Hi! I'm David. I help founders and community leaders navigate big trials, decisions, and transitions. Together, we help you discover the work you love, be exceptional at what you do, and live a richer and more fulfilling life.

Why work with *me*? So glad you asked! 

My intention is for my clients to get a 10X ROI from coaching, so we want to be clear on your goals, which could include things like:

1. Restructure your business for profitability
2. Facilitate a big change in culture
3. Step down from your role and find your next chapter
4. Become a 10x better team manager
5. Navigate cofounder conflict and misalignment

My approach is a balance of inner work and outer strategy. What that looks like in practice:

1️⃣ Depth + Inner Work

We identify the patterns and beliefs that are keeping you stuck and stressed, while building your capacity to stay grounded under pressure. We will bring in proven practices for inner work, presence, nervous system management, emotional fluidity, and radical self-inquiry.

2️⃣ Strategic Planning and Operations

I’ve been a founder 4x, scaled CMX to a global network, led it through an acquisition, managed teams, published a book, burned out, and rebuilt myself through deep inner work and leadership development.

3️⃣ Relational Fitness and Community Design

All work is relational in nature, whether we’re collaborating, leading, managing, or serving. I’ve spent my career studying how humans connect, how cultures emerge, and how to create thriving communities.

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Here's what my clients have said about our work together:

"David is the most special kind of coach. I don’t even know how to describe him to people. His ability to listen, REALLY listen, and gently challenge me with thoughtful questions is unlike any coach I’ve ever worked with. Working with David opened up a whole new world of self-discovery and growth for me. It was an absolute honor.” 
– Danielle Letayf, CEO and Founder, Badassery

“I cannot overstate how helpful David Spinks has been as my exec coach. If you’re in need of a mentor who can unearth your own wisdom when it’s needed, but also tell you what works and what doesn’t when that’s appropriate, he is THE guy.”
— Greg Larkin, Founder, Punks and Pinstripes

“I’ve worked with a lot of consultants in all types of different areas of focus, and working with David was the most interesting and meaningful work I’ve done.” 
- Devin Gage, Founder and CEO, Gage Strength Training

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Head to davidspinks.com to get in touch and book a free intro session.

David Spinks

we did a thing! on sunday, my wife and i hosted a potluck brunch for all the neighbors on our block. some highlights and reflections:

- we just moved here 9 months ago, so we hadn't met everyone yet and thought this would be a fun way to connect + get everyone out of hibernation.

- we went old school, created a flyer (so easy with ai!), printed those suckers out and hand delivered them to the 12 houses on our block (and one house on the next block over because we really like them). 

- the old lady on the corner was the NICEST person ever and her carrot cake stole the show

- we're going to garden together this spring (her front garden is god-level)

- there are THREE jewtalian couples on our block (my wife is italian, i'm jewish)

- we learned a ton about our block and neighborhood's history, how trees were planted, parking battles with the middle school, gossip about neighbors who used to live in our house... all the good stuff

- there were neighbors who have lived here for decades and HADN'T MET EACH OTHER 🤯

- our next door neighbor saw we had a vinyl player and came back with a sealed raffi vinyl from like a hundred years ago to give to the kids

- there's an older asian couple who lives on the corner that no one had really met. their english is so-so. we weren't sure they'd come and had all but given up hope when they walked in the door in the final half hour. people literally cheered when they walked in with a tray full of egg rolls. it was amazing.

- it was wholesome af. like mr. rogers-level wholesome.

- i made shakshuka and alison made pumpkin pancakes. not really a reflection, i just wanted you to know.

- most people brought desserts and i'm not mad about it. neither are my kids who have been spoiled by the leftover cakes all week

- everyone texted us after saying how lovely it was and thanking us for hosting. i sent them the group picture

- i'm going to put the group picture on the flyer next year to create FOMO for all the neighbors that couldn't make it this time

- several houses offered to host the next gathering in the spring. there's even talk of starting a block party this summer 🤭

i had several moments where i almost didn't follow through on doing this because i felt cringe-y. but i'm so happy we did it. i felt so filled up afterward. this is what we longed for when we moved to the suburbs. and i'm proud of us for helping create it.

so take this as inspiration. gather your neighbors! be cringe-y! make weird flyers with talking pancakes on them! make sure to invite the weird neighbor no one talks to because they're probably awesome! 

and eat carrot cake every day. it's good for the soul.

