Benjamin Loh, CSP

Growing up as an introvert and serial bully victim, putting myself out there has certainly not been my thing. 

Yet when I decided to pursue my dream as a professional speaker and coach as an accounting college student, I had to learn how to build online influence well. 

A decade later, I’ve been blessed to serve a Fortune 500 life insurance corporation as their Millennials and Social Media Engagement Consultant. 

Here are some "top-line" achievements: 

🌟 Keynote Speaker for Asia Pacific Life Insurance Congress (APLIC), MDRT Day ID, KL & SG 2019-2022 - teach the very strategies that have grown my global speaking business over the past 12 years - from a $500 paid-up capital by 1,000x (annual rev)

🌟 Strategic Growth Coach to the Top Agency Leaders in SG, MY, ID, HK. Currently the "Outsourced CMO" to a $20+M Agency in Singapore, reigning as the Top Group. 

🌟 Taught >57,000 audiences across 10 countries in Asia and Middle East. As of 2020, I've been accorded the Certified Speaking Professional (CSP), an accolade for the top 12% of speakers globally. 

🌟 Featured over 70x on local and regional media (TV, radio, newspaper) like Channel News Asia (CNA), Radio Television Hong Kong (RTHK), The Huffington Post, and more. 

🌟 Trusted and engaged by global corporations like AIA, Atradius, Coface, DB Schenker, MSC Shipping, Porsche Asia Pacific, Prudential, Monetary Authority of Singapore (MAS), Japan External Trade Organization (JETRO), the Saudi Arabia Kingdom (SAK) government etc.

All without spending on paid advertisement, but by pure organic engagement and attraction.

If you're a top life insurance agency decision-maker, you know it’s harder to attract talents.

The old rules - a numbers game - it was effective, but no longer. ❌

You need to be #𝗧𝗼𝗽𝗼𝗳𝗠𝗶𝗻𝗱, but maybe are facing these challenges:

😪 Confused by the mixed messages on how to build your online influence well 

😪 Lost and frustrated after months of "posting content" that doesn't move the needle one bit 

😪  Time and resource-poor because you're tied up with strategic growth of your agency

There is a better way and it doesn’t involve you doing more or becoming someone you are not. 

I can help you: 

🚀 BE AWARE - So your personal brand is seen by your ideal talents and have you be in their radars consistently 

🚀 BE ATTRACTIVE - Leverage organic social content to draw talent to you and the right ones!  

🚀 BE AMPLIFIED - Leverage the right audiences to be a prominent choice

🎁 Connect with me and let's discover how we can make you relevant to your talents of today!

Certified Speaking Professional (CSP®)

Conferred by the National Speakers Association, the CSP is the speaking profession’s international measure of professional platform competence by which speakers become a Certified Speaking Professional.

About 12 percent of the 5,000 + speakers worldwide, who belong to the 13 member associations of the Global Speakers Federation, currently hold this professional designation.

The Certified Speaking Professional (CSP) designation is earned through demonstrating competence in professional standards: Platform skills, Business management, Education and Association

Information provided by the National Speakers Association based in the United States of America. The Professional Speakers Association of Australia also grants Certified Speaking Professional (CSP) status with similar (but different) standards of its American counterpart.

Statistics are estimated as of July 2017

Can I be honest with you?

I never had a clear idea of what I wanted to be, growing up. 

No big dreams. No Forbes 30 under 30 ambitions.

I was the quiet kid who felt small in loud rooms. Teased. Left out.
Just had lots of curiosity and willingness to try everything. Toastmasters. Six internships. A dozen part-time jobs.

What I was really chasing.. without knowing it.. was 'oneness'. 

To be aligned in my thoughts, feelings and actions.

Because here's what I've seen coaching leaders across 20 cities:

Most people aren't (just) struggling with skill. They're struggling with alignment. 💯

They show up online saying one thing. Feeling another. And doing something completely different.

That gap? 

Your audience feels it. Even if they can't name it.

Three things helped me close that gap:

👉 Learn first, impress later. Chasing skills beat chasing approval every time. 

👉 Choose yourself, even when others don't get it. Every small bet on myself built trust. That trust became momentum. 

👉 Build on your strengths. Not just following the default path. And dig deep into what you can truly offer.

Today I've taught 65,000+ leaders across 20+ cities. Sydney. Tokyo. Riyadh. Chicago. Built a multiple seven-figure business helping leaders show up with clarity online and help the people they are meant to help.

And as extension, my vision is to help more people in Asia to do so too. 

Recently, Owndays Singapore Pte Ltd invited me onboard for their 'What Is Your Vision' series. 👓

I shared that you don't need a louder voice or gun for virality or be obnoxiously loud. You need your thoughts, your gut and your actions moving as one to speak to the right people. 

That's when your brand and work stops being a show. And starts being you.

What was the vision you had for yourself growing up? 

Share with me below.  👇🏻

Someone out there might need your story today. 💙

#OWNDAYS #OWNDAYSsg #OWNyourDAYS #FromTokyoJapan

LinkedIn Top Voice in SG To Follow | I help top life insurance leaders and service professionals in Asia grow their brand and influence and be #TopofMind | Millennial Dad | Top 12% Global Speaker

Age 7: Got bullied. Learned to stay small and invisible. 
Age 18: Tried public speaking. Froze up completely. 
Age 21: Quit a big 4 job offer to do sales. Everyone thought I was crazy (stupid)
Age 23: Quit my sales job to speak full-time even with 5 figure commission months. 
Age 25: First regional corporate contract. Crossed six figures in revenue.
Age 28: Published my first crowdfunded book with readers from 9 countries
Age 32: Crossed seven figures, landed an exclusive contract with a big 3 Asia insurer. 

Today: 65,000+ leaders taught. 20+ cities. Chicago. Tokyo. Riyadh. Sydney. 🌏

Nobody handed me any of this.

And if you're building your own career or gig right now, know this.

Nobody's handing it to you either.

Here's what almost stopped me. And I'll bet it's quietly stopping you too.

It wasn't the broke years. It wasn't the people who doubted me.

It was the story I told myself every morning. 😶

👉 "I'm an introvert and boring. I'm not built for this." 
👉 "I don't have the right background or networks." 
👉 "People like me don't end up in rooms like that."

Every single one felt true. Yet every single one was also a choice.

Your self-doubt isn't protecting you. It's keeping you comfortable. 

So I decided to rewrite my story and showed up, anyway. 

The stories of doubt, got quieter. Not gone. Just quieter.

The reps didn't just build skill. They rewrote the script. 

Confidence isn't coming before you move. It comes because you moved. 👊

Stop waiting to feel ready. 

Go live your way into a new story.

