Aesara Partners 

At Aesara Partners, our mission is simple: enable you to be the best version of yourself. We offer a range of focused services that unlock the potential of people, teams and cultures to maximise business performance. 

Collectively our Partners and Associates have decades of experience both in executive coaching and as board level leaders themselves working in multiple sectors across global markets.

Partner & Executive Coach

Doshisha University

Professor of Strategic Management, Global MBA Program

The CFO Coach K.K.

The CFO Coach K.K. is a boutique executive coaching firm specializing in developing High-Performance​ Financial Leaders and Teams.

Founder & Executive Coach

Kansai Gaidai University

•	Awarded President's Global Education Award (Teacher of the Year).

Professor of Leadership & Management

Benesse Holdings, Inc. (USD 4.5B; Tokyo Stock Exchange Code: 9783)

•	Member of the Board of Directors for Berlitz Corporation; Benesse Corporation; and Benesse Style Care.  Chairman of Audit Committee for Berlitz Corporation. Member of Benesse Holdings Pension Committee.
•	Global CFO covering all 40+ Benesse group companies
•	Championed and supported multiple cash generation initiatives including a CFO led "Save to Grow" initiative to improve Company Financial performance and to identify significant savings for business reinvestment
•	Enhanced Finance bench strength and hired a high potential team to start financial business consulting
•	Implemented several process and capability best practices to move group companies towards global standards

Global Chief Financial Officer & Corporate Senior Vice President

McCann Worldgroup Holdings

• Overall Responsibility for Operations (Finance, IT, Legal, and Administration - 10 legal entities) 
• Successfully turned around long term loss making lead agency by delivering double digit margin improvements within two years
• Delivered double digit margin improvements for all six MWG Group companies 
• Built a new Finance team and moved from Scorekeeping to Business Partnership and improved business performance
• Major projects within last two years include: 
  - Shared Service center creation/migration
  - New Financial System Migration
  - Acquisition & Divestiture
  - Business Turnaround
  - Retirement Plan consolidation/change
  - Office relocation/rent reductions

Group Chief Financial Officer, Executive Vice President, and Member of The Board

Becton, Dickinson and Company

• Led Finance, Procurement, General Affairs, and Rebates teams (43 staff) to deliver multi-million dollar cash and profit performance improvement for first year and beyond. Exceeded all budget expectations.
• Engaged Japan Management Team and Global Finance Leadership Team on company objectives to deliver best outcome (Finance Transformation initiative, Sales effectiveness improvement, Key Account Management, Business Continuity plan, and strategy/selection of backup distribution center).  Led process for 2012-16 Business Plan development
• Developed and executed Finance department strategy and vision to move from scorekeeping to business partnership. Implemented job rotation program and hired several high potential employees to improve bench strength.
• Championed multiple Finance and Procurement initiatives including definition and implementation of new 401k Retirement Plan; divestiture of non-core business; change of primary banks (reduced bank fees by over 30%); vendor reduction process, and new travel expense management system 
• Taught New Manager Essentials program and selected as leadership trainer for PEPFAR program in South Africa to teach Leadership and Change Management to African Health Ministry officials

Finance and Administration Director

Avon Products Inc.

•	Implementation project leader for Avon Sales Leadership Framework (ASLF) – Highest priority project for the Company to adapt to a new Sales Model.  Completed project implementation in record timing.  Awarded regional award as part of ASLF Team. Only person in Asia recognized for both Top-line and Bottom-line contributions in the same year.
•	Defined and executed new vision and mission and led Sales Support department to complete over 40 initiatives (within a six-month period) as part of Team’s new journey towards field motivational excellence. Incorporated new processes to deliver high impact incentives, and to create Sales energy and momentum for sales turn-around.    
•	Achieved highest employee engagement scores with Sales Support Department significantly exceeding country results in over 95% of categories.  Previously had also led Finance department to highest employee engagement scores.
•	Global Project leader for a high potential, multi-functional, multi-national team to study and recommend actions to improve Global Sales Incentive management/spending process.
•	Oversaw execution of a variety of Company and Public/Media events ranging from Sales Conferences to Philanthropic events including Annual Awards to Women, and Pink Ribbon Campaign support.