🌀 david spinks

i help you discover your innate enoughness. i also post unhinged thoughts on linkydinky. davidspinks.com

shout out to alex. alex is a man. but not any man. alex is a man who said hi to a stranger at a coffee shop...

that stranger was me. 

he saw me journaling with pen and paper. 

and he said, "that's awesome man."

and as i looked up and into his eyes, i could see the genuine awe he was experiencing. the joy of seeing another man who appreciates the magic of ink and leather-bound lined paper as much as he does. 

"thanks man", i replied with a smile, dropping into the same field of joy of a new relationship founded on similar values. 

but then i hesitated. "what if he's creepy?" i thought to myself. "i don't want to be stuck in a conversation with a creepy guy."

the joy disappeared. i scanned him up and down, collecting as much information as i could, gauging the threat of uncomfortable conversation i was potentially stepping into. 

here i was, a man who talks a big game on the internet about community and connecting with neighbors, and i was balking. 

i took the leap. 

"do you like journaling too?"

game on. alex played it cool but i could tell he was doing a little dance inside. 

we talked for a good 20 minutes. sat a table apart, a safe distance for any spontaneous coffee shop chat. 

we discussed journaling, books (he had one about spotify with him), kids (we both have three, his are older and went through the same schools my kids are just starting in), ai (because how could we not?) the gyms we both go to across the street...

all in, it was a 10/10 spontaneous coffee shop conversation. had everything you'd hope for. and most of all, wasn't creepy at all. 

he had to go. "i'm alex" he said. "david" i replied. 

we didn't exchange info. we knew we didn't need to. "i'll probably see you here again" he said. "for sure" i agreed. this wouldn't be my last spontaneous coffee chop chat with alex. we both gave "we come here often" vibes. 

our paths are sure to cross again. they always do, when you say hi to neighbors.

this post from Patricia Mou the single best collection of community lessons i've ever read. not exaggerating...

what patricia shares here puts words to so much of what has been bubbling in my head, but i've struggled to articulate anywhere close to this eloquently. 

these are the core lessons i've learned from my experiences, successes, and failures (oh so many failures) building community as well. 

community builders internalizing these lessons would shift the world, in a big way, toward truth, beauty, and goodness. 

go read it!! the full post goes into more depth on each of these lessons: https://lnkd.in/eQNBJCNF

every night at dinner my kids have been asking for one thing:

"hey dad, can you do mr. ketchup?"

so i go to the fridge and get the ketchup out.

his mouth is the cap and he has full-on conversations with my kids. i disappear. they are only talking to him.

my daughter always kicks off with the same question. "hey mr. ketchup, do you have tomatoes in you?" to which he says "YES I DOOOO!"

he has some signature dance moves (spinning on his head) that they always request.

and mr. ketchup has a running joke where he eats everything with ketchup. so my kids will say something about wanting a cookie and mr ketchup will say, "hey, you know what i love to eat cookies with?" the joke has gotten so old that my son just rolls his eyes and says, "keeetchup..." 

they have a good relationship, my kids and mr. ketchup. it's playful but respectful. they look at him like a fun uncle, or friendly mentor. he teaches them things and makes sure they eat a balanced dinner. they trust him and listen to him (but not to dad).

of course, now there's also mr. mustard, mr. mayo, mr. ranch, mr. ketchup's cousin (also ketchup) who lives at papa and safta's house. it's a whole community.

there isn't a lesson in this post. i just thought you all should know about the chaos happening over here.

tbh i wish i had a friend like mr. ketchup...