Don't let the story in your head stop you from living the future you desire for yourself.

♻️ Repost if you know someone building their own path who needs this today.

I’m happy to share that I’ve obtained a new certification: GA100: Generative AI from Heicoders Academy!

Benjamin Loh

If you’re just starting out in business…

You can’t afford work-life balance. Here’s why 👇🏻


When I first started building my brand in Asia,
I wasn’t the confident coach people see today.

I was the boy who got bullied.
The guy who kept his head down because speaking up felt scary.
The creator who took hours to press “post” because he feared being judged.

Back then, my life wasn’t balanced.

It was heavy.
It was tiring.
And it was needed.

Because the balance I have today only exists,
because I went through years that were anything but balanced.

→ Late nights trying to get one story right.
→ Quiet weekends learning how to speak without shaking.
→ Posting content while hearing my own doubts in the back of my head.
→ Showing up even when no one was clapping.

Those early seasons shaped me.
They trained my confidence.
They built the resilience I stand on today.

So if you’re just starting out…

It’s okay if things feel tilted.
It’s okay if you’re doing more than you rest.
It’s okay if you feel tired.

In the early stages, pressure can be a privilege,
especially when it’s pressure from a dream you chose.

To the new founders, advisors, and leaders building right now,
I see you.
Keep going.

Your struggles are your teachers.
Consistency compounds.

Let me know your thought below 💬

P.s. ✍🏻 I am Benjamin Loh, CSP, a strategic growth coach and consultant who has taught over 65,000 leaders in over 20 global cities and constructed some of the leading icons (TOT, Award Winners) in the financial industry in Asia through the power of authentic storytelling and authority building.

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Nobody likes being sold to immediately.

And if that's your LinkedIn strategy, you better stop now.

I see it in my DMs every single day.

"Hey Ben, want to double your AUM in 90 days?"
"Looking for more qualified leads?"
"Let me show you our proven system."

Delete. Delete. Delete.

Why?

If you're only DMing people on LinkedIn to pitch your offer, 
you're not building relationships. 

→ You're burning bridges before they're even built.

And for financial advisors? 

This approach will kill your credibility faster than anything else.

Your clients don't buy financial products. 

→They buy trust.
→ They buy confidence that you'll protect their family's future.
→ They buy the belief that you genuinely care about their goals, not just your commission.

When your first interaction is a sales pitch,
It's like you've told them: 
"I don't care about you. I care about what you can do for me."

And in an industry built on trust and long-term relationships? 

That's the fastest way to lose before you even start.

Here's what YOU can do instead:

1) Start with curiosity, not a pitch.

When someone accepts your connection request, 
don't immediately go for the close.

Instead, ask a thoughtful question.

Example:
"I saw you just celebrated 10 years in the industry, what's the biggest shift you've seen in how clients make decisions?"

Show them you're interested in them, not just their wallet.

2) Comment before you DM.

Engage with their content first. 
Add value to their audience.

When you eventually message them, you're not a stranger,
you're someone who already showed up.

3) Share value first.

Lead with something useful:
→ A relevant article
→ A strategy that worked for you
→ A genuine compliment on their post

No pitch. No agenda. Just value.

4) Play the long game.

My best clients didn't come from cold pitches.

They came from months of genuine interaction. 
→ Commenting, sharing insights, offering help with no strings attached.

When they were ready to buy, 
my name already had a place in their mind.

I stopped asking, 
"How can I sell to this person?"

And started asking, 
"How can I serve this person?"

That turned LinkedIn from a cold-calling platform into a relationship-building machine.

Stop selling. 
Start serving. 
And the clients will follow.

So, what's your biggest challenge with LinkedIn outreach? Let's chat 💬

P.s. ✍🏻 I am Benjamin Loh, CSP, a strategic growth coach and consultant who has taught over 65,000 leaders in over 20 global cities and constructed some of the leading icons (TOT, Award Winners) in the financial industry in Asia through the power of authentic storytelling and authority building.

💪 Follow me for personal brand and growth insights.

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Shared this on my Facebook and it's been resonant (270k views):

DPM Gan warns - "Singapore faces an existential challenge" 

Yep, but it's probably not what he and his colleagues think.

Last year, I met my university friend for dinner. We caught up over work, life, passion, marriage and of course the inevitable...

"Are you both planning to start a family?' 

She told me with a meek smile,

"We are quite happy where we are. We're going to be DINKs" 
(Dual Income, No Kids)

Then came her plans about upcoming road trips, side hustles, passion projects, giving to charity and more.

There was nothing but genuine ease and joy from her. 

Being on the other side of the fence with a toddler, I told her I was happy too for both her and her spouse.

Because nothing's worse than bringing a newborn into this world out of pressure or duty, instead of love. 

She then told me, their decision was not a flippant one.

They both asked themselves some "hard questions":

 → Can we afford to raise a child given the costs of living? 
 → Are our career future resilient to ensure we can put food on the table?
 → Do we want to belabour our parents and make them caregivers again? Or get a stay-in helper as we don't want to compromise our careers?
 → Why do we want to put a newborn through the whole Singapore "rat race" again after all we've gone through?
 → Is Singapore truly... liveable? Can we trust the government to ensure we are taken care of in a world of flux and irrationality? 

Obviously, some may think these questions are just symptoms of "over-thinking".
When our parents got by with 2, 3 or 4 children, they still made it work, right? Why not you? 

But... at what expense? And it's palpable how life in Singapore has dramatically changed from its times in the 90s to now. 

These thoughts have been shared quite commonly among my friends in their late 20s and 30s. 

Interestingly, they are brilliant individuals, highly socio-economically mobile and with amazing careers and life trajectories. 

The birth rate decline in Singapore is indeed an existential challenge to our country's future. 

But also, maybe our ways and means of "existence" in this country are also fraying and being questioned (healthily)? 

Do we just want to exist and get by? 
(Because if that's the assumption, then throwing $10,000 grants to have people make more babies or CDC vouchers may just work in the sort-term.)

And what does it take for us to truly thrive and flourish in the next decades of Singapore? 

Perhaps we need to answer the harder questions and look at the "elephant in the room".

P.s. I don't have the answers or sit on a committee so I'm just off to sit the train and explore Singapore with my kiddo.

Everyone says "engage your audience" when you're speaking on stage.

But nobody really tells you how to own that stage and make it yours.

As someone who used to shake before every presentation,
I've learned a few things the hard way.

Things that turned that fear into something I could actually use.

Here it is.
Save this for your next presentation 👇🏻

1/ Ride on Shared Narratives
→ Find common ground fast.

People don't connect with perfection.
They connect with "me too" moments.

