaker

🇸🇬 Eng Lee Ho [CFP® • TOT • COT]

Followers

Posts

Engagements

Likes

Performance Score.css-goub6s{font-size:var(--chakra-fontSizes-md);font-weight:500;color:var(--chakra-colors-gray-600);display:block;margin-top:var(--chakra-space-1);}Eric Feng (CSP) - Global Speaker's LinkedIn Performance

Performance Score🇸🇬 Eng Lee Ho [CFP® • TOT • COT]'s LinkedIn Performance

Ready to grow your LinkedIn presence?

Performance ScoreEric Feng (CSP) - Global Speaker's LinkedIn Performance