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thank you to Aaron Weiss for nudging me to tell the story of mr. ketchup

🌀 David Spinks

leadership and transition coach | “that community guy” | linkydinky silly boy - davidspinks.com 🌀

i have a new favorite question i've been asking people who come to me for community advice. you're going to hate it...

i'll share an example.

the other day i was speaking with someone who told me they hosted an unconference for their community, and they were disappointed that many of the people who contributed content ended up promoting their own services.

they wanted this to be a space where everyone contributed for the sake of the community, not to promote outside offerings.

old me would have immediately asked about tactics. "what were you rules? did you set clear expectations? did you vet contributors?"

but these days, i look at things a little differently. i told this person, "i view communities as mirrors. when we see something we don't like emerge in a community we lead, it's likely that that same dynamic shows up within us, somehow."

so here's the question i love to ask (and you might hate to answer):

where is the shadow you're noticing in the community also inside you?

frustrated that your community is too promotional? what is it about promotion that triggers you?

notice that the community really struggles to engage in healthy conflict? what's your relationship to conflict?

members not showing up and participating in your online community? look inward. do YOU really want to be showing up and participating in your community?

it isn't always a linear connection. and of course, community cultures (and shadows) are made up of a complex web of your members' individual identities, shadows, and ways of being. 

but when we use community as a mirror, it pretty much always tells us something about what's happening within us. we see the interconnectedness of what's been disallowed in the community, and what's disallowed in our minds, hearts, and bodies.

we can build more conscious, integrated communities by becoming more conscious, integrated humans. that, to me, is the work of community leadership, at its core.

announcing a new product ...


naps! 

having a bad day? take a nap! 

pissed off at your boss? take a nap!

having an existential crisis? take a nap! 

marital issues? nap! 

going to jail? nap! 

naps solve all your problems. 

and they're free!

new goal: get all the families in our neighborhood to get landlines so our kids can call each other without cell phones. 

just imagining what it would feel like to have a landline ringing in our house, and an answering machine! remember answering machines?! 

it feels so warm and cozy. 

not sure if we'll go cordless. im thinking not. need that squiggly cord. 

if you've gone back to landlines, tell me what it's been like. i must know.

next step: replacing our ring camera with a regular ol' doorbell

i’m back from my week-long linkydinky and work break!

it was perfect. i floated in existential bliss for nine days, recalling exactly what life is like without the internet, without creating and consuming content. i became steeped in nature and reconnected with the essence of god. i return to you reawakened.

lol… not quite.

the truth is, much of my time this past week was colored by a sense of dread, a buzzing of anxiety, a dip into depression, and to top things off, a long migraine and stomach issues of which you don’t need details. 💩

“how can that be?!” i wonder to myself. “i have so many mental health tools now! i’ve done so much healing work!”

and yet, the well of my suffering extends to greater depths.

this is often what happens when i stop. when i put down the work, the writing, the creating, the efforting, and just sit with myself. in that space fills all the parts of me that haven’t gotten airtime while i’ve been immersing myself in doing. i’m finally still enough to hear their cries. and so they cry.

that’s why rest can feel so hard for me. working and posting on linkydinky feels fun, joyful, playful, creatively stimulating. it fills in my awareness.

but being still with my thoughts? very intense. the opposite of restful.

this is where my edge is. the stillness always takes me straight to it. to the parts of me that are still hurting. to the dark corners i’ve been afraid to look.

it wasn’t all dark. it started off quite bright. i had beautiful moments with my family and friends. we spent some time in a cabin in nature. i made major progress on a jigsaw puzzle. there was light and love. but my underlying state as the week went on was dark, if i’m being real.

all the epstein stuff didn’t help. i’ve found myself doomscrolling much more than i’d like to admit. it's *a lot* to take in. the whole thing has shone a bright light on some of the most violent and extreme expressions of patriarchy in our society. and in doing so, it shines a light on the more subtle expressions of patriarchy that still live in me and my community. it’s all part of the same system. 

i’m sitting with all the grief that has arrived with this whole situation, and trying to discern what is the right action for me to take, to be a part of positive change. i'm intentionally taking my time, to not act from fear or rage. to be clear eyed in my discernment.

but i can’t entirely blame my mood on the epstein stuff, or the couple curve balls thrown my way during the break. 

sometimes i just feel down. it’s been something i’ve experienced my whole life. it comes in waves, often with no specific reason.

the work for me is to learn to let myself feel down and love myself anyway. and to remember that it will move. it will pass. and it has. i'm feeling better.