👉🏻 I like to open with a story about struggling with something my audience faces too.
👉🏻 Like feeling invisible in a crowded room or doubting whether anyone's listening.

2/ Keep the Energy Up
→ Your energy sets the room's energy.

If you're flat, they're flat.
If you're alive, they lean in.

👉🏻 I move around the stage, vary my tone, and throw in pauses.
👉🏻 It keeps people awake and engaged, even in long sessions.

3/ Speak with Them Before You Speak to Them
→ A little interaction beforehand goes a long way.

I used to hide backstage.
Now I walk the room early.

👉🏻 Before I present, I chat with a few people in the audience, ask about their day, their challenges.
👉🏻 So when I'm on stage, I'm speaking to familiar faces.

4/ Don't Skimp on Preparation
→ Being prepared is your best defense against nerves.

I used to wing it.
I paid for it every time.

👉🏻 I rehearse my opening and closing until I can say them in my sleep.
👉🏻 It gives me confidence even when my mind goes blank mid-speech.

5/ Learn Their World, Speak Their Language
→ Tailor your message to resonate.

Generic talks don't land.
Personalized ones do.

👉🏻 When I speak to financial advisors versus tech founders, I adjust my examples and references to match their daily reality.
👉🏻 Never use a one-size-fits-all script.

6/ Use Your Stories
→ Personal stories make your message unforgettable.

Facts inform.
Stories transform.

👉🏻 Instead of listing my credentials, I share how a kid who got bullied and avoided stages now trains leaders across Asia.
👉🏻 Story sticks more than any resume.

7/ Mirror What You Want to See
→ Project the confidence you want your audience to feel.

If you're uncertain, they'll be uncertain.
If you're grounded, they'll trust you.

👉🏻 If I want my audience to feel calm and confident, I start by being calm and confident myself
👉🏻 Even if I'm nervous inside.

I'm not a natural speaker.

I'm someone who learned through repetition, failure, and intention.

If you apply even one of these,
you'll already be ahead of most people on stage.

You don't need perfect English.
You don't need years of experience.
You just need presence, preparation, and a message that matters.

So. what strategy helps you most before speaking on stage?
Let's learn from each other 💬

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Nobody is thinking about you.

Harsh? Maybe. 

But it's also the most freeing thing you'll hear today.

I used to overthink every single video I posted.

"What if they judge my face?" 
"What if I sound weird?" 
"What if someone screenshots my worst angle?"

Turns out, there's a name for this.

👉🏻 It's called the Spotlight Effect.

We massively overestimate how much attention others pay to us.

The truth?
Most people scroll past in 0.3 seconds. 
Most people forget what they saw by lunch. 
Most people are too busy worrying about themselves to worry about you.

And that's actually great news.

Because it means the only person stopping you from hitting record… is you.

Here's what I've learned from helping thousands of professionals show up on video:
→ The ones who win aren't the most polished. 
→ They're the ones who kept showing up. 
→ Consistency beats perfection. 
Every. Single. Time.

Social media rewards patience, not perfection.

So if you've been sitting on that video idea for weeks…

Just press record.

You'll be surprised what comes out of you when you stop filtering and start sharing.

The game isn't about who's the best on camera.

It's about who lasts the longest.

So, what's the ONE thing stopping you from posting your first (or next) video? Let's discuss 👇🏻

P.s. ✍🏻 I am Benjamin Loh, CSP, a strategic growth coach and consultant who has taught over 65,000 leaders in over 20 global cities and constructed some of the leading icons (TOT, Award Winners) in the financial industry in Asia through the power of authentic storytelling and authority building.

💪 Follow me for personal brand and growth insights.

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Formal education won't keep you relevant in this new economy.

I know that sounds harsh. But hear me out.

In 2012, I graduated with an Accounting degree and a poor GPA.

By 2014, I quit my job to become a full-time speaker and coach.

No corporate experience.
No powerful connections. 
A $15 daily budget for food and transport. 

Everyone thought I was crazy.

Fast forward to today:
I've taught over 65,000 leaders across 20+ cities and built a multi-million dollar brand. 

And in all those years?

Not a single client has ever asked about my degree.
Not my university. Not my GPA. Not my certifications.

Yet, I keep hearing the same questions from people I mentor.

"Ben, what degree should I get first?" 
"Will people take me seriously without certifications?" 
"Which program should I join to get paid work?"

I get it.  

It's how most of us were taught to think.

Study hard → Get the paper → Get the job.

But in this economy? 
That formula is broken.

Here's what actually gets clients to pay you:

🔥 Generate meaningful attention. 
→  I started posting on LinkedIn in 2022 with zero audience. No ads. Just real stories. 
→ That alone led to more than 2.6 million views (1-year) and multiple 7-figures in done deals.

🔥 Build skills that solve real problems. 
→ Storytelling, branding, content strategy... none of these were taught in school. 
→ I learned them by doing the work and failing publicly. 

🔥 Let your clients' results speak for you. 
→ I focused on getting my clients TOT awards, published books, and multi-million dollar agencies. 
→ When your clients win, you never have to sell yourself again. 

🔥 Invest in mentorship over material things. 
→ While my peers bought cars and watches, I invested in mentors. 
→ One mentorship alone led to a client worth over $700k in revenue. 

🔥 Use simple tools to punch above your weight. 
→ Canva for design. ChatGPT for ideas. Notion for systems. 
→ You don't need a big team. You need resourcefulness.

Don't misunderstand me.

Formal education builds foundations. I'm grateful for mine.

But another piece of paper alone won't convince someone to hand you their money.

In this economy, what sets you apart is simple:
👉🏻 Can you deliver value? 
👉🏻 Can you prove it? 
👉🏻 Can you help someone get results they can't get on their own?

Stop collecting certificates.
Start creating proof.

What's one skill you learned outside of school that's made the biggest difference in your career?

P.s. ✍🏻 I am Benjamin Loh, CSP, a strategic growth coach and consultant who has taught over 65,000 leaders in over 20 global cities and constructed some of the leading icons (TOT, Award Winners) in the financial industry in Asia through the power of authentic storytelling and authority building.

💪 Follow me for personal brand and growth insights.

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I used to struggle with self-esteem and couldn't even look people in the eye.

But people still say: "You're a natural speaker."


Here's what they don't see.

The kid who got pushed around.
The teenager who ate lunch alone.
The young adult who rehearsed conversations in his head before speaking.

That was me.

For a decade, I believed I wasn't meant to be seen or heard.

Today, I've:
→ Taught 65,000+ leaders across 20+ cities 
→ Delivered keynotes in Sydney, Chicago, Tokyo, Riyadh 
→ Featured in 90+ media appearances

But here's what they don't know...