Executive Director and Member of the Board

•	Responsible for Financial policy making/implementation and reporting for Avon Japan as a public company (including statutory/public, and Board Meetings). All year-end financial documents audited with no comments/exceptions.
•	Defined and executed new department Vision and Mission, and recruited, trained and developed a completely new Finance team (80% new hires within a six month period) to move from scorekeeping to business partnership. Finance team formed core of country high potential list.
•	Consistently over achieved profit performance commitment under adverse conditions of sales decline by aggressively managing strategic business needs with cost cutting; Delivered zero overhead growth during all years; Japan winner of regional awards for best cost management performance, and for boldest transformation strategy.
•	Provided leadership and support for critical decisions and strategy development as Japan Leadership Team Member.  Actively led change management process within company.
•	Consistently achieved best internal control results in Asia-Pacific/Avon over a period of eight audits.  Japan one of only two countries with highest audit rating. Outstanding performance generated support to remove Japan from list of High Coverage countries.
• Co-developed strategic/financial business case, and obtained approval for number of campaign reduction in 2006 making Avon Japan only country ever in Avon to undergo campaign reduction. 
• Independently analyzed and provided strategic direction for Plant study which challenged and reversed previous recommendation by outside consultants on plant closure.
• Provided leadership in several restructuring initiatives by providing an achievable plan to achieve 12% people related cost reduction.  Played lead role in this study representing Finance, Supply Chain and HR 
• Consistently achieved highest performance rating and nominations to several high potential programs
• Elected (and re-elected) to Board of Directors

Executive Director, CFO and Member of the Board of Directors

Delphi

• Prepared Asia-Pacific regional messages / presentations for Delphi Strategy Board, and for Delphi Board of Directors.
• Supported development and implementation of critical Asia-Pacific strategies.  Performed competitive intelligence and other special studies to identify risks / competitive threats and outlined regional / corporate response.
• Provided Miller Heiman strategic selling process training to Asia-Pacific personnel to improve value propositions and increase sales effectiveness.

Director Asia-Pacific Planning

• Management responsibilities for Finance, HR, General Affairs, and Six-Sigma.
• Active member of the Japan Strategy Board and Japan management team.  
• Six-Sigma Deployment Champion for Delphi Japan.

Delphi Japan – CFO & Administration Director

Country Responsibilities:
• Managed all finance functions including accounting, budgeting / forecasting and treasury.
• Lead development of cross-functional and cross-divisional Internal Control Review Board.
• Lead and supported strategic initiatives including venture development support, site enhancement, competitive analysis, transfer pricing, and cost reduction studies.
• Represented Japan in Asia-Pacific Financial Task Team.

Regional Responsibilities:
• Coached country CFO and staff to implement common financial reporting processes.
• Supervised and provided training for engineering / commercial / plant / site analysts.  Coordinated regional financial training programs for the sector in the Asia-Pacific region.
• Coordinated the regional budget, business plan, and capital management process.
• Supported development of common financial practices among ventures including:  Loan monitoring, F/X and cash management, compliance with accounting principles, report submission, etc. Provided regional oversight of venture risk exposure.

Asia-Pacific Senior Finance Mgr.

Executive Coach | MBA Professor | Ex-Global CFO

I help senior leaders master complexity, elevate strategic impact, and lead with authentic authority.

I bring over 25 years of C-level and boardroom experience as a former Global CFO for a $5B publicly traded company, combined with a deep commitment to human-centered leadership development.

Today, I coach global executives, CEOs, and leadership teams — specializing in executive transitions, strategic leadership, high-performance teams, and Asian leadership development.

I am also an MBA Professor of Leadership and Strategic Management, blending research-driven frameworks with boardroom-tested insights to develop transformational leaders.

Based in Kyoto, fluent in English, Urdu, and Japanese.

Connect with me: arif@thecfocoach.jp

Website: www.thecfocoach.jp (please sign up on my mailing list to receive future announcements and newsletters)

Arif Iqball

Most execs don’t notice the decline until it starts to cost them.