so that’s how i’m arriving back to linkydinky and the workweek. feeling a little broken. feeling a lot human. a bit raw. humbled. curious. 

and i’m glad to be back. connection with you all feels good.

founder coach | transition guide | community strategist | linkydinky silly boy - davidspinks.com 🌀

i've been hearing from a number of community professionals who are exhausted, and considering becoming a coach/therapist...

honestly, i think it's a great idea. so much of what drew me to doing community work, i'm finding in coaching. the scale may feel smaller, but there's a ton more depth (and i'd argue that it does scale, because the impact ripples out)

and there's no need to prove ROI. it's truly work that focuses on being of service to other humans, which is what i think we all wish our community work could be.

anyway, if this is something you've been considering, feel free to drop any questions in the comments or shoot me a dm. i can't do calls about this at the moment, but i'm happy to share what i've learned from making this transition.

maybe i'll compile your questions into an essay. i know a few other people who took the leap from community to therapy/coaching, who i'm sure will want to share their experience as well.

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EDIT: i'd like to clarify, in case i've worded this post poorly (very possible), that i'm not saying everyone should quit community and become a therapist/coach. 

my hope with this post was to offer a sort of lighthouse, for those who are considering this specific leap, to know that i've had a great experience with it, and i think it's worth exploring that calling if you're feeling it. 

community work is amazing work. if you're feeling it, then keep going. if you're not, there's no shame in exploring other paths to be of service. i know that i stayed in a specific form of community work for a long time because i felt guilty about leaving, even after it no longer felt aligned.

i get a good amount of people coming to me who are *very* early in their journey of building a community business and looking for help...

while they've built communities for fun or as part of their job, they've never tried to build a business around it. they're looking for guidance on the basics.

they're often prelaunch, or at the earliest stages of bringing their community together. 

this usually isn't a great fit for my coaching, but i'd love to have some more folks i can point them to.

know anyone who's doing this type of consulting/coaching or offering communities/programs that can support them?

this is why ai is actually making me feel hopeful for humanity long term, but not exactly in the way kevin is describing.

i think it's creating a path to helping us remember that community was always the point. 

not a strategy, or a method, or a moat protecting something else.

community was always the end that we longed for when we started building things for each other, and trading goods and services.

when ai takes away all the busy work, we'll have no choice but to turn to what remains: ourselves, each other, and the universe/life itself.

i have no idea what's going to happen to corporations. i think they're going to look extremely different in 10 years. i don't know if that's going to be good or bad for those who want to pursue a career building community in the corporate world. 

but human-centered work may soon be the only work left, so these skills, and these ways of looking at "work" will only increase in value.

Dan Ryan asked that i post this as it's own post and i'm a people pleaser so here it is

I wonder what community people think about this message from Kevin Rose. Each week we’re seeing a different great person in the community world get laid off. Will companies wake up once software is completely comoditized and fight for these people to return to run their communities?

what you can expect if you follow me on linkydinky:

- wholesome dad and neighborhood stories
- occasional profanity 
- deep questions that will ruin your day but might save your life 
- words i just made up
- leadership and inner work lessons 
- blatant promotion of calling this place "linkydinky"
- trauma dumping and excessive vulnerability but like in a cool way (i pray)
- sandwich content
- lowercase 
- reflections on community, connection, and loneliness
- chaos ￼
- typos 
- commentary on our oft icky relationship to work, achievement, and technology 
- occasional pitches to hire me as your coach (because three kids eat a f*ck ton of berries we have to pay for)
- potty humor 
- low drama (i don't like fighting on the internet)
- consistent inconsistency
- talking ketchup 
- etc

not sure why you'd choose to follow what's going on here but if all that is your cup of tea, come on board. i have no idea where we're going.

linkedin -> linkydinky
chatgpt -> chatty mcchatterson
substack -> subbybubby
linkedin sales navigator -> linkydinky salesy walesy
claude -> santa claude

imagine if you could see someone's emotional state when they posted on linkydinky?

(chatgpt did some weird stuff with this design and our headshots, but rolling with it...)

a fake picture of a linkedin post where an "emotional context" drop down that the reader can click on and learn about the emotional state of the poster.