I was never born a natural speaker.

I still feel nervous before every keynote. 

My palms still sweat. 
My heart still races. 
My voice still shakes.

The difference?

I stopped waiting to feel ready.

I started showing up anyway.

What changed wasn't my personality.

It was my perspective.

I stopped seeing introversion as a flaw. 
→ I started seeing it as my edge.

While others performed, I: 
→ Observed deeper 
→ Listened harder 
→ Connected more meaningfully

I didn't become louder. 
→ I became more intentional.

Here's what 10 years of speaking taught me:
💡 Public speaking isn't about being fearless. 
→ It's about speaking despite the fear.

💡 It's not about being the loudest voice. 
→ It's about being the most resonant one.

💡 Your quietness? 
→ It's reflection. 

💡 Your hesitation? 
→ It's thoughtfulness. 

💡 Your shyness? 
→ It's deep observation.

So, if you're an introvert in a loud world,

You don't need to be someone else. 

You need to be more of yourself.

The world needs what only YOU can offer.

Your depth.
Your authenticity.
Your story.

Remember, you're allowed to succeed on your own terms.

What's one thing you used to see as a weakness that became your strength?

P.s. ✍🏻 I am Benjamin Loh, CSP, a strategic growth coach and consultant who has taught over 65,000 leaders in over 20 global cities and constructed some of the leading icons (TOT, Award Winners) in the financial industry in Asia through the power of authentic storytelling and authority building.

💪 Follow me for personal brand and growth insights.

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Most financial advisors build their business on things they don't own.


Their agency's brand. 
Their company's reputation. 
Their title on a name card.

And I get it. 

It works.
Until it doesn't.

Because here's what I've learned working with advisors and leaders across AIA, Prudential, and agencies in 20+ cities over the past decade.. 

💡 There's so much you simply cannot control.

Markets crash without warning. 
Products get repriced overnight. 
Regulations change mid-quarter. 
Clients move on for reasons that have nothing to do with you.

You can't control any of that.

But you know what you'll never lose?

Your personal brand.

The advisors I've seen thrive through every season, 
every downturn, every shake-up have ONE thing in common.

They didn't just build a business. 
💡 They built a name.

→ A name clients trust before the first meeting 
→ A name prospects Google before picking up the phone 
→ A name that opens doors, even when everything else feels uncertain

Your personal brand is your reputation. 
Your credibility.
Your legacy. 
Your story. 

And in an industry where products can be copied, 
commissions can be cut, and titles can disappear...

👉🏻 Your personal brand is what makes you irreplaceable.

I know this because I lived it.

In 2014, I left my job to become a full-time speaker and coach 
.
No corporate experience. 
No connections. 

Nobody knew who I was.

But I made one decision early on:
I would build something that no market shift, no title change,
and no external circumstance could ever take from me.

💡 My personal brand.

That decision to show up consistently, deliver substance, 
and stay authentic for over a decade...

Helped me build a 7-figure business that I still run to this day.

Not because I was famous. 
Because people trusted the name before they ever met the person.

That's the power of personal branding.

It's not about becoming an influencer. 
It's not about going viral.

It's about becoming the person your ideal client already trusts, 
before you ever shake their hand. 
.
So let me ask you this:

If everything outside your control shifted tomorrow,
the market, the products, your agency structure,

→ Would people still come looking for you?

If you're not sure, it's time to start building.

Because everything else can be taken from you.

Your personal brand? 
That stays forever.

P.s. ✍🏻 I am Benjamin Loh, CSP, a strategic growth coach and consultant who has taught over 65,000 leaders in over 20 global cities and constructed some of the leading icons (TOT, Award Winners) in the financial industry in Asia through the power of authentic storytelling and authority building.

💪 Follow me for personal brand and growth insights.

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Most advisors are chasing the wrong things.

They obsess over algorithms, funnels, and online hacks.

But the ones who are able to;
↳ Generate consistent referrals, 
↳ Attract quality recruits,
↳ and become the go-to name in their market?

They master what happens offline first.

Here are 4 offline skills that can change how you create value and build your brand as an advisor 👇

1️⃣ Core Advisory Skills
Your expertise is your currency.
If you're not constantly upgrading what you know, your clients will notice.

→ Learn new tools and instruments in your field. 
→ Stay current with industry shifts. 
→ Treat your own growth the way you'd treat a high-value client. With commitment.

The advisors who keep sharpening their skills are the ones clients come back to again and again. 

2️⃣ Centers of Influence
The most important thing about networking?
Build communities. 
Don't just collect contacts.

→ Go beyond exchanging name cards at events. 
→ Create circles of people who support and invest in each other's growth. 
→ When you surround yourself with the right people, positive momentum follows naturally.

Because a contact list gives you names.
A community gives you opportunities.

3️⃣ Content Creation
"But I'm not a content creator."
Well you don't have to be.

Content creation for advisors is simple:
→ Get comfortable with the camera. 
→ If you're coaching, mentoring, or leading, document it. 
→ Have the right equipment and support team in place. 
→ Share your life in a way that attracts and resonates with the right people.

The formula? 
💡 Deliver offline, amplify online. 

Your best content already exists. 
It's in your daily work, your conversations, and the value you give your clients.

💡 You just need to capture it.

4️⃣ Self-Awareness
This is the one most people skip.
And it's the one that matters most.

→ So many advisors miss the good things happening right in front of them. 
→ Reflect daily on the wins, the losses, and the lessons. 
→ Then communicate those reflections to the people who matter.

Your struggles are your teachers. 
Your reflections become your content. 
Your awareness becomes your competitive advantage.

So here's what I'd challenge you to do this week:

Pick just ONE and take action today👇🏻
→ Block 30 minutes to learn something new in your field. 
→ Reach out to 3 people and start a real conversation. Not a pitch. Just a real conversation. 
→ Record one 60-second video about what you do and why it matters. 
→ Sit down tonight and write 3 things that went well today and 1 lesson you learned.

You don't need to master all 4 at once.

You just need to start with one.

So, which one are you starting with?

P.s. ✍🏻 I am Benjamin Loh, CSP, a strategic growth coach and consultant who has constructed some of the leading icons in the financial industry in Asia through the power of authentic storytelling and authority building.

💡Follow me for personal brand and growth insights.

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You're waiting to feel ready.

While you wait, your competitor already started.

That LinkedIn post you've been drafting in your head for 3 weeks?

Someone in your industry just published theirs. 

It's not even that good. 
But it's out there. 
And people are noticing them.

Not you.

That client you've been meaning to reach out to? 

Someone else just sent them a voice note.

That video you keep saying you'll film "when the time is right"? 