Energy crashes in meetings. Brain fog during deals. Bloating, back pain, or just not liking what they see in the mirror.

It starts small: skipped workouts, poor sleep, more caffeine. But over time, it turns into a real liability. 

Professionally. Personally. Physically.

That’s where we come in.

We work with high-level founders, execs, and board-level leaders to transform their health and body, without disrupting their schedule, social life, or performance.

Our system combines biometric data, wearable integration, targeted strength training, and a tailored performance framework to rebuild energy, drop 10–20kg, and restore clarity, confidence, and control.

This isn’t a PT app, a generic plan, or a “health kick.”

It’s a high-accountability transformation, built for operators who can’t afford to lose their edge.

If your body is becoming a liability instead of an asset, it’s time to take it seriously.

📩 Message me to learn about our private programme 

Tom Waite

The greatest leaders don’t just care about results.

They care about the person in front of them.

They understand that performance is personal.

That people don’t just follow titles.

They follow those who make them feel seen, heard and remembered.

Empathy isn’t a nice-to-have.

It separates good managers from unforgettable leaders.

And you don’t need a title to lead.

When you lead with empathy, you lead your team, your family, your community.

Through listening.
Through presence.
Through how you make people feel.

Here’s what high EQ leaders do differently:

1) They listen with full attention
No distractions. No rushing. Just presence.

2) They regulate before they respond
Pressure doesn’t shake them. It sharpens their clarity.

3) They honour the human behind the role
Work is personal. One conversation can change a life.

4) They tell the truth with care
They don’t avoid discomfort. They use it to build trust.

5) They show up consistently
Not just when it’s easy, but when it counts.

Anyone can hold a title.
Few earn trust.
Even fewer leave a legacy.

Which of these traits have you seen in the best leaders you’ve worked with?

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Performance health coaching for executives and founders | Build a body that matches your ambition.

Scrolling makes you reactive.

Strolling makes you reflective.

Most people think burnout comes from overwork.

But often, it’s from overstimulation.

Every scroll, ping, and swipe spikes dopamine.

You feel busy, but not fulfilled. 

Stimulated, but not stable.

Your brain gets stuck in survival mode:

• Constant mental noise
• Shorter attention spans
• Less empathy and patience

When you walk, disconnect, or move slowly, the chemistry flips.

Serotonin and oxytocin rise.

Prefrontal activity (the logic and leadership center) comes back online.

You start to think clearly again.

That’s not just relaxation, it’s regulation.

And regulation is what separates reactivity from leadership.

High performers aren’t the ones doing the most.

They’re the ones thinking the clearest.

3 ways to expand your mind:

 1️⃣ Redesign your digital space.

Remove social apps from your home screen and turn off “suggested” feeds. Increase scrolling friction, regain focus.

2️⃣ Notice the world again.

Your brain filters out what you stop paying attention to. Sit quietly. Observe nature. Look for patterns, light, and sound.

3️⃣ Make a new connection.

Speak to your barista. Compliment a stranger. Connection activates neurochemicals that scrolling can’t replicate.

Reactivity shrinks your world.

Reflection expands it.

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High performance isn’t built on talent. 

It’s built on trust.

In my work with executives and founders, change means facing uncomfortable truths. 

Habits tell a story. And sometimes, that story isn’t flattering.

Low trust kills those conversations before they even start.

High trust turns them into clarity, commitment, and action.

And high trust isn’t some rare talent you’re born with.

It’s something anyone can create: in their team, their family, or their own personal growth.

Here’s how.

1. Match your actions to your promises:
If you say you’ll deliver by Friday, deliver by Friday. Nothing erodes trust faster than missed commitments, and nothing builds it faster than keeping your word.

2. Lead with intent, not ego:
People read your motives before they hear your words. Make it clear you want what’s best for them, not for your own image.

3. Tell the truth early and often:
Avoid sugarcoating until it’s “the right time.” Consistent honesty builds safety faster than perfectly timed revelations.

4. Listen for the story under the words:
 High trust isn’t just about speaking. It’s about hearing what people aren’t saying and proving you understand their reality.