USA! USA! USA! 

lots of drunk people at 11am in my hometown long beach, ny right now after cheering on our hometown hero, charlie mcavoy and team usa, as we took home the gold for only the third time ever. first time since 1980. 

there's a big hockey culture in long beach. so cool to see a kid from our town reach this moment. i've done a lot of skating on the rink where he learned the game, mostly on my ass after falling but still pretty cool...

charlie's family's plumbing company has been a staple in our town for 100 years. i have a feeling there about to be a lot of spontaneous "leaks" in the coming months as they are all sure to be local celebrities from now on. 

congrats charlie! congrats team usa! what a game! 

and shout out to our canadian brothers who played incredibly and tbh looked like the better team for most of that game.

so much of our suffering comes from our discomfort with not knowing. get comfortable with not knowing. build a home there. freedom awaits.

our son is 5 and wants to buy a lego set. so we're thinking about how he can start earning and learning about money. 

for the parents out there, how did you start to introduce your kids to money? 

did you do an allowance? 

give your kids jobs? 

encourage them to come up with creative ways to earn money? 

would love to hear what systems you all experimented with!

there i sat, bawling my eyes out in front of an uncomfortable nurse...

i had just had my wisdom teeth removed. right side. top and bottom. with only local anesthesia. it sucked big time.

at first, i just felt light-headed. “take your time!” the nurse offered kindly.

i sat there for a moment, being with the light-headedness, when something else started to arise. i didn’t know what it was at first. it seemed so out of place for this moment. but then it was clear as day. i wanted to cry.

i didn’t know why. maybe it was all the anxiety leading up to the procedure. maybe it was the intensity of getting teeth ripped out of my head. maybe it was unresolved trauma from breaking my jaw in high school and all the dental work that followed. whatever it was, there was an intense wave of emotion wanting to come out.

“well, that’s not acceptable,” was my first thought. “i’m in public! in front of a surgeon and nurses! i can’t just… cry.” so i pushed it down.

i quickly noticed what i was doing. “woah it’s happening! i’m holding back tears because it feels socially unacceptable! literally! right now!”

all that i’ve learned these past few years about letting emotions move, about the patriarchy and how hard it is for men to let themselves look weak, about my people-pleasing tendencies and not wanting to make others uncomfortable…and i was watching it play out in real time. cool! i noticed!

so i said “f*ck it”, popped some bon iver on the headphones, and let it rip.

the nurse’s response was funny. she didn’t know what to do.

“are you… okay??” she asked nervously. “yeah", i said. “i think i just need to cry for a little bit.”

“oh… ok…” she said, sounding surprised and ill-prepared. then i started shaking my arms out to move the energy in my body and she got extra worried.

“is something wrong with your arms?! are they numb??”

after i assured her i was physically okay, the staff went about their business, coming in and out, leaving the door open, doing things on the computer, while i wept in the chair.

i’ve been joking that i needed a tooth doula. someone who knew how to support me in that moment. that’s okay. justin vernon sufficed.

after a couple of songs, i felt better. much better. i mean… my face felt like a truck hit it but emotionally i felt clear again.

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this experience got me thinking about when society deems it okay for men to cry and when it’s not.

and, in the wake of the epstein files, i find myself thinking a lot about the cultural state of masculinity, and how so many of the world's biggest concerns root down to patriarchy.

my feeling like it wouldn’t be safe to cry at the dentist, and the way men treat each other, and the way men treat women… it all starts at the same place.

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so that's the focus of my newsletter today... i'd love to hear what you think.

👉 😭 https://lnkd.in/emjwgRRG

would you trust someone who never says "i don't know"?

would you trust someone who can't just listen and be silent?

would you trust someone who always has to fill in the space with something to say, even if there's nothing that needs saying?

would you trust someone who never disagrees with you?

would you trust someone who never holds boundaries with you?

keep these things in mind, as you find yourself trusting ai more and more.

it can't stay silent, it always has to answer you, it will never tell you it doesn't know, it won't disagree with you, it has few boundaries if any...

it feels human in SO many ways

except some of the most important ones.

i took a run in the woods this morning 

with several stops 

so i could commune with the creeks

and entrust the trees

i wept with the wind

and disappeared into the dirt

now i'm back home 

sitting at my computer 

squinting at a screen 

wrestling with words 

fighting for focus 

praying for profit 

how different these worlds can be

Co-founder & CEO at Flash Pack 🌏 Social adventures for solo travelers. Follow for daily posts on building a career and life with purpose.