Someone else just posted one from their car. 
Imperfect. Raw. 
And it's working.

Here's the truth:
The "right time" doesn't exist.

→ "I'll post when I have better content." 
→ "I'll build my brand after I hit this target." 
→ "I'll start when I feel more confident."

These aren't strategies. 

These are prisons you're building for yourself. 

And while you sit in that prison?

Your competitor is becoming the name people remember. 

Not because they're better. 
Because they showed up.

The market doesn't reward the most competent. 
It rewards the most visible. 

That's not fair. 
But it's real.

So here's your challenge today:
✅ Post one thing. It doesn't have to be perfect. It has to be real. 
✅ Reach out to one person you've been putting off. 
✅ Record that 60-second video. Even if your voice shakes.

One post won't change your life. 

But one post every week for a year?

That builds mental real estate. 
Consistency compounds. 

You don't need motivation to start. 
You don't need permission to start. 

You just need to start before you feel ready.

Because while you're waiting, someone else is becoming #topofmind.

What's the ONE thing you've been putting off?
Do it today, and let me know in the comments 👇🏻

P.s. ✍🏻 I am Benjamin Loh, CSP, a strategic growth coach and consultant who has taught over 65,000 leaders in over 20 global cities and constructed some of the leading icons (TOT, Award Winners) in the financial industry in Asia through the power of authentic storytelling and authority building.

💪 Follow me for personal brand and growth insights.

#personalbrand #linkedin #growthmindset #contentcreation

I see more "fun-employed(s)" on Tiktok these days.

But this got me curious.

"Funemployment" refers to a period of unemployment where individuals, often Gen Z or young professionals choose to enjoy their free time, focusing on self-discovery, travel, hobbies, and wellness rather than immediately rushing into a new job.

My generation calls it.. sabbatical and time for myself and the family, right? 

My parents would call it... retrenchment and depression?

P.s. In case you don't get it at first - 'funemployment' is a composite of 'fun' and 'unemployment'

Nobody cares about your success if they don't know your struggle.

Sounds harsh? 

Here's what most people get wrong about sharing their story:
👉🏻 They only show the highlight reel.

The wins. 
The stage. 
The applause.

But here's the thing.

When people only see the "good," 
they think, "Must be nice for you."

When they see the gap between where you were and where you are now?

💡 That's when they lean in.

That's when they say, 
"If you made it, maybe I can too."

That's not just storytelling. 
→ That's inspiration.

And inspiration only works when there's contrast.

Good vs. not so good. 
Pain vs. where you are today. 
Rock bottom vs. standing tall.

Yet most of us skip the hard part.

We never sit down to map out what we actually went through.

We don't spend the time to reflect, to connect the dots, 
to understand why our past matters for the people in front of us right now.

Your present impresses. 

But your past and your future? 
They inspire.

So stop hiding the messy chapters.

They might be the very thing someone else needs to hear.

How about you? 
Have you shared your "before" story with your audience?

P.s. 🫡 I am Benjamin Loh, CSP, a strategic growth coach and consultant who has taught over 65,000 leaders in over 20 global cities and constructed some of the leading icons (TOT, Award Winners) in the financial industry in Asia through the power of authentic storytelling and authority building.

💪 Follow me for personal brand and growth insights.

#personalbranding #linkedin #contentcreation #publicspeaking

Sujano is one of the most hungry and giving directors in the financial advisory space in Singapore. 

This post probably tells you why!

Top High Net Worth Producer, AIA Singapore 2024–2025 (No. 1 out of 6,200) | Companywide 1st Runner-Up HNW Director 2025

People asked me,
“How do you become a learning machine?”

I thought of this quote from William Godwin,
 "The philosophy of the wisest man that ever existed,
 is mainly derived from the 𝗮𝗰𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗼𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻."

I’ve made it a habit to learn through self-reflection. 🧠
How can I sharpen my own skills?
How can I support my team better?
How can I serve better?

And there is no better time than travelling,
which gives me the space to think. ✈️🌍

I do read as well 📖

Articles, commentaries, and long-reads,
squeezed into short pockets of time.

Knowledge helps me to hold conversations,
and 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄𝗹𝗲𝗱𝗴𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗸𝗲𝘆 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗰𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘅 𝗱𝗲𝗰𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀.

And then there’s social media 👀

This skill didn’t come naturally. 😅

I’m not someone who enjoys taking photos,
being loud, or putting myself front and centre.

It felt like all eyes are on me,
like cameras on the lions yesterday during Lion dance for CNY celebrations. 😂

But through guidance from Benjamin Loh, 
I’ve realised visibility doesn’t have to be loud.

It can be thoughtful and intentional.

𝗟𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗮𝗹𝘀𝗼 𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗗𝗠.
𝗟𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘄𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂.

Even though I just “started” out social media in the past 3 months,
we’ve successfully onboarded a new FA manager and 3 of his consultants.

That said, I can still be awkward..
 Still very much a work in progress😄
But learning, nonetheless.

Over time, a few patterns have stayed with me:
📝 Being busy doesn’t remove the need to learn, it raises the stakes
📝 Reflection turns experience into insight
📝 The better I want to serve, the more intentional I must be about growing

So I’d love to hear this from other people too 👇🏻

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗰𝗵𝗲𝗱𝘂𝗹𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹, 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝘀𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗸𝗲𝗲𝗽 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴?

Feel free to share in the comments 💬 or DM me 📩

I’m always open to a thoughtful exchange. Sometimes the best insights come from comparing notes.

#reflection 
#leadershipjourney 
#learningmindset 
#SJGroupAdvisors 
#Sujano

Courage is never about not having fear. 

It's about building anyway.

You know that moment when you first decided to put yourself out there?

Maybe it was starting your business. 
Building your brand. 
Or finally stepping up to lead a team.

No safety net. 
No guarantee it would work. 

Just a belief that you had something worth sharing.

Here's what I've realized scares most of us:
👉🏻 It's not the failures or the setbacks.
👉🏻 It's showing up, knowing people are watching, and wondering if what you're building is actually enough.

But if you see the truth...

The people around you? 
They're not waiting for you to be perfect.
👉🏻 They're waiting for you to be courageous enough to keep showing up.

That's what separates the dreamers from the builders.

Not fearlessness.
Just the willingness to move forward despite the fear.

Do you have any fear that's been holding you back from building what you truly want? Let's discuss 💬

P.s. ✍🏻 I am Benjamin Loh, CSP, a strategic growth coach and consultant who has taught over 65,000 leaders in over 20 global cities and constructed some of the leading icons (TOT, Award Winners) in the financial industry in Asia through the power of authentic storytelling and authority building.

💪 Follow me for personal brand and growth insights.