5. Hold the line with empathy
Boundaries protect progress. You can be compassionate while still holding people accountable to the standard they’ve agreed to.

High trust doesn’t make hard conversations easier.

It makes them possible.

And anyone can create it.

What’s one small thing someone's done for you to build trust? 

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Looking back, almost everything that mattered came from mistakes.

Not books.
Not courses.

The moments that actually changed how I operate came from getting it wrong, then pivoting. 

That’s why advice alone rarely works.

And why understanding something doesn’t always mean you’ve learned it.

You can read the right thing.
Hear the right thing.
Believe the right thing.

And still not change.

Because real learning doesn’t happen in your head.

It happens when something doesn’t work the way you expected.

Mistakes aren’t a detour.

They’re the curriculum.

Three useful reframes:

1) Being wrong isn’t a setback, it’s feedback.

Most people stop because they treat mistakes as proof they should quit, instead of information about what to adjust.

2) Confusion usually means you’re close to learning something real.

Clarity often comes after friction. If everything feels obvious, you’re probably still in theory.

3) Progress speeds up when mistakes show up faster.

 Short feedback loops teach more than perfect plans.

 What are you avoiding because you don’t want to get it wrong?

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We wait for symptoms. We wait until it’s urgent.

But the longer you wait, the more it costs.

“Healthy food is expensive”?

Try a $25,000 heart surgery.

“Training takes too much time”?

So does recovery from gastric band surgery.

“Supplements are a waste”?

GLP‑1 meds cost $10k per year. And most people struggle to come off.

Every time you delay the basics, you’re borrowing against your future.

And the interest shows up in fatigue, meds, inflammation, and regret.

✅ Daily walks are free
✅ Protein and fiber beat prescriptions
✅ Sleep and stress management protect your brain
✅ Lifting weights protects who you want to be in the future. 

Health isn’t free.

You spend time or money.

Invest in it early - or pay the price later.

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You’ve got 30 summers left… if you’re lucky...

Your health will decide what they look like:

You don’t lose it all at once.

 It slips away slowly.

First energy.
Then your sleep.
Then your strength.

Then the ability to enjoy your own life.

Here's how to stay in control:

✅ Handle your stress.
 Go for a walk. Talk to someone. Don’t let it pile up.

✅ Lift heavy.
Twice a week is enough. But show up and do the work.

✅ Walk every damn day.
Around the block. Up a hill. On the phone. Doesn’t matter. Just move.

✅ Take your sleep seriously.
 Cut the screen. Go to bed. You already know what’s ruining it.

✅ Rest before you break.
 Take a breath. Cancel something. Nothing works if you’re wrecked.

Your future won't wait. But it will reward you if you prepare for it.

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You don't rise by skipping sleep.

You rot.

Most high performers think they're the exception.

They learn the hard way they're not.

I know because I've been there.

You tell yourself you're fine because:

→ You're just finishing a few emails in bed
→ You wake up foggy, scroll, and hit snooze twice
→ You start your day tired, wired, and already behind

It feels normal.

But it isn't safe.

Here's what the science shows:

🔻 Sleeping under 7 hours (without weekend recovery) raises your risk of heart attack and stroke by 20%


🔻 Less than 6 hours of sleep increases your risk of coronary heart disease by 48%, and stroke by 15%


🔻 When you’re sleep-deprived, your brain gets confused. It starts clearing out not just waste, but healthy brain cells too.

You're not just tired.

You're running on survival mode.

And your body is keeping the score.

Every night of poor sleep:

→ Drops decision quality by 40%
→ Cuts creative problem-solving in half
→ Tanks emotional regulation
→ Erases your competitive edge

But this is fixable.

And it doesn't require a total life overhaul.