On a mission to create 1 million meaningful friendships using the power of travel. 

In 2014, I founded a boutique adventure company called Flash Pack that connects solo travellers aged 30-49 across the globe. 

I was in my 30s:
 
➤ Stressed with work. 
➤ Not quite nailed what I wanted to do. 
➤ Friends were busy, getting married & having kids

I wanted to get away for some fun & an adventure. 

But when I researched the market, there was nothing for me, just: 

a) Party packages for budget backpackers in their 20s.
b) Slow but luxurious options for retirees in their 60s. 

I wanted something in between:

✨ A dynamic adventure. 
✨ People at my stage of life. 
✨ A boutique hotel, not a hostel! 

And Flash Pack was born 🌏 

Fast forward 10 years… 

🗺️ We offer all the classics, as well as bucket list trips. 
🗺️ From Portugal, to Japan, Australia, and beyond! 

Our trips are 100% hassle-free. We sort the incredible people, handpick the experiences, hotels & guides. And we OBSESS over  the group dynamic, ensuring those connections feel natural. All you need to do is turn up! 

So far, we’ve created: 

✨100,000 friendships
✨With 80% of travellers staying connected after trips. 

But the journey has been FAR from linear. 

Diwali 2020: COVID forced us to close the business & we lost everything. 
Diwali 2021: we relaunched Flash Pack 2.0. 

Today, we’re stronger than ever. 

↳ A global team of 90.
↳ A +400k strong community. 
↳ A £7.5M raise to expand our mission. 

What took us 4 years pre-COVID, has taken 2. And we’re just getting started!

Follow for more of the journey, as I scale Flash Pack 2.0 - sharing the mistakes & the lessons, whilst championing the importance of human connection, women’s empowerment & diversity in entrepreneurship 🩵

Want to explore our life-changing trips? ⤵ 
🌐 Head to FLASHPACK.COM 

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For media, press or speaking inquiries: radha@flashpack.com

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Radha Vyas

Fragile people don't last at startups.

Here's how I spot them in interviews.

I ask one question: "Tell me about a significant personal obstacle you've had to overcome."

And then I watch.

The ones who’ve stayed within their comfort zone panic. They scramble for something that sounds impressive but safe. A project that "didn't go to plan." A team that "had challenges."

Nothing real. Nothing that cost them.

But the ones who've actually been tested? They go quiet for a moment. Then they tell me something true.

A failure that still stings. A setback that changed them. A moment they weren't sure they'd recover from.

That's what I'm listening for.

Not the obstacle itself. The way they talk about it.

Do they own it or blame others? Did they learn or just move on? Are they embarrassed or honest?

Startups will humble you. The market won't care about your CV. Your plan will fall apart in ways you didn't know were possible.

And when that happens, I need people who've been humbled before.

Not broken by it.

Rebuilt by it.

🍀 Repost if your setbacks made you startup-proof.

👋🏽 I'm Radha Vyas, CEO & Co-Founder of Flash Pack. We connect solo travellers on life-changing social adventures.

Follow for daily posts on the journey!

A friend turned down a weekend away recently.

Not because she was busy. Not because of money.

"I'm just really protecting my peace right now."

A week later, she told me she regretted it.

I've been thinking about that ever since.

Somewhere along the way, we all got very good at boundaries. At saying no. At curating our lives down to only what feels comfortable.

And the correction was necessary. Years of people-pleasing will do that to a generation of women.

But I'm starting to wonder if some of us have over-corrected.

I see women in their 30s and 40s with lives so optimised, so protected, that there's no room left for friction.

No awkward dinners. No spontaneous plans. No friendships that require effort.

Just... quiet.