#personalbrand #entrepreneurship #businessgrowth  #personaldevelopment

I am a corporate rebel. And with a mission you’ll not think of.

7 years ago, I left a $250K per annum salary package as a Global HR Director to seek that optimal balance which I yearned for - Financial and Time Autonomy.

Today I proudly stand at the apex, recognised with the prestigious Top of the Table (TOT) Qualification, representing the top 0.5% of all financial consultants worldwide. 

Serving more than 700 clients, amongst them are over 400 senior corporate leaders, including CEOs, Chief Officers, Managing Directors, and Senior Vice Presidents. 

As perhaps the sole top Financial Consultant in Singapore specialising in catering to CEOs, I have an unparallelled level of expertise and an execellent track record, with a 100% satisfaction rate from them. 

“The biggest win working with Jaslyn is planning for a long term sustainable growth and not short term hits. Jaslyn is easy to work with and able to put the building blocks in simple terms and she is deeply focused on my goals rather than just selling a product.”

Jeyakumar Janakaraj, CEO, Adani Global.

Leveraging my background as an Ex-Global HR Leader, I combine strong quantitative skills in Compensation & Benefits with an empathetic consulting approach, fostering reassurance and confidence among my clients.

Drawing from my extensive experience with industry giants like DHL, Coca-Cola, and FMC Technologies, I bring a global outlook to financial advisory, enriching my clients' perspectives and strategies.

Setting myself apart from conventional financial consultants, I adhere to a distinct 3-Step PURE Approach:

1. Proactive Listening
2. Understanding
3. Recommendation
4. Evaluation

Recognising that financial planning is not one-size-fits-all, I provide customised solutions across various domains, including:

🚨 Wealth Protection
💹 Wealth Accumulation
💵 Wealth Management
🏦 Wealth Preservation
🧧 Wealth Distribution

Today I am a highly sought-after speaker. Till date I have spoken on more than 70 occasions on my advisory practice, on international and local platforms. 

A crowning achievement was delivering a keynote address at the MDRT Global Conference in 2023, addressing an audience of over 7,500 industry peers who are the creme de la creme of my space. 

Driven by a profound mission, I aspire to foster greater financial awareness and empower individuals to lead fulfilling lives and retire with dignity. 

Jaslyn Ng
representing Prudential Assurance Company Singapore 
1280/27Nov23
http://www.prudential.com.sg/FC-info

Jaslyn Asia Insurance Agent of the Year

𝐇𝐞 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐬 𝐌𝐲 𝐏𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐬.

That was the sentence that completely caught me off guard.

Last evening, I had the privilege of being one of 43 agency leaders in the room with Anil Wadhwani, Group CEO of Prudential plc.

It was an Agency Networking Night with the top senior management of Prudential Assurance Company Singapore.

We discussed about upcoming initiatives, filled with plenty of joy and laughter since it's still the CNY festive period.

Leaders had to opportunity to engage with the Chiefs of respective departments for open discussions.

What struck me most was how the usual barrier between corporate leadership and the agency force seemed to fade away. 

Sometimes issues get resolved through such casual chats easier. 

We felt heard and understood as leaders on the ground.

Then came the moment I will never forget.

In the middle of our conversation, Anil said he reads my posts.

He further added on 

“Jas, I read all your posts — your exercise, your work, your day-to-day activities.

Truly this is what makes us human.”

I was astonished, deeply humbled.

When I write, I never really know who is reading. 

I don’t chase vanity metrics.

I don’t obsess over impressions.

But that moment reminded me again:

Someone is always reading. 

If my posts can positively influence anybody in any way, then I believe it is worth the time.

This is no different from our profession as a Financial Consultant.

Many assume we share to sell.

But for me, I share with a bigger purpose: 

To Educate and Create Awareness.

Sales is a by-product of doing the right thing consistently.

But I know if we always go with the best intent, this will help more people gain awareness and prevent potential pitfalls.

That is also the purpose of writing.

It is not easy to open up our thoughts publicly. 

It is not easy to show vulnerability. 

It takes courage to share consistently, especially when you are not sure who is listening.

So here’s to all the LinkedIn content creators who continue to show up, reflect honestly, and contribute value even when the applause may not be there. 

Keep writing.

Keep sharing.

Keep educating.

You never know whose life you may be quietly impacting.

#ExecutiveLeadership #Influence #LeadershipDevelopment #LinkedIn
#TopOfMind #FinancialConsultant

Jaslyn Ng Asia Insurance Agent of the Year

LinkedIn Top Voice | “THE Go-To” Financial Consultant of CXOs CEOs and Senior Corporate Leaders

$𝟒𝟒. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐝 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐦𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐧 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞.

My 14 year old daughter came to me wanting braces. 

In the market, there are mainly 3 options that vary between $5,000 and $10,000: 

1. Metal 
2. Ceramic
3. Invisalign

I sat her down and said, 

“Sure, but I also need you to have some skin in the game.”

She looked at me and said, 

“How much?”

I smiled. “What do you think it’s reasonable?”

After back-and forth negotiation, we finally agreed on $1,000. 

Here’s the context:

Her weekly allowance is $50. 

$1,000 means 20 weeks, 5 months of her allowance. 

To make it more painful, I said I want $1K in cash, right from her CNY red packets. 

Of course question is do I really need $1,000 from her? 

No, it’s intentionally to make her feel the pinch. 

I wore braces myself 30 years ago. 

I know what the journey really looks like.

The brushing after every meal. 

The flossing that cannot be skipped. 

The discomfort you push through. 

And once you start, there’s no turning back.

As a parent, I adopt co-payment approach with my kids. 

When our children contribute, from their own pockets, suddenly it changes their buying decision. 

They start asking is this a “Want” or a “Need”? 

Last night, she came to me with a stack of cash. 

$956 in total. 

Her Chinese New Year red packet money. Every cent of it. 

Plus whatever she had saved in the last few months.

Yet she was still $44 short.

“Mama, can you waive it please?“

I said no, because it’s not about the money. 

It was a matter of principle.

She went to bed a little quiet. 

And then something happened that I didn’t expect.

Incidentally her 12-year-old brother overheard our conversation. 

After his sister fell asleep, he sneaked into my room quietly. 

He pressed $44 into my hand.

“Mum, please don’t tell jiejie. But I want to pay for her.”

I stood there and didn’t know whether to laugh or cry.

$44. 

To most people, it’s just a meal or perhaps 4 bowls of Yochi.  

I started this as a lesson in financial discipline for my young kids 10 years ago.  

The Bruce Lee quote behind me says it all 

“Knowing is not enough, we must apply. 

Willing is not enough, we must do.” 

My children didn’t just understand the lesson.  