These four science-backed habits protect your brain, energy, and future:

1️⃣ Wake up at the same time every day
Even with shorter sleep, regularity lowers mortality risk
→ Start with just 3 consistent days/week and build from there

2️⃣ Build a wind-down routine
Your brain needs clear shutdown cues
→ Stretch, breathe, journal—no screens, no caffeine
→ Set a non-negotiable cutoff time

3️⃣ Get 30 minutes of morning light
Natural light resets your internal clock
→ Doubles your daytime energy
→ Helps you fall asleep 2x faster at night

4️⃣ Switch off screens 1 hour before bed
Blue light disrupts your sleep hormone production
→ Use night mode or blue blockers if you must work
→ Better yet: Read a physical book

You don't need to grind harder.

You need a nervous system that isn't fried.

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Speed feels productive.

Direction creates progress.

Most people attack their goals with speed.

They start fast. 

New plan. 
New routine. 
New burst of motivation.

Then life happens.

Motivation dips. 
Energy fades. 
Focus scatters.

The speed disappears, and so does the goal.

Because speed only lasts as long as motivation does.

Direction is different.

Direction is knowing where you are going before you decide how fast to move.

It is boring. 
Repetitive. 
Unsexy. 

And it works.

When direction is clear, speed becomes optional.

You still move forward on the days you do not feel like it.

Here is how to build direction into your goals.

1) Define the end state in one sentence
 
Not a vague outcome. A specific result you can recognize when you arrive.

2) Reduce the goal to non negotiables

Identify the two or three actions that actually move the needle. Ignore everything else.

3) Design for low energy days

Your plan should work at 60 percent effort, not only when motivation is high.

4) Measure direction, not intensity

Track consistency and alignment, not how hard you pushed this week.

5) Commit to a time horizon

Decide in advance how long you are willing to stay the course, regardless of how you feel.

Speed feels good.

Direction changes your life.

Where in your goals are you relying on speed instead of direction?

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Intensity looks impressive day to day.

Consistency will change your life.

We are taught to perform at our peak.

Full focus.
High energy.
Maximum output.

That version of performance exists.

It just doesn't exist often.

Real progress happens on average days.

When energy is fine, not great.

When effort is not perfect, but present.

On April 7th, 2025, I committed to posting every day.

With clear intent.
With standards.
And one non negotiable rule. Show up.

Some days the post was strong.

Some days it was basic.

Some days I questioned why I was doing it at all.

I posted anyway.

Since then, those posts have reached over 2,000,000 people.

And I already know this time next year it will be bigger.

Not because every day is high quality.

Because there are no restarts.

If you want to apply this to achieve any goal, here are three simple principles.

1) Design for average days

If your system only works when you feel switched on, it will fail.

2) Protect frequency over quality

Quality improves through repetition, not pressure.

3) Remove restart thinking

There is no on and off switch. There is only continuation.

You do not need perfect conditions.

You need a habit of showing up.

That is how growth actually compounds.

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You already know exactly what to do

You just keep choosing not to.

Your problem isn’t knowledge.

It’s that doing it consistently feels harder when the goal isn’t tied to a wedding, a vacation, or proving something to someone else.

When motivation comes from external events or people, it disappears as soon as they do.

But consistency is built when your actions align with who you are, not what’s happening around you.

The strongest habits don’t come from feeling inspired, they come from deciding who you are even when no one is watching.

Here’s how to make consistency part of your identity, not a chore:

1) Identity before habit.

 Ask “Who is the person who does this naturally?” and start acting like them now.

2) Evidence over emotion.

 You don’t need motivation to start.
 Track small wins daily, and let those wins build your identity.

3) Environment equals honesty.

Design your space to make the right choice easy: consistency grows where friction disappears.

4) Language shapes identity.

Stop saying “I should do this.” 
Say “I’m the kind of person who does this.”

5) Return faster.

Consistency doesn’t mean never slipping.
It means coming back faster every time you do.

You don’t need to prove anything to anyone.

You just need to live what you already know, but aren't yet acting on.

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Back to back meetings don’t just steal time.

They steal clarity.

Your day keeps moving.
Your mind never catches up.

One meeting ends.
Another begins.

No pause.
No reset.
No closure.

You feel productive, but scattered.

Busy, but mentally flat.

Your brain gets pushed into a stress loop:

• Rising cognitive strain
• Declining focus and engagement
• Shorter patience and poorer decisions

Burnout isn’t just exhaustion.