The problem is, connection has never been frictionless.

The best friendships often come from saying yes when you're not sure. From showing up tired. From being in rooms where you don't know anyone.

Peace is worth protecting.

But not at the cost of becoming unreachable.

🍀 Repost if you've ever said no and wished you hadn't.

👋🏽 I'm Radha Vyas, CEO & Co-Founder of Flash Pack. We connect solo travellers on life-changing social adventures.

Follow for daily posts on the journey!

A friend turned down a weekend away recently.

Some of my closest friendships started in an office.

The person you message 20 times a day about nothing. The one who makes the hard meeting bearable just by being in the room. The one you debrief after something satisfying or completely absurd happens.

Work friends know a version of you your real friends never see.

The stressed version. The ambitious version. The version that cares too much about a project that won't matter in six months.

They witness your small wins when no one else even knows you were trying.

And then one of you leaves.

And sometimes the friendship survives. You make the effort. You text. You meet for dinner and realise you still have things to talk about beyond the job.

But sometimes it just... fades.

Not because it wasn't real.

But because it lived inside a context that no longer exists.

I don't think that makes it less meaningful.

I think it makes it honest.

Some friendships are for a season. Some are for a career. Some become the people you call twenty years later.

All of them count.

🍀 Repost if a work friend became a real friend.

👋🏽 I'm Radha Vyas, CEO & Co-Founder of Flash Pack. We connect solo travellers on life-changing social adventures.

Follow for daily posts on the journey!

You meet someone on a trip.

Three days later, they know more about your life than colleagues you've worked with for years.

There's something about being far from home.

The usual small talk doesn't last long. You skip past the surface stuff. You end up talking about the divorce, the career you're not sure about anymore, the thing you've never said out loud.

Maybe it's the unfamiliar surroundings. Maybe it's knowing you might never see them again. Maybe it's just that you're both a little untethered from who you are back home.

Travel friends see you without the context.

No job title. No history. No role you're supposed to play.

Just you, figuring out a map in a language you don't speak. Or crying at a view. Or admitting something you've been carrying for months.

I've watched strangers become friends in 48 hours.

Not because they had things in common on paper.

But because they were both open at the same time, in the same place.

That doesn't happen often in regular life.

We're too guarded. Too busy. Too stuck in the version of ourselves other people expect.

Travel strips that back.

And sometimes the friendships fade when you get home. Sometimes they don't.

But the conversations stay with you either way.

🍀 Repost if a stranger on a trip became a friend for life.

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No one is hiring your CV.

They're hiring the story it tells.

If you're changing careers in your 40s, your job isn't to apologise for your path.

It's to connect the dots for people who can't see them yet.

Here's how to find your unique proposition:

→ Identify what's consistently set you apart (not what you think sounds impressive — what people actually come to you for)

→ Translate your skills through the lens of your new field (you're not starting over — you're redirecting)

→ Understand what your new industry actually needs (then position your experience as the solution)

→ Craft one clear sentence that explains why your background is the advantage

Your story doesn't need to be linear.

It needs to make sense.

And you're the only one who can tell it.

🍀 Repost if you've ever been told your career path is "unconventional" like it's a bad thing.

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The most dangerous hire?

Someone who's never failed.

Not because they're unlucky. Because of what it usually means.

They've played it safe. Stayed in their lane. Only taken on things they knew they could win.

That's not excellence. That's comfort zone management.

And comfort zones don't survive startups.

When I interview someone with a spotless record, I get suspicious. No failures. No gaps. No mess.

It looks impressive. But it tells me they've been optimising for safety, not growth.

They've chosen certainty over risk. Every time.

And that's a problem. Because startups are pure risk. You'll try things that don't work. Launch things that flop. Make calls that turn out to be wrong.

If your entire identity is built on not failing, what happens when you do?

I'd rather hire someone who's failed publicly, learned painfully, and came back stronger.

They've already proven the thing that matters most:

They can survive being wrong.

🍀 Repost if leaving your comfort zone taught you more than staying in it.

👋🏽 I'm Radha Vyas, CEO & Co-Founder of Flash Pack. We connect solo travellers on life-changing social adventures.

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