I’m so proud that they are living it.

Her brother without being asked, without wanting credit showed me the kind of person he already is.

And that daughter of mine, showed me her responsibility by giving up her CNY red packets. 

We talk so much about what we want to teach our children.

Sometimes, they end up teaching us.

💬 Fellow parents do you practise co-payment with your children? 

Or has your child ever surprised you in a way you never saw coming? 

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Back at work on Chinese New Year Day 3.

My heart felt heavy despite the festive season. 

"Mel" (pseudonym) is in her mid forties.

A tremendously good mother trying to make life work for herself and 2 primary school kids. 

20 years ago, we were new rookies in the HR team. 

I was the one who first introduced myself:

"Hi I'm Jaslyn! Would you like to grab lunch together?"

Fast forward 20 years later. 

We sat down again this time, in our entirely new identities.

Mum with two kids + Fellow Female Entrepreneur. 

Mel said that I’m the first person she has ever so openly shared her financial situation with.

She wasn’t asking for miracles.

She was asking for clarity.

Sometimes people think divorce is a straightforward process:

Sign Here | Split the assets | Move On

But the truth is divorce requires a lot of thinking through.

Mel deliberated on it for 5 years.

That's because for working mothers, it requires even more strategic planning.

"Where to stay?"

"Can we afford a new house?"

"While I work, who can take care of the kids?"

"Can I afford their tuition fees?"

Every single question almost equates to having $ as a solution.

Yet finances is just a part of the load.

It is the mental load.

It is the emotional wellbeing of the kids who are trying to understand what's happening. 

Today we went back to the drawing board.

We worked out Mel's existing liabilities.

We made sure her protection gaps are closed.

We planned how to park the private matrimonial house sales proceeds safely.

For condo downgraders, there's the 15 month waiting period.

And that waiting period burns cash.

$3,000 per month just for rental while waiting to buy a HDB flat.

On paper, it is “process.”

In real life, it can feel like punishment.

Sometimes single mums are marginalised in ways people don’t talk about.

This conversation brought me back. 

I was on the same journey 7 years ago.

Some days it felt like I was walking through an endless dark tunnel.

But I had to keep walking hoping to see light at the end of it.

Simply because giving up is not even a choice. 

I was luckier in one way.

My profession gave me a path to stabilise faster, buying a house and settling the kids.

While we continue to rebuild our lives and heal together. 

Mel's conversation reminded me again.

Mothers are strong for a reason.

9 full months of "heavy lifting" during pregnancy.

Hours of intense labour pain.

Giving up our body’s nutrients and turning them into breastmilk.

Years of sleep deprivation.

It’s almost like nature quietly built resilience into us.

Just to make us more capable to cope with life's challenges.

If you are a single mum reading this:

If you are in the tunnel right now. Keep walking.

Believe your light will eventually come.

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𝐌𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐥𝐚, 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐒𝐡𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐝 𝐔𝐩! 🇵🇭

Truly honoured to be invited as a speaker for this 3-hour specially crafted MDRT Aspirant Workshop.

I flew into Manila to meet up with these enthusiastic participants and their leaders.

The room was full of zeal and energy.

All 60 of them were so ready to learn.

Some perhaps were ready to unlearn, learn and relearn.

Truth is, I am not a full time trainer.

Neither am I a professional speaker. 

I am just an ordinary (albeit dedicated) Financial Consultant and a Leader who is still on the ground running.

Showing up consistently for my clients for the past 9 years.

I ran this 3 hours workshop purely on adrenaline and the shared dynamic energy by the team.

Together with my deepest desire to give everything I had in that room.

Glad to say that it truly worked like magic! 🪄 

We kicked off the workshop with a fun game called "MDRT BINGO".

This was meant to be a mirror, showing all our common little fears. 

Every square on that card reflected a real struggle financial consultants face. 

When people started laughing at themselves, I knew the game had all broken down all the invisible walls. 

That's when the real work could begin.

Here's the hard truth I shared:

Most financial consultants who haven't cleared MDRT do not have a skill problem. 

They have a consistency problem. 

A prospecting problem. 

A procrastinating attitude of "I'll do it tomorrow, or worse next week / month / year" problem.

So this was the key issue to be fixed. 

Next we covered:

→ The real root causes holding people back

→ A daily prospecting system that is systematic, instead of emotion-led.

→ How to structure client conversations with confidence.

→ Live role-plays with real-time feedback

What struck me most was what happened after.

Different participants came up to thank me for the generous sharing. 

All these activities gave them the long-lost clarity and confidence which they had not experienced for a long long time.

A leader who came with her entire team told me she was grateful.

How I had reinforced basics. 

Not by theory but how I walked the talk myself as a TOT practitioners helping my clients. 

Finally came the Head of Learning & Development.

I was very heartened when she shared:

"Thank you Jaslyn, I've been through so many workshops. Yours was truly different. While others showed testimonials. 

You truly TAUGHT and imparted real skills."

That meant everything to me.

Yes MDRT is not a talent problem. 

It is a consistency problem.

Thank you Manulife Asia for this incredible opportunity for me to serve.

As I always say, "When we teach, we learn twice."

Next Stop: Singapore 🇸🇬

#MDRT #MDRTAspirants #ManulifePhilippines #Manulife #FinancialConsultant #BackToBasics #ConsistencyWins #Leadership #Training #AsiaInsurance

Chinese New Year with my team is never just a meal.

We start in the morning 10:00am in the office.

We’ve been on a break since CNY Eve, which was one week ago. 

That first day back in office hits differently.

It symbolises 开工大吉 : A Fresh 2026 year and beginning. 

Before all our meetings resume, we gather to sincerely wishes each another.

Every year, I prepare the 开工红包 myself.

I would source for the most meaningful ref packets. 
 
Each red packet comes with handwritten blessings for each team members. 

Intentional and courage for the quiet ones. 

Bigger vision for the steady ones.

Relentless focus for the high performers.

The team queues up one by one to exchange greetings.

They offer their blessings to me (their leader)

Whilst I pass them the red packet.

It is never about the amount inside.

It is about the Chinese culture and our values. 

Starting the year aligned and with purpose. 

We wrapped up the morning session with a good lunch feast. 

And of course, our standard yusheng.

High tossing with Loud Blessings 

Huat ah.

步步高升.

生意兴隆.

The higher the toss, the higher the growth.

Prosperity in business.

Prosperity in health.

Prosperity in relationships.

May everyone have 马到成功.

May opportunities gallop towards you.

May you run strong with 龙马精神.

And may this year be bold, abundant and worth celebrating.