It shows up as poorer thinking.

You don’t feel tired first.

You feel reactive, rushed, and mentally unfinished.

Microsoft researchers measured this directly using EEG.

When meetings ran back to back, stress related brain waves kept climbing.

When short breaks were added, stress dropped between meetings and stayed stable.

The brain reset instead of stacking load.

That reset changed everything.

Focus returned.
Engagement improved.
Transitions stopped feeling overwhelming.

That is not rest.

That is performance regulation.

And regulation is what separates reactive workers from effective leaders.

High performers are not the ones sitting in the most meetings.

They are the ones protecting their ability to think.

3 ways to work with your brain, not against it:

1️⃣ Shorten meetings by default.

End five to ten minutes early. That gap is not wasted time, it is cognitive recovery.

2️⃣ Step away from screens between calls.

Walk, stretch, breathe, or simply look outside. Your brain recovers faster when visual demand drops.

3️⃣ Question which meetings are necessary.

Many updates belong in documents, messages, or async check ins, not live calls.

Back to back meetings drain clarity.

Intentional breaks restore it.

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Meriam reached out in August. 8kg down by December. Wedding ready ✅ 

We work together online. 

But take the opportunity to train when we can. 

Tweak things. Refine technique. 

Make sure she’s set up to keep progressing.

It’s great to have those in-person sessions when we can. But coaching isn’t about creating dependence.

It’s about teaching you how to train yourself. 

How to navigate your own program. 

How to adjust when life throws you off track.

Progress is never a straight line. 

Work gets busy. Travel happens. Stress hits.

And having someone help you navigate those moments instead of quitting? 

That’s what keeps you moving forward.

Coaching isn’t just tweaking form or refining plans. 

It’s about connection. Support. 

Someone who knows your life and helps you stay consistent when it gets hard.

Meriam didn’t just lose 8kg. 

She built the skills to keep going without needing me every step of the way.

That’s the point.

If you’re ready to build a system that actually works with your life, DM to see how we can help.

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Yoni lost 12.5kg in 16 weeks and saw his abs for the first time. But that’s not what this is about..

Yoni talks about something most high performers don’t want to admit: 

You can’t be a high performer everywhere except your body.

You lead at work. You execute in your career. 

You show up for your team. But your health? 

That’s been slipping. 

And the inconsistency between who you are professionally and who you are physically creates a gap you can feel every day.

Tired by 3pm. 
Avoiding mirrors. 
Pulling at your clothes. 
Low energy with your family. 

You’re winning everywhere except the one place that actually keeps you in the game.

Yoni realized: if you’re a high performer, your body needs to reflect that. 

Not because of vanity. 

Because misalignment costs you. 

Energy. Presence. Confidence. 

The ability to show up fully in every area of your life.

12.5kg down. Abs showing. But more importantly: alignment restored. 

That’s what high performance actually looks like.

If you’re ready to close that gap, DM me to find out how we can help.

We’ve helped hundreds of executives transform their health. Today we’re opening limited spaces for January. 

Those transformations didn’t come from challenges or extremes.

And they didn’t come by asking them to care less about their work or families.

The pattern is always the same.

Highly capable people.
High standards everywhere else in life.

But their health keeps slipping because it has no structure when pressure is high.

Long days turn into missed sessions.
Stress turns food choices reactive.
Energy drops.

And every few weeks it feels like starting again from scratch.

This is not a motivation problem.

It’s a systems problem.

That’s exactly what this January coaching intake is designed to solve.

This is high level coaching built around structure, standards, and systems that fit your life.

Clear training.
Simple nutrition.
Backup plans for stressful weeks.
 
Real accountability.

The outcome goes far beyond physique changes.

Calm and control around food.
Confidence in how you look and move.
A body that feels strong and capable again and complements every area of your life.

And the relief of knowing this finally lasts.

I work closely and selectively with the people I coach, which means spaces are limited and the work is taken seriously on both sides.

January coaching spaces are now open.

If you’re tired of spinning your wheels and want to explore whether this is the right fit, message me January and we’ll have a short, honest conversation and roadmap your health in 2026.

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