Maybel Heng [Asia Employee Benefits Consultant of the Year] Jasmine Hong Celeste Xu Yating Mak Jaylyn Ng Gui Ying  
 
#ChineseNewYear2026 #KaiGongLunch #Redpackets 

Maybel Heng [Asia Employee Benefits Consultant of the Year] Celeste Xu Jasmine Hong Yating Mak Jaylyn Ng Gui Ying

𝐇𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐲 𝐈𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝗪𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧'𝐬 𝐃𝐚𝐲! 🎉

Today I celebrate with all of you. 

The women who showed up, spoke up, and never gave up.

But before the celebrations, I want to bring your attention to the women who have been deprived of all these basic human rights.

Let's take a hard look at Afghanistan today. 

If you happen to be a woman there:

❌ You cannot leave home without a male guardian. 

❌ You cannot work. 

❌ You cannot study beyond age 12. 

❌ You cannot speak in public. 

❌ You cannot even show your face.

Just a few days ago, a tougher Decree No. 12 was passed into law.

It means that your husband can now beat you with zero criminal consequences unless the wound is visible. 

If you wish to seek justice, you must prove your own abuse in front of a male judge, while fully covered, with a male guardian standing beside you who could be the very perpetrator.

Imagine 21 million women.

All deprived of education, career, voice and freedom.

These are not just distant statistics. 

These are real women, mothers, daughters just trying to survive another day.

I don't say this to cast a shadow on our celebrations. 

I say this because we are truly the lucky ones.

I am writing this because I have a voice and a platform. 

And I never take that for granted.

In 2017, I left corporate HR and walked into financial services. 

People who know, know. 

It is an industry easy to enter but extremely hard to survive, let alone thrive and earn the trust of clients.

Winner of the Asia Insurance Agent of the Year 2024.

9-time MDRT with 4 consecutive years of Top of the Table (TOT).

Each TOT is equivalent of 6x MDRT standards, representing the top 0.5% financial consultants globally. 

To me these are not trophies. 

They are proof that a woman who shows up daily with conviction that leads to a bigger PURPOSE.

And honestly, a big part of that attributes to my luck:

Born and bred in Singapore, while standing on the strong foundation that LKY's meritocracy built.

At the core of everything I do, I fight for women's financial independence. 

My life and my work tells me this fact: 

Money creates options. And options create FREEDOM. 

Freedom is something every woman deserves but not every woman gets to hold.

That is why I am so deeply grateful to call Singapore my home. 🇸🇬

Mr Lee Kuan Yew built a nation on meritocracy. 

Where a woman's worth is measured by her contribution. 

Where girls are educated alongside boys. 

Where working mothers are seen, valued and respected.

Not every woman in the world can say that. 

In fact, many still can't today.

I do not take a single day of this for granted.

So today, celebrate loudly. 

You deserve it, but let's carry these women in our hearts too.

🕊️ Happy International Women's Day.

Remember, let us all use our voice for someone who can't. YET.

👇 Who are you dedicating this IWD to?

#IWD2026 #InternationalWomensDay #MoneyIsFreedom #WomenInFinance #Singapore #UseYourVoice

𝗛𝗮𝗹𝗳𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝗧𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗠𝘆 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀𝗵𝗼𝗽, 𝗔 𝗖𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗧𝗲𝘅𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗠𝗲:

“𝗗𝗼𝗰𝘁𝗼𝗿 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗶𝗿𝗺𝗲𝗱 𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝗖𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲𝗿.”

Halfway through conducting the MDRT Aspirants Workshop yesterday, my phone buzzed.

What followed was an abrupt mesaage.

“I just came out from the clinic. Doctor confirmed it’s cancer.”

Then a histological report came that stated “Nasopharyngeal Carcinoma”. 

I replied: “I’m wrapping up the workshop. Let me call you the moment I’m done.”

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Mr and Mrs P were among my first few clients 9 years ago. 

They were in their late 40s. 

Three teenage kids and a pair of elderly parents to support.

When we first met, he said: “I already have insurance.”

I said “of course, at your age, I would be worried if you have nothing!

But my job is just to help you review. 

If everything’s complete, at least you will have a complete peace of mind.”

Five minutes into the review, 
I spotted the biggest gap. 

He has Zero Early-Stage critical illness coverage.

I didn’t push knowing he had a very tight budget. 

All I did was to ask him one thing:

If you knew your car was missing a seatbelt, would you feel safe letting your wife and kids sit in it?

Wouldn’t that be the first thing you would want to fix?

Today your car is your body. Early stage critical illness is your missing seatbelt. 

We did a small early-stage CI whole of life plan. 

He almost didn’t.

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Fast forward 9 years later.

Right after the workshop ended, I called him back after checking his plan details. 

There was awkward silence on the line 

I heard sniffling.

I guessed he was crying. 

But I did not intrude by asking firther. 

Sometimes the best thing you can offer isn’t “how are you.”

Words of consolation may make you feel better for a few minutes.

It’s what we call in Chinese 底气

It’s that quiet, grounded confidence to tell someone I’ve got your back. 

“Don't worry. You are covered,". 

Knowing a cheque is coming so Mr P can focus on surviving instead of providing.

As consultants, we spend a lot of time talking about targets, portfolios, and the "close." 

But yesterday was the ultimate reality check.

This is exactly why we do what we do.

It’s why, even after all these years, I still wake up every single morning with a huge sense of purpose. 

We are not just doing “sales”. 

Instead we are protecting families and lives fiercely. 

We are installing seatbelts and creating lifeboats for the exact moment the storm hits.

The next time a financial consultant approaches you, please accept it. 

You would never know that you could be missing the seatbelt for your family too. 

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✉️ DM me if you want to know if you’re missing a seatbelt too. 

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Thank you for sharing my story Prudential Assurance Company Singapore !

Most importantly it highlights the challenges of the sandwich generation many 30-50s are facing today. 

Resources are limited and stretched to be split into: 

- Parents’ Elderly Care

- Kids’ Education 

- Ongoing Household Expenses

- Future Retirement 

It always pays to save and invest for rainy days.

View company: Prudential Assurance Company Singapore

When Jaslyn Ng, Prudential Assurance Company Singapore Financial Services Director, saw her father go through a rare spinal stroke, recovery took time and required changes in their lifestyle and at home. It was a reminder of what she’s shared with her customers: a critical illness doesn’t just result in medical bills; caregivers may have to step away from work to care for the patient.

As a single parent and a sandwich generation caring for her children and elderly parents, the impact was immediate. This is why health and protection planning matters. For single parents and women caregivers, protection helps families cope during health gap years - when work stops, income pauses and recovery takes priority. 

Read Jaslyn’s story and budgeting insights in Lianhe Zaobao 联合早报: https://lnkd.in/gtX6CS_C

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